Iwo amati mu chikondi - monga mu nkhondo, njira zonse ndi zabwino. Ndi chifukwa chake atsikana ena amapita kumatsenga. Msonkhano wa ukwati wakuda ndi mawonekedwe okhudzidwa omwe amagwirizanitsa zolinga za anthu. Ukwati wakuda umasiyana ndi mpingo wamba umene umachitidwa popanda kuvomerezana. Nchifukwa chiyani timafunikira matsenga amphamvu kwambiri ? Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti chikhoza kuchitika pamene simukugwirizana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndipo chimene chimachitika kuchokera nthawi yomwe mabalawo akuyamba kubweretsa miyoyo ya anthu awiri ndikusintha njira ya moyo m'njira yoti anthu azikondana. Kukwatirana kwaukwati kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo ndiwothandiza kwambiri kuti chitukuko cha ubale wolimba kwambiri.
Sitinakulimbikitseni kuti muzichita mwambo waukwati nokha, chifukwa mwambo umenewu ndi wovuta kwambiri ndipo ukuchitidwa mothandizidwa ndi magulu ena a mdziko la pansi pamanda. Munthu wosaphunzitsidwa sangawathetsere, motero ngakhale mfiti ndi asing'anga nthawi zambiri sagwirizana nazo.
Kodi mwambo waukwati umagwira ntchito bwanji?
Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti ngati mwambo wakuda wa ukwati sunapangidwe molondola, zotsatira zake zikhoza kukhala zosadziŵika bwino, mpaka kufa msanga, kwa odzudzula ndi osakudziwa. Popeza kuti mwambo ukuchitika mothandizidwa ndi moyo pambuyo pake, miyoyo ya akufa ikhoza kuyesa kutenga moyo wanu kapena kubwezera, kotero n'zotheka kuti padzakhalanso zovuta kapena kuthetsa moyo wa wina m'thupi lanu.
Mabalawo ndi amphamvu kwambiri komanso othandiza, koma samapangitsa munthu kuti asadziwe ndipo safuna kudziwitsa, ndiko kuti, munthuyo akutsimikiziridwa kuti akhalebe munthu yemwe mumadziwa kuyambira pachiyambi.
Ukwati Wamtundu - Zizindikiro
Kuti mudziwe ngati munthu wadzikongoletsera, wamatsenga wodziwa yekha angathe. Koma, komabe, palinso zizindikiro zina zomwe zingasonyeze kuti mwambo waukwati wamtunduwu unkachitidwa pa munthu. Kodi ndi liti pamene ndikuyenera kuyamba kulira? Mwamuna amene wamangidwa mwadzidzidzi ali ndi chikoka chodziwika bwino cha kugonana, komanso chidwi chowonjezeka. Kuonjezera apo, mwadzidzidzi, sikumangomva za munthu amene adachita mapepalawo, komanso chikhumbo cholumikizana naye miyoyo yawo ndikupanga banja.