Tonsefe timakhala mdziko. Tsiku lililonse timazunguliridwa ndi anthu ambiri omwe timayenera kukambirana nawo: achibale, abwenzi, ogwira ntchito kuntchito, ogulitsa m'masitolo, mndandanda wa mndandanda umenewu akhoza kupitilira kwamuyaya. Zivomereze, zingakhale zabwino, osapanga zolakwika pakuchita nawo: sipangakhale mikangano kumalo antchito, kukangana kunyumba, kungakhale kotheka popanda mavuto, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo, kukonzekera kubwereketsa poyendetsa galimoto kapena kugonana ndi anthu owopsya. Mwamwayi, ngati izi zingatheke mudziko lenileni, ndiye kuti kupambana kwabwino koteroko kumawoneka kuti ndi ntchito yovuta, komabe sikutanthauza kuti kuli kofunika, yesetsani kuyesetsa kukweza luso lake loyankhulana (kapena, akatswiri a maganizo a alankhulidwe, akuyankhulana).
Kulankhulana - njira yopambana
Ambiri a ife timatha kulankhulana kwachangu, koma nthawi zonse musachite izi moyenera. Pofuna kulimbikitsa luso loyankhulana, ndibwino kulabadira malingaliro angapo:
- Musayesere kulankhulana, mmalo mwake, khalani woyambitsa;
- yesetsani kusangalala ndi chenicheni choyankhulana ndi anthu;
- Masewera ena angakuthandizeni, mwachitsanzo, "Mafunso a Chichewa", pa masewerawa gulu la anthu angapo kuti ligawanike mu magulu awiri, aliyense wa iwo akufunsa funso, ndipo amalandira yankho ngati mawonekedwe a nyimbo yotchuka: "Ali kuti yemweyo wokondeka wanga kuti? "-" Mu nkhalango yakuda yamdima, komwe aspens ikuwomba ";
- yesani kumvetsera ndikumva wanu wothandizira. Pa nkhani yake musasokoneze, musayambe kukambirana nawo, ndipo nthawi zonse muzikhala maso;
- Khalani ndi chiyembekezo - palibe amene amakonda kumvetsera zodandaula za moyo.
Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito malangizo othandiza pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo mudzawona - zidzakhala zosavuta kulankhula ndi anzako. Kuwonjezera apo, kukwanitsa kupanga zokambirana zolimbikitsa ndizofunikira kwa mtsogoleri, zimakupatsani kuyendetsa bwino ntchito, kotero kuti ndi kopindulitsa kwambiri.
Mphamvu yolankhulana ndi amuna
Kulankhulana molondola ndi amuna, mwinamwake, ndikofunikira kwa mkazi aliyense - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo zofunika za kukongola ndi banja losangalala. Tsoka ilo, poyankhula ndi kugonana kolimba, nthawi zambiri timapanga zolakwa zambiri. Omwe Ambiri Ambiri:
- mawu ochuluka - ndi mawu okhudza nokha omwe mumawakonda, chifukwa akhala akudziwika kwa nthawi yaitali -
Amuna samakonda akazi olankhulana, koma nthawi ndi nthawi timayendera limodzi. Amuna, mukufuna kukopa ndi kusunga munthu - phunzirani kumvera ndi kufunsa mafunso ponena za iye mwini; - Kupsinjika maganizo - Amuna samalola kulekerera pa iwo konse, ndipo makamaka makamaka, ngati mukufuna kutsimikizira chinachake, lekani kuwona, mungachite bwino kuyesa zogwirizana ndi mfundo zomveka;
- kunyoza kwakukulu - ndikumapha, pachibwenzi. Kumbukirani, musamanyoze munthu, makamaka pagulu. Amuna ambiri amatha kukhululukira zambiri, koma osati kuchititsidwa manyazi.