Ukwati ndi nthawi imodzi yosangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo wa anthu okondana. Ili ndilo tsiku limene anthu okwatirana kumene amalembetsa mgwirizano wawo movomerezeka, akuwuza dziko lonse kuti kuyambira tsopano iwo ali limodzi limodzi. Komabe, ndi kwa mtsikana kuti ukwatiwo ndi phwando lachinyengo kwambiri, zomwe zonse ziyenera kukhala zangwiro. Kuonetsetsa kuti tsiku lochita zamatsenga silinali zochitika zosakonzekera, zonse ziyenera kuganiziridwa mosamala. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhazikitsa cholinga ndipo zonse zatsimikizika kuti zizigwira ntchito bwino.
Ndi ndani woti asankhe kavalidwe kaukwati?
Lero ndi momwe mkwatibwi akuwonekera, adzakumbukiridwa ndi onse omwe alipo kwa moyo wake wonse. Komabe, mungavomereze kuti njira yosankhira ukwati ngati chovala ndi yosangalatsa kwambiri. Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti kalembedwe kalikonse kali ndi mitundu yambiri komanso kusiyana. Ngakhale zili choncho, mtsikana aliyense angapeze diresi kwa iye.
Kwa oimira zachiwerewere omwe akufuna kukhala enieni pa ukwati wawo, phwando la Frida Xhoi Xhei madiresi a ukwati a 2016 adalengedwa. Chizindikiro ichi chinawonekera mu 2000 ku Albania. Wolembayo, Frida, amadziwika kudziko lakwawo monga wolemba tsitsi, waluso, wojambula. Zokonzedwa nthawi zonse za madiresi amakwati akugulitsidwa mwachangu ndi akazi a mafashoni kuchokera kumalekezero onse a dziko lapansi, komabe, zatsopano za ukwati wa 2016 kuchokera ku Frida Xhoi Xhei zadzipambana okha. Wopanga zovala anapatsa zovala zachifumu, momwe mkwatibwi aliyense amadziona kuti ndi wamtengo wapatali komanso wosangalatsa kwambiri.
Zovala zonse zochokera kumsonkhanowu zimakhala ndi ukulu, chic ndi kukongola kwake. Muzovala zaukwati zilizonse zosankhidwa Frida Xhoi Xhei mu 2016, mkwatibwi adzawoneka mochititsa chidwi, monga mfumukazi, malo ake omwe ali pampando wachifumu okha. Mwinanso, izi ndizovala zapamwamba kwambiri zomwe zafotokozedwa zaka zingapo zapitazi. Vuto lachikwati kuchokera kumsonkhano wa 2016 lidzalola Mkwatibwi kumva tsiku lodziwika la mkazi wamtsogolo wa kalonga uyu.
Izi ndizo zomwe atsikana onse amalota kuyambira ali mwana. Ukwati wa Ukwati Frida Xhoi Xhei mu 2016 ndi woyenera mfumukazi yeniyeni yomwe imadziwa kudziwonetsera yekha bwino. Izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa mitundu yonseyi ndi yapadera, yokongoletsedwa mochuluka ndi miyala, komanso zida zagolide. Chochititsa chidwi kwambiri cha pafupifupi mitundu yonse ya zitsanzo ndi msuzi wofiira kwambiri wambiri. Zovala za Frida Xhoi Xhei ndizopambana, koma nthawi yomweyo zimabwereranso ku nthawi ya abambo, omwe sanagonjetse amuna awo okha, komanso maiko onse. Zapangidwa kuti zikhale okwatirana odziteteza komanso okonda kufa. Kodi mumadziona kuti ndinu mmodzi wa iwo? Kenaka chimodzi mwa zitsanzo zambiri za mndandanda umenewu zakhala chikukuyembekezerani.
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