Pofotokozera malotowo, momwe kudali kofunikira kuyesa kavalidwe, ndikofunika kukumbukira momwe zovalazo zinkaonekera. Pankhani imeneyi, m'pofunika kuganizira momwe mumamvera mumtima mwanu, ndiko kuti, momwe mumamvera mumtima mwanu.
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Kwa mtsikana wamng'ono maloto, komwe anayeza kavalidwe kake, amasonyeza kuti anthu omwe amamuzungulira amamuyamikira. Ngati chovalacho chinang'ambika, posachedwa mudzayenera kumvetsera chilango chifukwa cha zochita zawo. Maloto, pamene wina amayenera kuyeza kavalidwe ka wina, amachenjeza za kuyambitsa mkondano mu chiyanjano cha chikondi. Kuyeza kavalidwe kaukwati kumalota kumatanthauza kuti zonse zidzakhala zabwino m'banja, ndipo kwa anthu osakwatira, zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro chokumana ndi mnzanu wabwino. Ngati mutayesa pa zinthu zomwe simukuzikonda, ichi ndi chizindikiro choipa chomwe chimakuchenjezani za mavuto osiyanasiyana. Kuyeza kavalidwe kabwino m'maloto ndikukhala ndi maganizo abwino nthawi yomweyo kumatanthauza kuti posakhalitsa mungadalire mphatso ya chiwonongeko. Ngati chovalacho chinali chovala - ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha manyazi ndi kutsutsidwa pamaso pa anthu oyandikana nawo.
Kwa amayi, maloto, kumene amayeretsa kavalidwe katsopano, amachititsa kuti apambane . Kuyeza kavalidwe ka mtengo wapatali m'maloto, kutanthauza, posachedwa, mu ubale ndi achibale kumeneko kudzakhala mikangano yambiri ndi zopanda pake. Masomphenya ausiku, kumene bwenzi kapena wachibale amavalira kavalidwe, amachenjeza za kukangana kwakukulu pakati pa mabwenzi apamtima. Ngati muyesa kavalidwe kakang'ono - ndizowona za zodabwitsa. Kuyeza zovala zakuda mu maloto kukutanthauza kuti posachedwa mudzapeza nkhani zoipa. Ngati chovalacho chinali chobiriwira, ndi chizindikiro cha kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako. Kavalidwe ka chikasu chimalonjeza kuoneka kwa kaduka. Kuti mkazi ayese diresi yofiira mu loto, zikutanthawuza, m'moyo weniweni nkhondo ndi wokangana idzakhala. Ngati chovalacho chimatsindika mwatsatanetsatane chiwerengerochi - ndicho chizindikiro cha kupambana kosavuta pa wotsutsana.