Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti achibale athu amachoka kudziko lino mofulumira, akumbukira, osasiya kukumbukira bwino. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amabwera ku maloto athu. Ngati simukudziwa zomwe malotowo amatsogolera kumene makolo akufa amachotsa moyo, musawope nthawi yomweyo, chifukwa sizikutanthawuza nthawizonse kuti ndizolakwika.
Kodi makolo omwe amwalira amalota chiyani?
Poyankha funsolo, kodi makolo omwe amwalira amalota pamodzi kapena ayi, tifunikira choyamba kuopa maloto amenewa? Zoonadi, maloto amenewa sali oiwalika - amatha kusiya kumverera kosiyanasiyana, nthawi zina okondwa, ndipo nthawi zina amakhumudwa. Koma chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti maloto amenewa ndi ofunikira kwambiri, ndipo mulimonsemo, akuimira zochitika zosiyana.
Posazindikira zomwe achibale awo akufa akuwatsutsa, mwachitsanzo, amayi, ambiri akuyamba mantha kwambiri. Koma achibale akufa amachitira umboni za kusintha kosangalatsa kumeneku. Ndikofunikanso kuti ngati munthu wodala wamwalira posachedwapa, ndipo mwakhala mukulira za iye nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zambiri mumaganiza - maloto ngatiwo ndiwo
Muzochitika zina zonse, funso loti n'chifukwa chiyani makolo ambiri amafa, mumatha kuyankha kuti izi sizili zosangalatsa basi. Mwachitsanzo, bambo yemwe wamwalira nthawi zambiri amabwera m'maloto pofuna kuchenjeza za mavuto omwe amagwira ntchito, zolephereka mu bizinesi, poopseza kutaya mbiri. Zikakhala kuti mayi wakufayo walota, izi zikhoza kusonyeza kuchitika kwa mavuto omwe angagwirizane ndi thanzi. Mulimonsemo, yesetsani kudzimvera nokha kumvetsera ndi machenjezo a makolo omwe anamwalira.