Ngati muwona kuti mwayi waumoyo wanu umakhala wosalephereka, zingakhale zopindulitsa kutembenukira kumalo osakhala achikhalidwe kufunafuna zomwe zimayambitsa. Pali mwayi kuti kuti mukhazikitse moyo wanu, muyenera kuchotsa kuwonongedwa kwa kusungulumwa - mungathe ngakhale nokha.
Ziphuphu kusungulumwa: zimayambitsa ndi zizindikiro
Ngakhale m'nthawi yathu ino, pamene anthu ochepa amakhulupirira kuwononga ndi kupanga chiwembu, pali ena amene akugwiritsabe ntchito. Kawirikawiri amalephera kuwononga kwa wokonda wokongola, mdani wautali, kapenanso ngakhale mnzanu wapamtima - choncho ndi kovuta kuganiza kuti mbali yiti ikudikirira kupha. Pambuyo pa kuwonongeka, mkaziyo ali yekhayekha ndipo sizimayambitsa chidwi chilichonse kwa anyamata kapena atsikana - kapena, ndi oimira oyenerera.
Mosiyana ndi korona wa kulekerera, chiwembu choterocho chimakhudza munthu yekha amene adakopeka. Korona wa kunyada kungadutsedwe ndi mibadwo.
Zizindikiro za kuwonongeka kotereku ndizowala kwambiri, ndipo mungathe kuona ngati izi zikukuchitikirani:
- Iwe ndiwe wokongola, wochenjera, wochenjera ndi wokondwa, mwangwiro udziyang'ane wekha, koma kwa nthawi yaitali popanda mavalo.
- Kulikonse komwe mumawonekera, simugwiritsa ntchito abwenzi, ngakhale kuti mumawoneka bwino.
- Amuna anu amakhala zidakwa, osokoneza bongo, psychopaths, ndi zina zotero.
- Maubwenzi sakhala osatha komanso odalirika.
- Nthawi zambiri mumatuluka ndipo muli ndi amuna ambiri omwe mumadziwa bwino, koma palibe amene akufuna kuti azigwirizana naye.
Ngati zambiri mwazizindikirozi zikukhudza iwe, yesetsani kupeza anthu odziwa bwino bwino - amatha kufotokozera za matendawa komanso mwina kupereka thandizo.
Dziwani ngati kuwonongeka kwachotsedwa, mungathe mosavuta: mutatha miyambo yambiri, moyo wanu udzasintha, achinyamata adzawonekera mmenemo. Ndikofunika kuti uzichita nokha: kuyendera kawirikawiri m'malo otukuka, pamaphwando, ndi pamsewu, kuonjezera mwayi wokomana ndi munthu weniweni.
Ziphuphu kusungulumwa: kuchotsa chotani?
Ngati mwakhazikitsa matenda anu, koma simukufuna kufunsa kwa akatswiri, mukhoza kuchotsa mavuto kunyumba. Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita pa nkhaniyi ndi kufufuza nyumba mosamalitsa, kuyang'ana pa ngodya iliyonse, pambuyo poyambanso kuvala magolovesi apanyanja. Mukuyang'ana zinthu zokayikitsa: ngodya, mapini, mpira wa ulusi, matumba a mchere kapena croup. Zonse zomwe mumapeza, muyenera kuzitsuka, kuwotcha, kutsanulira madzi oyera ndi kutaya kunja - ndi bwino kukumba.
Kumbukirani pamene kusungulumwa kunadza kwa inu. Kodi munaiwala zinthu panthawiyo, simunapeze mphatso? Musaganize za anthu akutali: kawirikawiri anthu oterewa amadzipereka ndi abwenzi apamtima. Ngati mukukumbukira zigawo zoterezi, zinthu izi zimafunikanso kutenthedwa. Ngati pozungulira nthawi yomweyo mumapeza zinthu zodzikongoletsera kapena kugula zinthu zilizonse ndikugwiritsa ntchito zinthuzo - kuchotsani. Ndi bwino kuitana wansembe kapena kuyeretsa nyumba ndi kandulo ndi madzi oyera. Pambuyo pake, muwona mwamsanga kusintha kwa moyo wanu.
Ziphuphu kusungulumwa: kuchotsa madzi motani?
Chotsani zowonongeka kunyumba zingakhale njira ina. Kawirikawiri izo zimachitidwa ngati palibe singano zomwe zimapezeka m'nyumba, ndi zina zotero. Mwambo uwu umagwirizanitsidwa ndi madzi, ndipo umathandiza kwambiri ngati chowongolera chikuloledwa kumadzi.
Mudzasowa madzi, opatsidwa mphamvu zabwino - mwachitsanzo, opatulidwa mu mpingo kapena kuchotsedwa ku gwero la madzi oyera. Sambani ndi nsalu, pukutani maso anu, mukuti: "Maganizo amveka bwino, mutu ukuwoneka bwino, chifukwa unali - kuchoka kwamuyaya."
Komanso, kuti muchotse kuwonongeka, mudzapeza chithunzithunzi chotetezera, chifukwa madzi oyera ndi amtengo wapatali kwambiri. Poyambirira mumapanga mwambowu, bwino. Pambuyo pa izi, yesetsani kupeza omwe angasokoneze kuwonongeka. Koma kukangana ndi munthu uyu sikoyenera, yesetsani kubwereranso osati kulankhulana.