Monga zikuwonetsedwera ndi kukumbukira kwa amayi akubeleka, ngakhale panthawi yovuta kwambiri, nthawi zambiri kuseketsa kwabwino kumawathandiza. Mosakayikira, ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi kulowetsedwa bwino ndikumwetulira panthawi yoyembekezera, kubadwa, ndi kubadwa kwa mwana. Mwina ndi chifukwa chake machitidwe a amayi nthawi zonse amakhala otchuka nthawi zonse.
Malingaliro a zomwe zikuchitika ndi kuseketsa zidzakuthandizani kukhala chete, osayang'ana zenizeni kapena kuyesetsa kuthetsa mkanganowo modekha. Izi ndizofunika makamaka pamene mkangano umatsuka pamaso pa mayi wapakati, chifukwa zochitika za mantha za crane zimayipitsa vuto la mwanayo.
Komabe, pokhudzana ndi kusintha kwa mahomoni, amayi amtsogolo nthawi zambiri amakhalabe ndi maganizo ovutika maganizo. Kusokoneza pang'ono ndi kumwetulira kudzalola kuwerenga nkhani zovuta zochokera kuchipatala. Pambuyo pake, pafupifupi mkazi aliyense wobereka ali ndi nkhani yosangalatsa yomwe yasiyidwa m'nkhokwe yomwe angathe kugawira.
Amayi okondweretsa nthawi zambiri amagwirizanitsidwa:
- ndi kuseketsa ndi khalidwe la madokotala;
- ndi khalidwe la mwamuna pa nthawi yobereka;
- ndi mwadzidzidzi.
Nkhani zomveka zochokera kuchipatala
Nkhani zokhudzana ndi zamankhwala
- Nditatulutsidwa ndinatengedwera kumalo. Mwamunayo anafunsa dokotalayo kuti: "N'chifukwa chiyani akugwedezeka choncho?" Ndipo dokotalayo anamuyankha kuti: "Choncho chisanu chidzafika posachedwapa!"
- Pomwe ine ndinabereka mwana wamkazi, dotolo wotopa yemwe anabala zowawa kwambiri pamaso panga, ndinapita kunyumba. Ndinaganiza zoti ndimufunse kuti: "Ndiuzeni, ndipo nthawi yachiwiri idzabwera?" Dokotala anayang'ana pa ulonda wake ndipo anati: "Kusamuka kwanga kudzakhala Lachitatu ..."
Nkhani za amai pakubeleka za khalidwe la mwamuna wake
- Pakati pausiku, chibwenzicho chinayamba kumenyana. Anadzutsa mwamuna wake ndipo anati nthawi inali kupita kuchipatala. Mwamunayo adachita mantha ndipo anayamba kuyitana tekesi, akugwira chubu pansi. Pamene, potsiriza, adayitanitsa galimotoyo ndipo anandiuza kuti ndiyenera kupita kuchipatala, woyendetsa galimoto akuti adzayesa mwamphamvu. Mwamuna wake anayankha kuti "Zikomo, koma sitikufulumira."
- Palibe choipa kuposa kuyembekezera. Mwamuna wanga nayenso anadzipereka kutentha: nthawi zonse ankangoyendayenda panyumbamo ndi woyendetsa sitima, ndipo atangoima pabedi, anafunsa kuti: "Ali kuti mwanayo?".
Sangalalani kuchipatala, mukugwirizana ndi zosayembekezereka
- Pakatikati pa kubadwa kwa chipatala chonse, magetsi anatsekedwa. Pokhala mu mdima wandiweyani mu mpando wopereka, ndinamvetsa kuti sindingakwanitse kuimitsa. Madokotala anaganiza zobweretsa mafoni awo ndi kuwatsogolera kuwala kumene iwo ayenera kupita. Anthu ambiri anaima pafupi ndi mapazi anga ndi matelefoni, koma adanena kuti panalibe kuwala kokwanira. Kenaka ndinapempha kuti nditenge zanga, chifukwa ali ndi chophimba chachikulu ... Apa pali kubadwa kosangalatsa kumeneku kunali.
Izi ndizochitika zochepa chabe zozizwitsa kuchokera kuchipatala. Koma kuwonjezereka ndi ngozi zowonongeka ndi anthu, kwa amayi mu zochitika zosangalatsa ndi zovala zosangalatsa kwambiri za amayi apakati. Pali nthawi yomwe mayi ayenera kubisa mimba kale. Lero, amayi amtsogolo omwe amatsutsana nawo akutsindika mkhalidwe wawo. Ndipo opanga mu izi amangothandiza basi. T-shirts ndi nthabwala za amayi apakati amadziwika osati ndi mdulidwe wapadera, komanso ndi zithunzi zozizwitsa ndi zolembedwa. Zokongola kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, zimawoneka ngati T-shirts ndi zolembera zazing'ono ndi miyendo yaing'ono. Zolemba pa T-shirts zingakuchenjezeni kuti pamaso pa mayi wamtsogolo simukuyenera kusuta.
Nchifukwa chiyani nkofunika kuti muzisangalala mukakhala ndi mwana? Kuseka ndi njira yosavuta komanso yotsika mtengo yothetsera nkhawa. Ngakhale asayansi atsimikizira kuti amayi omwe amaseka kwambiri pamene ali ndi mimba, sagwidwa ndi matenda a catarrhal, ndipo ana awo alibe vuto ndi timapepala takupuma. Choncho, ndi bwino kuwerenga nthabwala za amayi apakati kusiyana ndi kuopseza nkhani za mavuto osiyanasiyana. Limbikitsani.
Pambuyo pa zonse, ngati mukuchita zomwe zikuchitika ndi kuseketsa ndi kukonda mwana wanu, ndiye zovuta zowopsya zokhudzana ndi kubereka zingachepetse chisangalalo cha amayi.