Kuchita chiwerewere kwa kusokoneza moyo wa banja la wina sikoyenera kuyankhula - ziyenera kukhala zoonekeratu kwa munthu aliyense wokhwima maganizo, wamkulu. Komabe, amayi ambiri amasangalatsidwa momwe angamvekere mwamuna wokwatiwa, kulungamitsa zochita zawo zosatsutsika, chikondi chosafuna. Tiyeni tingoti chinthu chimodzi - mwamuna yemwe amakondwera si wofanana ndi munthu wachikondi, kotero iwe umangirire kapolo iwekha, osati munthu .
Zovuta Zachikhalidwe
Pankhani yodziwa munthu wokwatira yekha, mavuto angabwere malinga ndi momwe wokondedwa wanu amachitira ndi banja lake. Ngati mgwirizanowo uli wolimba, kuwononga banja lino kudzakhala kovuta kwa inu. Izi zimatengera miyezi yambiri, osatchula kuti mukufunikira kuchita miyambo yambiri, osati mwezi wamba kuti muwerenge chikondi.
Udindo wanu ndi wophweka ngati uli banja, kumene chiyanjano sichitha kuchepetsedwa ngakhale kwa am'nyumba. Ngati mumakangana kwambiri ndi anthu omwe mumakwatirana nawo, zimakhala zosavuta kumangiriza kumapazi anu.
Mwambo ndi makandulo a tchalitchi
Ngati pakuthayi mungathe kuyankhula mofulumira, ndiye yankho la chilakolako chanu, momwe mungalumikizire munthu wokwatirana mwamsanga kudzakhala mwambo ndi makandulo a tchalitchi.
Timayamba mwambo pa mwezi ukukula. Pamaso pa misa, muyenera kugula makandulo 40 a tchalitchi mumsitolo uliwonse wa tchalitchi. Pa 14 koloko - nthawi yaukwati, yambani kubwereza pa kandulo iliyonse pemphero loti "Atate Wathu". Zomaliza, tambani makandulo onse ndi chingwe chimodzi ndi kuwala kuchokera pamodzi umodzi. Pachifukwa ichi, mzere wautali, wachitsulo ndi wabwino.
Tengani teyala yachitsulo ndikuyika makandulo pa iyo. Lankhulani
"Pamene makandulo awa akuyaka, momwemonso chikondi cha mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina la wokondedwa wanga) chidzawotchera kwa ine, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina lanu)."
Tsopano tengani "nyali" m'makandulo ndikuzimitsa sera. Bisani makandulo omwe sudzawoneka ndi diso lodziwika bwino. Simukufuna kunja kuti mudziwe kuti mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito munthu wokwatira. Kuonjezera apo, ndi kuululidwa kwa chinsinsi cha spell kwa munthu yemwe mungachepetse kuchita konse kwa ufiti mopanda pake.
Tsiku lililonse, kandulo yowunikira pa trayiyi. Muyenera kuyaka zonse phulusa, chifukwa phula, pambuyo pa masiku 40, muyenera kusonkhanitsa pepala ndi kuliika pansi pa mtengo wa zipatso.
Poyang'ana poyamba zikhoza kuwoneka kuti masiku makumi anayi ndi nthawi yaitali komanso yowawa kwambiri kuyembekezera. Koma kulekanitsa chiyanjano cha banja si nkhani yophweka, kupatulapo, kwa masiku makumi anayi mukhoza kusintha maganizo anu ndikutaya chikondi. Choncho, mwambo woterewu umangokupangitsani kuganiza ndi kuyeza zonse zomwe zimapindulitsa komanso zokhumudwitsa.