Kodi mungakope bwanji mnyamata?

"Kodi mumakonda mnyamata? Choncho musadikire nyengo panyanja, muyenera kukhala olimba mtima kuti mudziwe nokha! "- Malangizo amenewa ndi odzaza ndi kusintha kwa moyo wake. Zikuwoneka kuti zowona: zinkakonda, zinayandikira, zinagonjetsedwa ndikusiya phwandolo. Ndipo sizowopsya, mwinamwake, kuyandikira chinachake, koma ndi kugonjetsa kungakhale kovuta, ndikofunikira kulingalira za chinachake. Ndiye mungatani kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi mnyamata yemwe simudziwa kuti azidziwa bwino, ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?

Njira zokopa chidwi cha mnyamata

1. Kodi mtsikana angakhoze bwanji kukopa chidwi cha mnyamata, ngati sikuti akuyang'ana? Kotero, yang'anani pa munthu yemwe mumamukonda, kuti azindikire chidwi chanu, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti sizinali mofulumira. Pamene akuwona nkhope yake, ndikuchitanso manyazi, ndikuchotsa maso ake, koma kuyang'ana kachiwiri. Bwanji osayang'anitsitsa diso? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti nthawi zambiri, amuna amakonda kuyang'ana nthawi yaitali ngati zosangalatsa, koma usiku umodzi wokha. Ngati zotsatira zoterozo ndi zosayenera, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kukhala osungika.
2. Lolani chikhazikitso. Onetsetsani kuti chophimba chilichonse chikuwoneka bwino kwa atsikana omwe ali ndi msana komanso mutu wonyada. Ngati mulibe deta yamtundu wotere, muyenera kuyeserera panyumba kutsogolo pagalasi, kapena bwino kuti mupange nthawi yovina. Ndipo nthawi idzagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino, ndipo msana wanu udzakonza ndipo mudzalandira chisomo.
3. Malingana ndi momwe akatswiri a maganizo amalingalira, mbali yaikulu ya zochitika pamsonkhano woyamba umapangidwa ndi zizindikiro za thupi ndi maonekedwe. Choncho, pofuna kukopa chidwi cha mnyamata amene mumamukonda, mukhoza kutsanzira manja ake, mwachitsanzo, kukhala pansi ngati iye kapena kupukusa mutu wake mofanana. Chinthu chachikulu sikutembenukira mu nyani, nkutheka kuti munthu sangasangalale ngati mutayamba kumutsanzira momasuka. Koma kutsanzira kosasangalatsa kudzawonekera momveka bwino kwa wothandizana naye kuti "muli ndi mawonekedwe ofanana."
4. Choyamba chinapangidwa, adayamikira mawonekedwe anu odabwitsa ndipo adayankhula nanu. Chabwino, chinthu chachikulu sichiwononga chilichonse. Malo achiwiri ofunikira kupanga malingaliro okhudza munthu ndi njira yolankhulirana. Choncho timaphunzira kulankhula ndi munthu molondola. Chilichonse chimene chimangokhala ndi mnyamata, akhoza kukhumudwitsidwa ndi chilichonse, ngakhale mawu otukwana. Choncho, pamsonkhano woyamba ndibwino kulepheretsa kunyoza kwake ndi kuipa kwake, ndipo sichidzudzulidwa ndi interlocutor. Komanso, musayankhe mafunso ake osakondweretsa, adzasankha kuti sakukukondani. Koma komanso kugunda kwina - mu kudzipatulira kwa mwamuna mu zonse zovuta za moyo wake, inunso, musatero. Kumbukirani kuti mavuto anu ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa inu, komanso mwina kwa makolo anu.
5. Mwa njira, pafupi mtunda pakati pa oyankhulana. N'zoonekeratu kuti mu chipinda chokhala ndi nyimbo zoimba, ngati simukufuna, muyenera kukhala pafupi kuti mukumvana. Koma nthawi zina ndibwino kuti musalowe mumsasa, kuyambira pa 1 mpaka 3.5 mamita. Mtunda wokwana 0,5 mamita kufika 1 mamita ndi cholinga cholankhulana ndi anzanu komanso anthu odziwa bwino. Koma ngati mwapang'onopang'ono muyandikira wothandizana naye pamene mukulankhulana ndipo simukuwona zizindikiro zosakondweretsa mbali yake, ndiye kuti zonse ziri bwino. Mukhoza kupitirizabe kuchita zoipa, mwachitsanzo, musagwire dzanja lake kapena paphewa kuti musonyeze chidwi chake.
6. Kodi mtsikana angakope bwanji chidwi cha mnyamata, ngati sakukondweretsa yekha, sadzidalira? N'zachidziwikire kuti panopa palibe chomwe chidzabwere. Kotero, ife tiri ngati heroine wa filimu yakale ndikudziuza tokha kuti: "Ndine wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri." Ndipo ndithudi, kuzindikira kwanu zowonjezereka, kukwanitsa kwanu kukambirana ndi kukondweretsa, kuli kofunika. Kotero, ife sitimangoganizira kokha ku mawonekedwe athu akunja, komanso kwa mkati.

Ngati simungakwanitse kukopa chidwi cha mnyamata amene mumakonda, musataye mtima. Osati chenicheni chakuti nkhaniyi ili mwa inu, mwinamwake, mtima wake watengedwa kale, kapena osati munthu wanu-izi zikuchitanso.