Popanda kukhudzana ndi khalidwe la chiwonongeko cha banja (zilizonse zomwe zingakhalepo), timapitako nthawi yomweyo yomwe ikukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi iwo omwe atsala pang'ono kusiya zonse zomwe zimakondana (kapena osakondana). Chinthu chokha chomwe chingakhale chokondweretsa pazochitika zotero ndi zotsatira za zikhomo za akazi. Tiyeni tiyambe kunena kuti zotsatira zake zidzakhalapo, ndipo zidzamvekanso ndi ochita nawo komanso ozunzidwa.
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Chovala cha mkazi chikhoza kuchitika m'njira zambiri. Zingakhale kuzizira - pamene chibwenzi cha mnzanu chitakhazikika, pang'onopang'ono amayamba kuzindikira mkazi wake ngati mlendo. Pangakhale mpikisano - izi zimakhudza kwambiri okwatirana, iwo amangokhalira kukangana, mofulumira komanso ndi kuwonongeka, kuwononga ziyanjano zonse zakale. Kapena mwinamwake chipewa chakecho ndizochita zamatsenga pa chidziwitso cha munthu, pa thupi lake lamkati.
Kawirikawiri, chifuwa ndi kuzizira zimangokhala pachisoni chanu-wokondedwa komanso nokha, ndi mpikisano - kwa onse awiri, ndipo, ndithudi, inu. Pachifukwa ichi, zotsatira za chigamulo cha wozunzidwa ndi wochita nawo mwambowu zidzakhala nthawi zonse, ndi zotsatira zake kwa mkazi wokanidwa - ngati mkangano ulipo.
Zotsatira zake sizoipa chifukwa cha mwamuna wakufa, koma "mabowo" akuluakulu mu aura ya anthu.
Zotsatira
Kusankha pa chikwama cholimba kuchokera kwa mkazi wake, ganizirani za yemwe mukumaliza. Pamene mphamvu ndi malingaliro a anthu akulimbirana, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mumenyane ndi ufiti ndi mphamvu zake. Polephera kuthana ndi malembo, iye adzazama, kupeza chitonthozo mu mowa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso zinthu zina zabwino.
Amuna omwe adakumana ndi chikhoto:
- akukumana ndi mavuto akuluakulu;
- kuwonjezera mosavuta matenda onse odwala;
- kukhala okwiya, okhumudwa, osowa maganizo - inde malingaliro awo amangowonongeka ndi chigoba;
- kugwera mu kupsinjika maganizo - amadzimva kuti ndi ofooka, samakhulupirira kuti mawa kudzakhala zabwino;
- iwo amakhala opanda mphamvu;
- iwo amatha kutemberera - pamene chiyanjano chikugwedezeka kwambiri ndipo mphamvu ya matsenga sikukulolani kuti mukhalebe, zolakwika zonse zidzaperekedwa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo.
Ponena za akazi omwe amayesa ndi magulu achikondi ndi ma lapels, zotsatira zake sizikhala "kupambana" "munthu wotota". Iwe uli ndi udindo wowononga chikondi (ndipo chikondi cha matsenga ndi chopatulika), kotero iwe umayenera kulipira. Kulipira kudzakhala tsoka pochita ndi "okondedwa" atsopano, mudzavutika ndi kusabereka, kutaya thanzi ndi mphamvu, kulimbana ndi matenda. Mukapeza chinachake, ndipo mochulukirapo, chotsani munthu wina, Chilengedwe chimafuna kuwerengera.