Mu maloto munthu nthawi zambiri amawona anthu osiyana, kuphatikizapo okondedwa. Kuti mumvetse zomwe malotowo angatanthauze, m'pofunika kukumbukira zochita za mnyamatayo, momwe anayang'ana, ndi zina zotero. Ndikofunika kuganizira momwe mumamvera mukakhala tulo.
Kodi mnyamata wozolowereka amalota chiyani?
Kawirikawiri maloto oterewa akusonyeza kuti pali mavuto omwe sangathe kuthandizidwa. Ngati mwamuna akudutsa, ndiye kuti mukufunika kupeza thandizo kwa anthu apamtima. Kawiri kawiri mumalota mnyamata wodziwa bwino amene amakukumbatira - ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino, ngati mukukumana ndi chimwemwe ichi. Chiwembu chotere chikutanthauza kuti posachedwapa mudzalandira uthenga wabwino. Ngati zisanza sizikukondweretsa inu, muyenera kuyembekezera kuti mavuto akugwira ntchito. Masomphenya ausiku, kumene mumavina ndi mnyamata, amanenera buku latsopano limene lidzapange ambiri openga maganizo . Mtsikanayo akulota mnyamata yemwe amamupsompsonana - izi ndi chizindikiro choipa, chithunzi chotsutsa komanso ngakhale kupatukana.
Kugonana ndi chibwenzi ndi chizindikiro cha kusintha koyandikira. Ngati mumayang'ana kuchokera kunja, monga mwamuna yemwe mumadziŵa, wagonana ndi mkazi wina, ndiye kuti mungathe kukwaniritsa zofuna zanu mosavuta. Tidzapeza chifukwa chake mnyamata wambayu waledzera. Chiwembu chimenecho ndi chiwonetsero cha uthenga woipa. Ngati mwamunayo anali wamaliseche, muyembekezere matendawa. Masomphenya ausiku, kumene mumakumana ndi mnzanu amene simunamuonane kwa nthawi yayitali, ndi chizindikiro chodabwitsa.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti ndikulankhula ndi anzanu?
Ngati mukuyankhula mwamtendere ndi mnyamata, ndiye kuti mavuto omwe alipo alipo adzathetsedwa mosayembekezereka kwa inu. Maloto omwe pali phokoso amasonyeza kuti mphamvu zambiri zidzagwiritsidwa ntchito kuthetsa nkhaniyi. Maloto enawo angatengedwe monga ndondomeko, kuti ndi bwino kulingalira zolinga zanu zam'tsogolo, popeza, mwinamwake, pali nkhani zovuta pamenepo.