Njira yosavuta yodziwira za malingaliro a munthu ndikuganiza pa masewera. Pali njira zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupeza zonse zomwe mukufuna.
Zotsatira za masewera
Kuti muchite mwambowu, muyenera kutenga masewero awiri, umodzi wa iwo uyenera kukufananitsani inu, winayo ndi woyenera. Ndibwino kuti muzisayine kuti musasokoneze. Ndikofunika kuti machesi aumitse, mwa njira iyi munthu akhoza kukhala wotsimikiza kuti zoona zake ndi zoona. Awatumize iwo ku chinthu kuti aziima, ndipo musagwe. Mwachitsanzo, gwiritsani ntchito dongo kapena chinachake chonga icho. Kenaka, muyenera kuwunika nthawi yomweyo ndikuwone momwe malo awo akusinthira.
Phindu lokulingalira pa masewera:
- ngati machesi, omwe amatanthauza munthu, adatembenuzidwa, ndiye amamukonda;
- ngati masewerowa ali chimodzimodzi, ndiye simusamala;
- Ngati machesi achotsedwa, ndiye kuti ali ndi vuto kwa inu.
Choncho, mukhoza kulingalira kwa anthu ena, mwachitsanzo, abwenzi kapena anzanu atsopano, amangowafananitsa ndi mayina awo.
Kuganiza pamasewero ndi madzi
Chifukwa cha mwambo umenewu, mungapeze zambiri zothetsera vutoli. Ndikofunika kuti atenge machesi ndi madzi. Musanayambe, yang'anani maso anu ndikuchotsani malingaliro onse. Mukatha kutenga masewerowa, funsani funso limene limakufunani, liwunike ndi kuliponya m'madzi. Chitani chimodzimodzi ndi mzere wina.
Tanthawuzo la kuyankhula mwachibwana ndi:
- machesi ndi ofanana - zotsatira za mkhalidwewo zidzakhala mwa inu;
- mtanda - pali zopinga zomwe zimakulepheretsani kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna;
- kuchokera mumadzi pali "utsi" - munthu wina amakuvutitsani.
Kuganiza pamasewero kuti muwakonde
Mwambo wakale uwu udzapereka mwayi wowona mkwatibwi m'maloto. Kuchokera pa masewera muyenera kupanga bwino, ndikutsatira chikho cha madzi. Komanso pa mwambowu, muyenera kugula chotsekedwa chaching'ono chomwe chimatseka pamakina a mugugu,
Kuganiza pa masewero a chikhumbo
Mwambo uwu uyenera kuchitidwa usiku pa tsiku loyamba la mwezi wathunthu. Tenga kandulo yoyera, yowunikira, yesetsani kukhumba ndi kuganiza mwakuganiza ndi mphamvu ya cosmic. Imani maso ndi maso ndi kum'mawa ndipo gwiritsani ntchito kandulo kuti muveke mzere pakati pa inu ndi malo. Pambuyo pake, tengani machesi, funsani zofuna zanu , mugwedeze bokosilo ndikuwaza machesi pa tebulo.
Chiwerengero cha masewera chidzakhala yankho:
- ngakhale_chikhumbo kuti chikwaniritsidwe;
- osati ngakhale - chilakolako chomwe sichiyenera kukwaniritsidwa.