Pali zizindikiro zambiri za anthu, malinga ndi zomwe simungathe kupereka mitanda, makamaka ngati ndi funso la wokondedwa, koma ochepa akhoza kufotokoza chifukwa chake. Izi zimachokera ku zikhulupiriro zowona za madzi, koma ambiri amakhulupirira.
Mtanda ngati mphatso ndi chizindikiro
Anthu amanena kuti n'zotheka kupereka mtanda mu mpingo pomwe ubatizo umachitika, ndipo udindo umenewu umayikidwa pa mulungu kapena mulungu. Ngati chinthucho chaperekedwa mophweka, munthu amene alandira mphatsoyo akhoza kutenga cholinga cha woperekayo, ndipo ali ndi nkhawa ndi zovuta zonse. Ena samaganiza ngakhale kuti mitanda imaperekedwa chifukwa chakuti amakhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti mphatso yoteroyo ikhoza kubweretsa matenda oopsa komanso imfa.
Komabe, anthu amasiku ano amasiyana mosiyana, ndipo tsopano mphatso, makamaka yopangidwa ndi zitsulo zamtengo wapatali, ndi yotchuka kwambiri. Pa funso ngati n'zotheka kupereka mtanda kwa wokondedwa, yekhayo amene amadziwa wosankhidwa wake adzatha kupereka yankho. Ngati iye sali ndi zamatsenga, ndiye bwanji? N'chimodzimodzinso ndi amuna. Iye akhoza kupereka mtanda wake wokondedwa wokongola wa siliva kapena golide.
Mkhalidwe wa mpingo ku lingaliro la kusapereka mtanda
Tchalitchi cha Orthodox sichitsutsa mphatso imeneyi. Amawona kuti mtanda ndi umodzi mwa zinthu zokha zopembedza zimene zingapangidwe ndipo zimaloledwa kugulitsa. Kuchokera pa izi, malamulo a tchalitchi amaloledwa kupatsa mtanda kuti atseke anthu ndipo sakuwona cholakwika ndi icho. Perekani mphatso ngati imeneyo, kukhala ndi chikumbumtima choyera, ndiye simungachite mantha kuti machimo a woperekayo angawononge wolandira. Inde, nthawi zambiri mitanda imagulidwa ndikuperekedwa monga mphatso pa mwambo
Mpingo sumaona mtanda kukhala chinthu chokongoletsera. Malingana ndi malamulo a Orthodox, iye ayenera kukhala mmodzi wa moyo, analandira pa ubatizo kuchokera kwa mulungu kapena mulungu. Iye ali wophiphiritsa kwambiri, chifukwa, molingana ndi Uthenga, zikutanthauza kuti munthu adzatsata Yesu ndi mtanda wake womwe. Ndi bwino kuvala mtanda osati pamwamba, koma pansi pa zovala, sizingakhale bwino kuyika pawonetsedwe ka pagulu. Izi zimachitika kuti mtanda woyamba wokha umatayika, ndipo mpingo umalola kuti ukhale m'malo watsopano, womwe ukhoza kuvomerezedwa ngati mphatso.