Anthu ambiri amaganiza za momwe angakhalire wopambana, wokwanira, koma kutsimikiza kuti ndi khalidwe lachibadwa, musachite kanthu. Komabe, palibe chomwe sichingatheke kwa munthu m'modzi yekha! Umunthu subadwidwe, iwo amakhala munthu. Ndipo kuti tipambane mmadera osiyanasiyana a moyo, izi ndizofunikira.
Kodi kumatanthauza kukhala munthu wamphamvu?
Makhalidwe ndi mawonekedwe a chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi maganizo a munthu, ndipo mu funso lakuti munthu aliyense akhale munthu, pali mfundo ziwiri. Ena amanena kuti panthawi ya moyo aliyense amakhala munthu, ena amakayikira kuti ena samapanga, koma m'malo mochepetsera , choncho sangatchedwe munthu.
Mwachidziwikire, umunthu ndi khalidwe lofunika kwambiri pakati pa anthu, ndiye, monga momwe munthu waphunzirira chikhalidwe cha anthu, zikhalidwe. Munthu wolimba ndi lingaliro limeneli ndi lochepa kwambiri - limatanthauza munthu amene amadziwa malamulo ndi malamulo onse, koma nthawi yomweyo amadziwa kukhala mtsogoleri, mtsogoleri, kukhazikitsa malamulo ake ndi kuwathandiza anthu ena kuwatsatira. Ndipo kuti mukhale munthu wotero, muyenera kuchita ntchito zina pawekha.
Kodi mukufunikira kukhala munthu wamphamvu?
Kuti mupeze kudzidalira nokha ndi luso lotsogolera anthu, mukusowa chikhumbo, chipiliro, chipiriro ndi nthawi. Ngati muli ndi zinthu zoterezi, kwa inu sipadzakhala zovuta kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu. Ponena za kukula kwa makhalidwe awa:
- Kudzidalira.
- Charisma.
- Kuzindikira udindo wanu m'mbali zonse za moyo wake.
- Kudziimira.
- Kusinthasintha, kuthekera kuzindikira ndi kukonza zolakwa zawo.
Pachifukwachi, kuwerenga mabuku apadera, ndi maphunziro, komanso, njira yolankhulirana. Pansi pa nkhaniyi, mbali zina zikufotokozedwa mosiyana.
Momwe mungakhalire munthu ndikuzindikiritsa zabwino ndizoipa zawo?
Choyamba, ndi bwino kuvomereza kuti zonse zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wanu ndizo zomwe mukuchita. Ngati ndiwe wamwano - ndiye umalola kuti ukhale wamwano, usaike munthu m'malo. Palibe chifukwa chokhumudwitsa anthu - mumangophunzira momwe mungamenyerere. Kumvetsera maganizo a anthu ena kwa inu, mudzamvetsa mosavuta zomwe mukufunikira kuti muzichita.
Munthu akakhala munthu wamphamvu kapena chosankha
Mfundo imeneyi ndi yofanana ndi yoyamba. Zochitika m'moyo wanu ndizo zomwe mumasankha. Ndipo ngati mumasankha kuwonetsa ma TV ndi kusatengedwera - simudzakhala munthu wamphamvu, koma ngati mutasankha nokha, mwamsanga mutha kukwaniritsa cholinga. Kuti akhale munthu wamphamvu, munthu ayenera kuyamba kusankha kukhala munthu wamphamvu.
Momwe mungakhalire munthu wodziimira?
Makhalidwe oterewa sadalira, poyamba, pazochita za wina ndikukhala ndi mantha. Aliyense ali ndi ufulu wolakwitsa, ndipo kulakwitsa kuli kofunikira, phunziro la moyo. Dziwani zolakwa zanu mwakachetechete, koma kumbukirani iwo ndipo phunzirani kupeza njira yotulukamo.
Momwe mungakhalire munthu wachikulire?
Charisma ndi chisangalalo, kudzidalira, kuthekera kukondweretsa anthu. Ena ali nacho icho kuchokera kubadwa, ndi ena - mwa kugwira ntchito mwakhama paokha. Ngakhale kuti chilengedwe sichikupatsani khalidweli, pitani kuphunzitsa kochepa pa kudzidalira nokha, nthawi zambiri muwerenge nthabwala ndikuyankhula zambiri - ndipo zidzatha!
Mukutentha kwa ntchito, musaiwale za chiyembekezo chabwino. Palibe chabwino kuposa munthu yemwe amayang'ana moyo molimba mtima ndikuwona mphamvu zake. Yesetsani kulimbikira kwambiri kuzipambana zanu, osati mavuto, ndipo mwamsanga mudzawona kuchuluka kwa zomwe mwakwanitsa.