Monga tanena mu mutu wa buku lodziŵika bwino - iwo achokera ku Mars, ndipo ndife ochokera ku Venus. Mosiyana kwambiri kuti nthaŵi zina mumatayika ndipo simukudziwa choti mungakambirane nawo. Kufunsa funso momwe mungaphunzire kuyankhulana ndi amuna, choyamba muyenera kukhala nawo chidwi.
Kuti mukhale wokongola kwa interlocutor wanu, muyenera kukhala wokongola kwa inu nokha. Dzifunseni nokha kuchokera kunja: mawonekedwe anu akugwirizana bwanji ndi dziko lamkati? Muyenera kukhala mogwirizana ndi inu nokha, muyenera kukhala omasuka. Chirichonse chimene anganene, anthu amakonda maso. Samalani kuti nthawizonse muwoneke bwino-bwino, chachikazi ndi wachigololo.
Muyenera kukhala ndi zofuna zina, zokondweretsa, zosangalatsa. Moyo wakuda tsiku ndi tsiku umakopa amuna aang'ono. Amakonda akazi okongola amene amakhala "mokwanira." Pezani phunziro kwa inu nokha. Zitha kukhala kuvina, mawu, kusambira, kuyendera nthawi zonse ku masewera olimbitsa thupi - chirichonse. Chinthu chachikulu chomwe inu muli nacho chinachake choti muyankhule, phunzirani kukweza chidwi mwa munthu wanu.
Ngati mwamuna sakufuna kuyankhulana, ndiye kuti mwaphonyapo kanthu, kapena sikuti mumangomupatsa nthawi yeniyeni. Malingaliro apadera oyankhulana bwino ndi anyamata ndi anyamata ndi awa:
- Musaiwale za kukongola kwa kunja;
- khalani omasuka kulankhulano;
- chikhalidwe cha khalidwe lanu ndi chofunikira;
- kumwetulira ndi kukhala wodzipereka;
- khalani okondwa, nthawizonse mukhale ndi mbiri zachilendo;
- embellish (zonse zachitidwa), koma musati muthamange;
- Musalankhule za abwenzi anu akale ndi maubwenzi akale;
- Musati "muzimangirira" munthuyo mwamwano ndi zokambirana zopanda pake;
- musakhale momasuka kwambiri;
- zambiri funsani ndi kumvetsera.
Mmene mungayankhulire ndi munthu wosudzulana?
Mu funso la momwe mungayankhulire ndi mwamuna wosudzulana, nkofunikira kuzindikira mfundo zina zofunika. Munthuyu ali ndi zochitika za moyo wa banja, amadziwa chomwe mkazi angakhalepo asanafike ndi pambuyo pa banja. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, munthu uyu "akukuwonani" ndi mawonekedwe, fufuzani mphamvu ndikudikirira chinyengo. Ngati muli ndi chinachake choti mubise, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zovuta kubisala. Tangoganizani musanayambe kunama komanso mwachinyengo. Sadzalola kulekerera.
Mmene mungayankhulire ndi munthu wachuma?
Momwe mungayankhulire ndi mwamuna ndi ndalama, ngati simukukonda kampeni kake kokha, koma iye mwini? Pano muyenera kusonyeza kudziletsa, koma osati zazhatost. Khalani odzichepetsa, koma musataye mphatso. Khalani odziimira ndipo panthawi yomweyi kufooka kwanu.
Ngati mukutsatira cholinga chanu cho "kusinthitsa" icho, mukhale okonzeka kulipira mtengo wake. Amuna olemera amakono, oumitsidwa ndi chidziwitso, sangalole kuti agwiritsidwe ntchito. Palibe munthu amene angakonde kukhala chinthu chopangira munthu wina. Khalani ololera.
Funso lina lomwe liyenera kuganiziridwa ndi momwe mungalankhulire ndi amuna okalamba? Chigamulo chanu pa nkhaniyi chiyenera kukhala: "Kuwonjezera apo, chiwerewere nthawi yomweyo, chabwino
Kukwanitsa kuyankhulana ndi abambo kumadza ndi zochitika. Ngati musasonyeze kusakhulupirira, khalani pafupi ndi kubisala, ndiye kuti zokhudzana ndi chidziwitso ndi chilankhulo simungathe. Palibe amene ali ndi zolakwa, munthu sayenera kuopa moyo. Kuopa kumachepetsa mphamvu zathu. Munthu wolumala ndi munthu wolumala, choncho, ayenera kuchotsa mantha. Kumbukirani kuti maofesi amalepheretsa kulankhulana bwino. Yesetsani kuthetseratu.