Anthu ambiri amakumana ndi vutoli pamene mutu umamvetsa kuti ubalewo watha kale, koma malingalirowo asanakhalepo. Pankhaniyi, kuzizira kudzakuthandizani. Zikhulupiriro zosavuta zidzatheketsa kusokoneza ubwenzi ndikuyamba moyo watsopano. Ndikofunika kutsatira malamulo onse, popeza mwambowu ungakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa.
Kodi ndimadziziritsa bwanji?
Popeza lapelinayi ikunyamulidwa yokha, sizingaganizidwe ngati zamatsenga. Izi ziyenera kukumbukira kuti mwambo umakopa mphamvu zakuda ndipo ngati simudziteteze kale, izi zingayambitse zotsatira zoipa. Ndikofunika kupita ku tchalitchi, kuika makandulo atatu pazithunzi zilizonse ndikuwerenga mapemphero otere: "Atate wathu", "Kondwerani, Theotokos", "Chizindikiro cha Chikhulupiliro" komanso pemphero lina kwa oyera mtima wanu.
Kugwiritsa ntchito mapepalawa kumayima mwezi wotsalira pa masiku oyenerera kugonana, ndiko kwa amayi ndi Lachitatu, Lachisanu ndi Loweruka, ndi amuna ena onse. Zimaletsedwa kuchita chimfine pawekha, ngati kukonda matsenga kunkagwiritsidwa ntchito kale. Ndikofunika kuchita mwambo, pamene panali kusiyana, koma maganizo opweteka amakhalabe. Tengani kandulo yachinyama ndi tsitsi lanu ndi wachikondi wakale. Usiku woyamba pambuyo pa mwezi wathunthu, ikani makandulo awiri, uwaunike ndi kuwotcha lamoto uliwonse muwi la moto. Patapita mphindi zingapo, tulutsani makandulo ndi kuwasiya mpaka usiku wotsatira. Pakati pausiku, amayala makandulo kutali ndi wina ndi mzake ndikuwatsanso. Bweretsani ntchito izi masiku asanu ndi awiri. Ndikofunika kuti usiku womaliza makandulo awotche kwathunthu. M'mawa mukulunga phula losakanizika mu ragi ndikuponyera mumtundu uliwonse, kunena mawu awa:
"Sindikufunanso chikondi china chachisoni ichi
Sindikufuna kugona usiku.
Ine tsopano ndidzakhala mfulu
Ndidzakhala mfulu kwamuyaya
Ndipo ngati ine ndikufuna kuti_ndipo ine ndidziwe yemwe angamukondere
Ndipo ndikhazika mtima pansi
Mwa ichi Ambuye Mulungu, Yesu Khristu, ndi mboni kwa ine! Amen! "
Ngati kuzizira komweko kuli kolondola, ndiye kuti sipadzakhalanso zotsatira. Apo ayi, mavuto akhoza kuwonjezeka ndi kukwiya ndi kudana ndi wakale angabwere.
Kuzizira kuchokera kwa otsutsa
Kuti mukondane mkazi wina, mukhoza kuchita mwambo wosavuta. Pa ichi muyenera kukhala ndi chithunzi, paketi ya mchere, makandulo atatu, nsalu ya tebulo, nsalu ndi ulusi wofiira, onse wakuda. M'chipinda momwe mwambowu udzakhazikitsidwe, sipadzakhalanso zipangizo zamagetsi. Ikani tebulo ndi mpando pakati pa chipinda. Pa ola limodzi m'mawa, pitani kuchipinda ndikupangira mchere mozungulira tebulo ndi mpando wachifumu. Chitani chilichonse mozengereza. Mutalowa mu bwalolo, ndiletsedwa kuti mupite mpaka kumapeto kwa mwambo . Gome laikidwa ndi chidutswa cha nsalu, kuika makandulo mu katatu kuti awiriwo ali pa mtunda umodzi, ndipo lachitatu likupita kutali ndikuloza kumpoto. Kuunikira makandulo mowirikiza. Mu mbale yakuya, ikani nsalu yophimba, pamwamba pa mchere wosalankhula ndi chithunzi cha mpikisano pansi. Kenaka, nenani mawu awa: "Pamene ndimakukulunga, kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wanga watembenukira kutali, kotero simukuyenera kukhala naye, musamamukonda, musakonde kuti musatenthe, perekani maganizo onse a mchere. Mchere - Solonitsa, ndiwe mlongo wanga, chikondi (dzina la wokonda), tenga, ukhale wokondweretsa mtima ndi moyo wako. Mchere wa kumverera udzatenga, (dzina la wokonda) mtendere amadziwa. "Thirani mchere pang'ono pa chithunzichi. Tengani chithunzi cha wokondedwa wanu mu mbale, koma yang'anani mmwamba, mutchule mawu awa:
"Wokondedwa wanga, wokondedwa, usakhale ndi iwe (dzina la mpikisano),
Ambuye ndiye kapolo wa Mulungu,
Kumverera kumubwezera iye, kumukonda iye kuti azizizira,
Sindiyenera kudandaula za chikhumbo chofuna kupeza, ngakhale chilakolako, kapena chilakolako, kapena vuto la mtima kuyambira tsopano kufikira kumapeto kwa zaka zambiri.
Lolani chisanu cha kugwirizana kwanu ndi kutembenuka kwake,
O kusasamala ndi kuzizira zidzatha. Choncho zikhale choncho. "
Pali mchere watsopano pamwamba pake. Kenaka tambani nsalu kuti muwoneke ngati envelopu. Lembani ndi ulusi ndikuukumba motalikira kuti:
"Chokhazikitsidwa, sichidzabadwanso, kuchokera kudziko la moyo kosatha kutembenuka."
Mwambowu udzakhala ndi mphamvu yapadera ngati mudzaika mvulopu m'manda.