Anthu ambiri, pogwiritsa ntchito zitsimikiziro za kudzidalira, amakwaniritsa zotsatira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti izi zikugwira ntchito! Kodi zitsimikizo ndi ziti? Izi ndizofotokozera, chifukwa chakuti munthu aliyense angathe kusintha njira yolingalira, kupanga tsogolo losangalatsa, limene aliyense amayesetsa. Mawu awa akuthandizani inu tsiku lonse, amadzidalira nokha ndi mphamvu zanu.
Popanda kuzindikira ngakhale pang'ono, nthawi zambiri timatchula zotsutsana, kutanthauza mawu ena olakwika tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwachitsanzo, ambiri ali ndi mawu akuti "zirombo" - zoopsa kapena zoopsa ndi ena. Choncho, kuti musinthe chinachake m'moyo wanu, kuti mukhale odzidalira, muyenera kuphunzira kulamulira mawu ndi malingaliro. Sinthani zitsimikizo zonse zolakwika pazitsimikizo zabwino, ngakhale ziri zovuta kuchita. Mmawa uliwonse muyenera kuyamba ndi kumwetulira ndi kuyamikira zonse zomwe zikukuzungulirani.
Zimatanthawuza kuti zitsimikizo sizomwe zili koma maganizo athu. Mwa njira yophweka ndi yamphamvu kwambiri, tikhoza kuwonetsa malingaliro osadziwika. Sankhani kutsimikizirika komwe kungasonyeze zikhumbo zanu, ndi kubwereza kangapo. Ndikofunika kupanga mawuwa molondola.
Malamulo pakupanga zovomerezeka
- Ngati mukufuna kusintha moyo wanu kuti ukhale wabwino, ndiye kuti muyenera kupanga malingaliro anu mwabwino, popanda kugwiritsa ntchito chidutswa cha "ayi."
- Muyenera kumanga zowonjezera pakali pano, mwachitsanzo ndimadzikonda ndekha.
- Kulongosola kwachindunji za zilakolako zanu n'kofunika - ndizo zitsimikizo zomwe zingayambitse kukhudzika.
- Chivomerezo chirichonse chiyenera kukukhudzani inu nokha, komanso zochitika zanu. Ngati cholinga chake ndi kukonzanso nkhani za wina, ndiye kuti kutsimikiza kotero sikugwira ntchito.
Ndikofunika kubwereza mau omwe adzikonda okha. Mwachitsanzo, ndibwino kubwereza maumboni otsatirawa kangapo:
- Ndimadzikonda ndekha;
- Ndimakonda thupi langa;
- Thupi langa limakonda kukhala wathanzi;
- Chikondi chimakhazikika mu mtima mwanga;
- selo lirilonse la thupi langa limakondedwa;
- Ndimadzikonda ndekha kuti ndine ndani;
- Ndikhoza kukhala zomwe ndikufuna.
Kulankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku kwa inu nokha kapena mokweza mobwerezabwereza ndi njira yowunikira kukwaniritsa zolinga, chimwemwe ndi chikondi. Zotsatira zake, mu moyo wanu padzakhala malingaliro abwino ndi malingaliro, ndipo pamodzi nawo chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa, kudzidalira kudzabwera kwa inu.
Zolondola zothandiza kwambiri pakuwonjezeka kudzidalira. Kudzikuza kwambiri ndiko maziko a kusintha kwabwino. Ngati munthu sakhulupirira yekha, sadzikonda yekha, ndipo samaganiza kuti ndi woyenera kwambiri pamoyo, sapeza chilichonse. Malingaliro athu onse akhoza kukwaniritsidwa. Choncho, simungathe kuganizira kuti ndinu woipa kapena simukuyembekezera chilichonse chabwino pamoyo wanu.
Dziloleni nokha, ndipo pomwepo mudzadzikonda nokha. Muyenera kudziwa kuti ndinu munthu wapadera. Choncho mmalo mokulitsa zofooka zanu, onetsetsani ulemu wanu, yonjezerani kudzidalira kwanu ndi kutsimikizira, kubwereza: Ndine wokongola. Ndipo posachedwapa mwangoyang'ana maonekedwe anu kuchokera kumbali ina.
N'chifukwa chiyani zitsimikizo sizingagwire ntchito?
- Choyamba, zikhoza kuchitika chifukwa mungagwiritse ntchito mawu akuti "akhoza" m'mawu omangidwa. Ndipotu, malingaliro anu amadziŵa amadziwa kuti mungathe, ndipo motero mawu awa sakuyenera kuikidwa mukutsimikiziridwa.
- Chachiwiri, ngati simukubwereza maumboni nthawi zonse, amasiya kukugwirani ntchito.
- Musaiwale kuti mawuwo ayenera kukhala panthawi yamakono, osati mtsogolo.
- Ngati simukukhulupirira zomwe mukulankhula, zitsimikizo zimayambitsa kukana, ndiye kuti sangagwire ntchito.