Kusatetezeka ndizovuta kwambiri pokwaniritsa zolinga zosiyanasiyana. Zimayambira zonse chifukwa cha zikhalidwe za anthu, komanso chifukwa cha makhalidwe a munthu aliyense . Akatswiri a zamaganizo asankha malamulo ena okhudza kudzidalira. Tiyenera kutchula nthawi yomweyo kuti ntchitoyi si yosavuta ndipo idzatenga nthawi kuchotsa zizolowezi zina ndikukonza zatsopano, koma ndikukhulupirirani, zotsatira zake ndizofunikira.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro?
Choyamba, m'pofunika kuchotsa zinthu zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira. Choyamba chimakhudza maonekedwe, choncho ngati mukufuna kuchotsa kulemera kolemera, pitani kwa wolembera kuti musinthe chithunzicho ndikusintha zovalazo, ndikuyang'ana zochitika mu mafashoni.
Monga mkazi kuti azidzidalira:
- Konzani zochita zanu, ndikuyika malire omveka kuti pakhale malamulo ena. Chifukwa cha ichi, simukuyenera kusiya ntchito chifukwa cha kudzikayikira.
- Chotsani chizolowezi chodzidzudzula nthawi zonse, chifukwa zolakwika zimapangitsa munthu kuyang'ana pa zolakwa. Phunzirani kuganiza moyenera. Ndi bwino kulemba zofunikira zanu papepala ndikuganizirani okha.
- Kupititsa patsogolo kudzidalira kumatanthawuza kuwonjezeka kwina m'magulu osiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, ngati kukonza kumakhala kochititsa chidwi, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse azikhala akukula motere, akuphunzira njira zosiyana siyana. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito kuntchito, komwe kuli koyeneranso kuyesetsabe kuti apite patsogolo.
- Thandizani anthu oyandikana nawo, ndipo izi sizikugwiranso ntchito kwa anzanu okha, mukhoza kudzipereka. Kumva kuyamikira kwa anthu oyandikana nawo, ndikuzindikiritsa nokha kufunika kwanu, mungathe kudzikuza .
- Dzilemekezeni ngakhale pa zochepa zapindula, mwachitsanzo, chakudya chokonzekera bwino, kuyeretsa, kutumiza lipoti kuntchito, ndi zina zotero.