Makolo ndi ofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wa munthu aliyense, chifukwa ndizo zowonjezera komanso zothandizira pazochitika zilizonse. Makolo amaphunzitsa maphunziro a moyo woyamba, kuphunzitsa kukonda ndi kumvetsa dziko lozungulira.
Makolo onse awiri ndi ofunikira kwa mwanayo, chifukwa aliyense wa iwo amakhala ndi udindo m'moyo. Mayi amayesa kukulunga mwana wake mwachikondi ndi kusamalira. Cholinga chachikulu pa moyo wake ndicho kuona mwana wake akusangalala kwambiri. Bambo amachitanso mbali yofunika kwambiri pakupanga umunthu . Adzayamika nthawi zonse chifukwa cha zomwe wapindula ndikupereka uphungu pazovuta. Chotsatira cha chikondi cha makolo ndicho kudzidalira kwa mwana, kuyanjana kwa banja, kufunitsitsa kupanga banja losangalala.
Pempherera Makolo
Ana, akukula, amayesetsa kusamalira makolo awo ndipo, monga momwe, kubwezera "ngongole". Mukhoza kutembenukira ku Mphamvu Zapamwamba ndikupempha thandizo. Pa nthawi iliyonse mukhoza kuwerenga pemphero ili:
"Ambuye Yesu Khristu, landirani pemphero ili kwa makolo anga. Apatseni umodzi umodzi wa malingaliro ndi chikondi masiku onse a moyo wawo. Limbikitsani matupi awo mu thanzi, ndipo adzakutumikira ndi ntchito za uthenga wabwino. Ndiphunzitseni kuti ndikhale omvera nthawi zonse. Ndipulumutseni ku chinyengo ndi zoipa pochita nazo, ndipo musatilepheretse kulungamitsidwa konse pa Chigamulo Chanu Chotha. Amen. "
Mawu awa angamve ngati pemphero la thanzi la makolo. Zikomo Kumwamba kuti muli ndi banja labwino chotero, kuti makolo akukutetezeni miyoyo yawo yonse ndikuthandizani pa chilichonse.
Mapemphero a Orthodox kwa makolo
Munthu aliyense ndi wochimwa, koma aliyense ali ndi vuto lake lokhalira kumbuyo kwake. Pali mawu akuti: "Ana ali ndi udindo wa machimo a makolo awo." Nthawi zina mbadwo wotsatira umayambitsa zolakwika ndi zochita zauchimo. Pofuna kupewa zotsatira zoipa, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito pemphero chifukwa cha machimo a makolo, zimveka ngati izi:
Khala mngelo wamasomphenya kwa makolo, funsani mabungwe apamwamba kuti awatchinjirize ku zonse zopanda pake. Nthawi zonse werengani chiwembu chomwecho:
Pemphero la kukhululukidwa kwa machimo a makolo
Tchalitchi chimanena kuti chirichonse chimene makolowo anachita ndi kupita kwa ana awo. Mwanayo akamalandira "kachikwama", komwe nthawi zonse amakhala naye. Pofuna kuchotsa pang'onopang'ono "miyala" yomwe imadzaza katundu wathu, tiyenera kuwerenga mau a pemphero ku Theotokos Wopatulikitsa. Zikumveka ngati izi:
Pempherera Makolo
Mawu oti "kukhululukira" ali ndi matanthauzo otsatirawa: kukhululuka, kuchotsa mwaukhondo, kuthetsa ngongole. Pamene anthu akuchita chinachake cholakwika muyenera kupempha chikhululuko, zimakupatsani kubwezeretsa ubale ndi kukhulupilira kale. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mawu a chikhululuko amachokera mumtima ndipo akhale owona mtima. Pamene munthu achita tchimo, akuwoneka kuti akutsutsana ndi Ambuye Mulungu, ngati salapa, adzalangidwa.
Ngati makolo anu sakanatha kapena alibe nthawi yopempha machimo awo, mukhoza kuwachitira. Bweretsani pemphero kwa Mulungu, khululukirani makolo anu ndikupempha chikhululuko kwa iwo ndi inu nokha pamaso pa Mphamvu Zapamwamba.
