Kukonzekera kwa msonkhano kumatanthauza chikondi chamatsenga, chifukwa chimakulolani kuti mukhale ndi munthu pa tsiku. Ndikofunika kuganizira kuti miyambo yotereyi siidzapangitsa munthu kumverera, koma izi zidzangowonjezereka. Palibe zotsatira zotsutsana ndi ziwembuzi, ndipo mukhoza kuziwerenga tsiku lililonse, komanso nthawi iliyonse ya tsikuli. Pofuna kukwaniritsa zotsatira, pamakhalidwe oterowo, kuyang'ana ndi kulingalira pamaganizo ndi maganizo anu ndi ofunikira kwambiri.
Kukonzekera kukakumana ndi wokondedwa wanu
Ngati pali chikhumbo chokumana ndi wokondedwa, koma pazifukwa zina sizimawoneke, zikutanthauza kuti mukhoza kuchita mwambo umene umamupangitsa kukhala chilakolako chosadziwika. Musanapite ku chiwembu chomwecho, nkofunika kuti mutenge mawonekedwe oyenera. Konzani mosamala nokha ndi malingaliro anu momwe munthu wokondedwa amabwera mnyumba, atsegule chitseko, momwe zikuwonekera, ndi zina zotero. Chofunika kwambiri ndizomwe zimatchulidwa. Ngati pali chithunzi choonekera cha msonkhano musanayambe kuwona, muyenera kutseka manja anu mu chifuwa chanu ndi kumanong'onong'anga popanda kukayikira kuwerenga chiwembu.
"Ine mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), ndikuitana mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), osati kuchokera mu ng'anjo ya ng'anjo, osati kuchokera ku madzi a m'nyanja, osati kuchokera kudziko lakufa, osati kuchokera ku mpanda wolimba, osati ku mpingo wa golide, osati ku khomo lopotoka, koma kuchokera khonde langa.
Maganizo a mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), mumamutcha iye m'malo mwake, mapazi ake, mumanyamulira ine.
Angelo awiri oteteza adzayenda naye pamsewu, kuti kumbali zonsezi kapolo wa Mulungu (dzina) adzapita, iwo amtsogolera iye pakhomo langa.
Ndi mawu a mnyamata wabwino ndimadziyitana ndekha, ndimatsegula chinsinsi changa.
Inde izo zidzafika pochitika, monga zanenedwa. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Bwerezani mawu kasanu ndi kawiri. Mwambo umayamba kuchita mwamsanga kutchulidwa kwa mawu otsiriza.
Cholinga champhamvu cha msonkhano
Kuti tipeze zotsatira zoyenera, mu mwambo umenewu, kukonzekera koyambirira n'kofunika - kuyeretsedwa ku zolakwika. Pachifukwachi, tikulimbikitsidwa kuti tigwiritse ntchito chakudya cholimba kwa masiku atatu ndikudya chakudya chokha cha masamba osachepera. Ngakhale mu nthawi ino, muyenera kusiya makhalidwe onse oipa ndikulephera kugonana. Ndikofunika kupeĊµa mikangano ndi mikangano yambiri ndi ena, mwachidziwikire, tidziziteteze ku zowawa zilizonse.
Mwambo uyenera kuyamba pomwe dzuwa litalowa. Tsekani mawindo onse, tseka makatani ndipo muunikire kandulo ya mpingo. Kuyang'ana pa lawilo, ganizirani msonkhano ndi mwamuna ndi kunena chiwembu chotero:
"Mulungu adzandisonkhanitsa ine panjira. Iye adzandipatsa ine madalitso pa ubale, kukakomana ndi mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), ndipatseni ine chidaliro, ndipatseni ine mwayi, ndipatseni mphamvu zake. Ambuye Mulungu andipulumutsa ine kuti ndisatayika, kuchoka kumisonkhano yonyansa, ndi maso oipa, mtima wanga sudzadandaula, sipadzakhala mantha m'maganizo anga, padzakhala kulumikizana kwa chikondi ndi ine, akapolo a Mulungu (dzina) ndi mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) ndipo tidzakula , inde muchuluke. Ndipemphera kwa Mulungu, inde, msonkhano ndi wofunikira. Kotero zikhale choncho. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Chiwembu chokumana ndi munthu ndi sopo
Mwambo uwu ndi woyenera milandu pamene pakufunikira kukumana ndi munthu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati msonkhano uli wofunikira kuti muyankhe funso, ndiye cholinga ichi chidzakuthandizani kuzindikira izi. Pochita mwambowu ndi dzanja lanu lamanja, sulani chidutswa cha sopo ndikuchotsa dzina la munthu amene mukumufuna. Mu kusamba kopanda kanthu, ikani chidutswa ichi, khulupirirani ndi kunena kuti:
"Kunama mwachabe, popanda mphepo ndi mvula. Palibe mabingu, palibe mphepo yamkuntho, kungokhala chete. Chilichonse chidzayenda bwino, mosasamala komanso popanda mavuto. "
Sopo ayenera kusungidwa mu thumba, mpaka msonkhano utapezeka.
Gwiritsani ntchito msonkhano woyamba ndi theka lina
Kuchita izi kumathandiza anthu osungulumwa kuti akumane ndi munthu woyenera yemwe mungamange naye ubale wokondwa ndi wamuyaya. Chifukwa cha khalidwe lake, muyenera kugula makandulo atatu a tchalitchi, ndi chithunzi china cha Most Holy Theotokos ndi Guardian Angel. Dzisungeni nokha m'chipindamo, nyani makandulo ndi malo otsatira mafano okonzedwa. Pambuyo pake, werengani chiwembu ichi katatu:
"Mngelo wanga wachikondi, ndikukupemphani,
Kuyambira kubadwa mwakhazikika mwa ine.
Limbikitsani msonkhano wanga pa njira yovuta,
Chimwemwe chosadabwitsa mu mapiko chimabweretsa.
Mwinamwake kwinakwake kunali kobisika,
Tumizani ine zonse zomwe zidzakwaniritsidwe.
Ameni! Ameni! Amen! "
Ndikofunika kuwerenga mawu molimba mtima mopanda kukayikira, kuika maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu mwa iwo. Makandulo ayenera kutentha kwathunthu, ndipo cinder ikhoza kutayidwa.
Gawo lothandiza la msonkhano wapamtima
Mwambo wosavuta udzawathandiza mothandizidwa ndi mphamvu zanu zamkati kuti "muthamangitse" wokondedwa wanu kumsonkhano. Kuyamba kukhazikitsidwa kwake kuli bwino kwambiri pakati pausiku. Pasanapite nthawi muyenera kugula makandulo 13 a tchalitchi. Nthawi ikafika, yang'anizani, ndipo, kuyang'ana pa lawi la moto, ganizirani za mtsogolo mwachindunji ndi kunena chiwembu:
"Ine ndikukonzekera makandulo kwa msonkhano, kuti tsiku loyambirira lichitike. Ngakhale wokondedwa wanga ali patali, akhale pafupi ndi ine. Ine ndikulosera ndekha kuti ndikuwoneni inu mofulumira, kuyitanitsa pa zizindikiro za moto woyipa. Monga Wotsutsakhristu akuphwanya miyoyo yathu, chikondi sichitha kwa ine tsopano. Momwe makandulo onse adzatenthe ndi kufa, amapereka moto kwa mawu anga usiku. Ndiroleni ine ndichite chiwembu osati mwachabe, zovuta zonse zowonekera. Kotero zikhale choncho. Ameni! Ameni! Amen! "
Werengani mpaka makandulo ali
Lembani ku msonkhano pa chithunzi
Mwambo wosavuta kumayenera kuchitika dzuwa likatuluka ndipo dzuwa lisanathe masiku awiri mzere. Kwa iye, makandulo awiri a sera ndi chithunzi cha wokondedwa ayenera kukonzekera. Pa tebulo ikani chithunzi, ndipo musanayambe kandulo. Kuyang'ana kupyolera mu lamoto pamaso pa wokondedwa, nenani chiwembu chotsatirachi: "Tsiku linadutsa ndipo usiku unadutsa. Ndinadikirira tsikulo ndikudikirira usiku. Tsopano ndikukuyembekezerani, (dzina la munthuyo). "
Werengani mpaka mutenge kuti ndikwanira. Kenaka, nyani kandulo ndi zala zanu, popeza simungathe kuziwombera. Madzulo, bwerezani mwambo ndikusiya kandulo kuwotcha kwathunthu. Tsiku lotsatira, mwambowu umakhala ndi makandulo ena. Yankho lina lofunika - m'mawa kuti muwerenge chiwembu, muyenera kuyang'anizana ndikummawa, ndipo madzulo - kumadzulo.