Matenda a chiberekero kwa amayi apakati

Moyo wa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati ndi ovuta: Iwo akufuna strawberries mu February, ndiye mandarins mu Julayi ... Patsiku lomaliza la kusintha kwa chisinthiko ndi zikhumbo za mayi wamtsogolo zimakhala zazikulu, chifukwa zimadwalitsidwa ndi "nesting syndrome". Ichi ndi chiani? Kodi nchiyani chomwe chimayambitsa matendawa? Pa amayi amtsogolo okondwa awa (makamaka abambo amtsogolo) ayankhidwa m'nkhani yathu.

Ichi ndi chiani?

Matenda a nyerere a amayi apakati ndi chinthu chokhacho chokhalira kuwonjezereka kwa chibadwa cha amayi . Mzimayi yemwe ali ndi zaka zitatu zotenga mimba amayamba kumva kuti akufunikira kukonzekera nyumba yake kuti mwanayo awoneka, kuti apereke chilichonse chofunikira.

Mawonetseredwe a matenda otukuka:

  1. Kukonzekera mkati. Kawirikawiri, matendawa amatsanulira chilakolako chachikulu chokonzekera mwamsanga nyumba yonse, kugula mipando yatsopano ndi nsalu zatsopano. Mu ichi, ndithudi, palibe cholakwika. Koma chifukwa chikhalidwe cha mkazi nthawiyi chimasintha pambuyo pa mahomoni, osankhidwa mwachikondi ndi kugula mapepala apamwamba lero lero ngozi imawoneka yoopsa ndi yonyansa, ndipo kardinal rearrangement idzakhala yosasangalatsa kwambiri pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Pochepetsa kuchepa kwa ndalama zomwe zingatheke, ndi bwino kulongosola mphamvu zowonongeka ndi kukonzanso njira yamtendere: ndibwino kuyamba kuyamba kukonza pamapepala kapena pakompyuta. Tsopano pali mapulogalamu ambiri a makompyuta apangidwa kuti athandizire kuona momwe izi kapena kuti kupanga chisankho chidzawonekera mumakoma enieni. Ndipo mosakayikira sikofunika kwa mayi mu nthawi yotsiriza ya mimba yokha kunyamula zolemera, kupuma utoto kapena kusuntha mipando.
  2. Kusamba kwathunthu. Chofunika kwambiri choyeretsa chirichonse, kutaya zinthu zowonjezera, kutsuka mazenera ndi makina owala - ichi ndi chisonyezero china cha chisa cha pakati. Chikhumbo ndi choyamika, koma nthawi zambiri amai amawongolera luso lake, kuyesera kukwaniritsa zovuta zonse mnyumbamo. M'malo mopereka masiku angapo kuti abereke mwana wake wokondedwa, amayi amtsogolo amawagwiritsanso ntchito ndi rag ndi kuyeretsa tile. Njira imodzi yochotsera ndiyo kugawana udindo. Musamachite manyazi kuti muphatikize mwamuna wanu, mayi kapena ana akuluakulu mu nkhani zamalonda. Inde, asamayeretsedwe moyenera monga inu, koma cholinga chidzakwaniritsidwa - nyumba idzakhala yoyera ndipo thanzi lidzapulumutsidwa. PanthaƔi imodzimodziyo ndi kuyeretsa n'kofunikira kuchotsa mosayenerera mwakachetechete kapena zovuta kusamalira zinthu, m'malo mwazosavuta ndi kusamba ndi kuyeretsa. Pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana, izi zidzakuthandizani kuchepetsa nthawi yosunga nyumba kukhala yochepa.
  3. Gulani dowry kwa mwanayo. Tsopano, pamene pali zovala zambiri komanso zinthu zofunikira pokonzekera m'masitolo a masitolo, zimakhala zovuta kukana chikhumbo chogula zambiri. Zamalonda ndi masamba a magazini amatsanulira mafuta pamoto, kulimbikitsa amayi amtsogolo ndi lingaliro lakuti popanda makhalidwe osiyanasiyana osiyana nawo mwana wake adzakhala wosasangalala ... Ndipotu, mwana wakhanda ziphuphu zimasowa zochepa: bodikov yochepa ndi anyamata aang'ono onse, chovala chovala kuti apite ku polyclinic, madiresi ... Zonse za zovala zomwezo zimakhalabe zosawerengeka, zomwe zimangodabwitsa pang'ono chifukwa cha kugula kwawo. Pewani zinyalala zosafunikira zidzakuthandizani patsogolo pazomwe mndandanda wamakono wolembedwera wa mwana wakhanda , umene udzakonzedwe ndi anzanu odziwa zambiri kapena ngakhale ma intaneti.
  4. Zosangalatsa zatsopano. Chiwonetsero china cha nesting syndrome ndizochita zodzikongoletsera: wina amakopeka kapena amakokera mwansangala, wina amatha masiku onse kukhitchini akukonza mwatsopano wophikira, wina kuyambira m'mawa mpaka usiku namsongole akukula zosangalatsa lamulo lalikulu ndilo - siliyenera kuvulaza mwanayo. Chabwino, za zina zonse siziyenera kuiwalika.