Pali zochitika pamene mukudikirira foni kwa nthawi yaitali, koma chipangizocho chiri chete. Pankhaniyi, mukhoza kubweretsa zofuna zanu nokha mothandizidwa ndi matsenga . Miyambo yonse ndi yophweka ndipo safuna luso lapadera, lomwe limatanthauza kuti aliyense adzatha kulimbana nawo.
Kukonzekera kuyitana yemwe akufunikira izo
Ndikofunika kusunga m'manja kapena chinthu chogwirizana ndi munthu, ndipo nenani mawu awa:
"Kuwala kwanga ndi kokoma, kuwala kwanga ndi kokoma, chifukwa chiyani ndayiwala?"
Yang'anani kwa ine, dizani nambala yanga. "
Momwe mungapangire munthu kuyitana - chiwembu
Mwambo wosavuta ndi woyenera pachitika kuti chidziwitso chaposachedwa sichikugwirizanitsa, ndi kuwatcha oopsya kwambiri. Ndikofunika kulingalira kuti chiwembucho chidzawathandiza kokha ngati msonkhano ndi kusinthanitsa mauthenga akuchitika posachedwa. Kuyamba mwambowu ndi pakati pa usiku. Patebulo ponyamula nsalu yofiira, ndipo pambaliyi ikani makandulo ofanana ndi msuzi kapena choyikapo nyali. Kenako, fikitsani foniyo. Poyang'ana foni, taganizirani momwe munthuyo akulirira, zokambirana zanu, ndi zina zotero. Pambuyo pake, katatu kuwerenga chiwembu chogwira ntchito chomwe munthu woyenera amatchedwa:
"Liwu lirilonse, wokondedwa, ine ndikufuna kuti ndimve iwe. Mwaba mtima wanga, koma munathamangitsidwa mu moyo wanga. Ikani mofulumira nambala yanga (nenani momveka bwino ndi pang'onopang'ono manambala a nambala yanu imodzi ndi imodzi), chifukwa ndi yofunika kwa ine! "
Ndi sera yosungunuka, idumphira pa mkono wako ndikupukuta mpira wawung'ono. Pa izi, bwerezaninso chiwembucho. Valani mpira pafupi ndi foni, mwachitsanzo, ayikeni pa mulandu kapena mu thumba la thumba. Munthu akatuluka, mpira ukhoza kutayidwa.
Kukonzekera kuyitana munthu woyenera
Ngati mumakonda munthu kwa nthawi yayitali sizimadzipangitsa kudzimva, ndiye kuti ndibwino kumukakamiza kuti achitepo kanthu mothandizidwa ndi matsenga. Kuti muchite mwambowu, muyenera kutenga kandulo ya tchalitchi mu dzanja limodzi ndi kuigwira kuti lawi lichoke kunja. Kumbali ina, gwiritsani chinthu chomwe chikukhudzana ndi chinthu chopembedzera, mwachitsanzo, kuwala kwake kapena chithunzi. Pambuyo pake, bweretsani chiwembu ichi:
"Ndigona, ndikupemphera, koma ndikadzuka, ndimabatizidwa. Pansi pa mphutsi zapansi, komanso pamwamba pa zinyama. Dzuwa ndi Mwezi zanyamuka, ndipo ine ndekha. Kotero Ambuye andidalitse ine, ndipo mu bizinesi yanga zimathandiza. Mfungulo. Nyumbayi. Chilankhulo. "
Bweretsani mawu mpaka kandulo ituluka. Ndikofunika kunena mawu popanda kuima ndikukayikira.