Chiyembekezero choyembekezera kubereka mu miyezi yotsiriza ya mimba ndi chochitika chachikulu cha mayi wamtsogolo. Makamaka ngati akukonzekera kubereka mwachibadwa. Wokonzeka kukhala nthawi iliyonse, chifukwa kubadwa kumatha ngakhale pakati pa usiku. Funso lofunika kwambiri limene mayi woyembekezera amadzifunsa yekha ndi ena za iye ndilo lingaliro lachisoni asanabadwe amudziwitsa kuti posachedwa adzakumana ndi mwanayo.
Kodi mumamva bwanji musanabadwe?
Zomwe zimabweretsa kubadwa, zomwe zatsala pang'ono kuyamba, zikhoza kukhala zosiyana kwambiri. Masabata angapo asanabadwe, mkaziyo angayambe "kupanga chisa." Nthawi zambiri amatha kutulutsira dowry mwanayo kangapo patsiku, kuti awone ngati matumba ali okonzeka komanso kuyeretsedwa kale. Azimayi ena amayamba kufunsa amuna kuti ayambe kukonzekera masiku angapo asanabadwe.
Kuphatikiza apo, mkazi akhoza kufunafuna kukhala yekha, kukhala wamantha, ndipo izi ndi zomveka, chisangalalo limodzi ndi mahomoni a makhalidwe abwino amamukonzekera kuti abereke mwana. Koma asanabadwe, zatsopano zakuthupi zimabwera patsogolo. Iwo akhoza kukhala osiyana kwambiri ndipo amadalira onse pa umoyo wa mayi, komanso panthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba komanso maonekedwe a thupi lake.
Kupweteka kumbuyo musanagwire
Zovuta zenizeni zimamveka ndi mafunde, ndipo zimadutsa osati pamimba, komanso m'chiuno. Ndikumva ululu musanafike pobereka m'mimba momwe alili otsogolera, ndipo amabweretsa mayi wamantha kwambiri m'tsogolo. Komanso, kupweteka kwa msana kumagwirizanitsa ndi kuwonjezereka kumbuyo kumbuyo. Akhoza kuyamba kale masabata angapo asanabadwe.
Ululu m'mimba musanabadwe
Pasanapite nthawi mwana asanabadwe mutu wa mwana umatsikira m'mimba, zomwe zingayambitse ululu m'mimba pamunsi. Ndiponso, ngati mkazi akumva zovuta zotsutsana, iwo amatha kuwonetsa ululu m'mimba ya m'munsi. Kupweteka kwa perineum musanabadwe kumakhalanso chifukwa chakuti mwanayo wayamba kale pakhomo la njira yobadwa. Zomwezi zimayambira masiku angapo asanabadwe.
Kukumana tsiku lomwe lisanabadwe
Chinthu chachilendo kwambiri komanso champhamvu kwambiri chingakhale chisokonezo usiku watha. Tsiku lina asanabadwe akhoza kuthetsa njala, mkazi akhoza kukhala wosasamala, akhoza kuyamba kugona. Zitha kuoneka ngati madzi akumwa pang'ono (kamba ikuchoka), kutsekula m'mimba kumayamba ndi kusokonezeka. Zolakwa zonyenga zingakhale zapadera komanso zazitali. Kamodzi kawiri kawiri kamakhala kuchepetsedwa kufika mphindi 10, ndipo nthawiyo idzawonjezeka mpaka masekondi 60, muyenera kupita kuchipatala. Inde, ngati madzi sanathenso kuchotsedwapo (pakadali pano, m'pofunika kupita kuchipatala mwamsanga madzi asanatuluke kapena kutayika kwawo).