Nthawi zambiri kumapunthwa pa malo apamwamba, funso limabuka: "Zingatanthauzanji?". Zili choncho kuti zizindikiro zomwe zinkachitika kalekale chifukwa cha maonekedwe a anthu zingathandize.
Kodi kukhumudwa kumanzere kwanu kumatanthauzanji?
Ngakhale kuti makolo athu onse, omwe amagwirizana ndi mbali ya kumanzere ya thupi, amaonedwa kuti ndi oipa, zikukhumudwitsa zimasonyeza kuti zonse zidzakhala bwino. Ngati munayenera kupunthwa pa mwendo wanu wamanzere - ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino, chomwe chikutanthauza kuti posachedwa mungapeze mphotho yoyenera. Mungathenso kutenga ichi monga chisonyezo kuti mutha kuyembekezerana ndi mwayi . Kale, panali chizindikiro china chomwe chimamveketsa zomwe zimapunthwitsa pa phazi lamanzere, malingana ndi mtundu wa chizindikiro kuti maganizo onse pamutu mwanga asonkhana ndipo lingaliro labwino lidzawonekera posachedwa ndipo lidzakhala ndi chiyembekezo cha nthawi yaitali. Posachedwapa, mungasangalale ndi kupambana kwanu.
Zizindikiro zambiri zomwe anayenera kupunthwa ndi phazi lawo lamanzere kapena lamanja limasuliridwa mosiyana, patsiku la kubadwa ndi tsiku la mwambo. Pamapeto pake, ngati mutapunthwa pa tsiku losamvetsetseka, ndipo mumabadwa tsiku lomwelo - ichi ndi chizindikiro choipa, chomwe chimasonyeza njira zosiyanasiyana zovuta ndi mavuto. Ngati tsiku lokhumudwitsa ndi tsiku la kubadwa ligwirizana, ndiye kuti zinthu zonse ndizovuta kapena zosamvetseka, ndiye musadandaule, chifukwa chirichonse chidzakhala chabwino.
Malingana ndi mfundo ya sayansi, kukhumudwa ndizochitika zomveka bwino, zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi ntchito za ubongo. Monga momwe akudziwira, malo oyenerera ali ndi udindo ku dzanja lamanzere ndipo pamene palibe kugwirizana kwa chidziwitso, munthu amapunthwa. Palinso lingaliro lakuti pafupifupi zochita zonse zimayendetsedwa ndi chidziwitso, chomwe chimagwira mofulumira kuposa maganizo . Kusagwirizana uku kumabweretsa zopunthwitsa.