Oganiza za nthawi zonse ndi anthu mosakayikira anatsindika mphamvu ya malingaliro ndi zolankhula. Zitsimikizo za izi zikhoza kupezeka m'mabuku opatulika a chipembedzo chilichonse: Amuna onse anzeru akum'maŵa ndi akatswiri a kumadzulo amati ndizo zenizeni zomwe zingakopetse zofunikira. Chikhulupiriro chathu chamkati chimatsimikiziridwa mu zochitika zenizeni. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake malingaliro abwino pazomwe apambana ndiwo maziko a chigonjetso chirichonse.
Maganizo a moyo wabwino
Mzimu wolemekezeka kwa abambo ndi abambo ndi wosiyana. Onse awiri akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro abwino kuti akwaniritse zotsatira. Kumbukirani moyo wa Arnold Schwarzenegger: pamene adalowa masewerawa, adakhala Mr. Olympia; pamene adaganiza kuti adziwe cinema - adakhala wotchuka kwambiri pa nthawi yake; pamene adalowa ndale - adakhala mtsogoleri wa California mwiniwake! Ndipo akanakhala purezidenti wa United States, ngati malamulo awo sakanaletsa kuthamangira ntchitoyi kwa anthu omwe sanabadwire m'dzikoli.
Chifukwa cha zomwe sakanachita, adafika kumalo osakhalapo. Arnold anabwereza mobwerezabwereza chinsinsi chake pofunsidwa mafunso: nthawi zambiri ankawongolera maganizo ake momwe analifunira, poganizira momwe angakhalire. Nthawi itakwana yoti achite, sanakayike kuti apambane, ndipo ndithudi anali ndi mwayi.
Mmene mungasinthire malingaliro osamvetsetseka kuti mupambane?
Khalani ndi chizolowezi chonyamula kabuku, komwe konzekeretsani malingaliro anu onse oipa ndi okhudzana ndi chochitika chomwe mukufunikira kupambana. Pomwe mndandanda wanu uli wokonzeka, onetsetsani kuti mukuganiza za mantha onse ndi zikhulupiriro zolakwika, ndikuwongolera ku zabwino, ndipo musadzilole nokha kuganizira za zoipa nthawi zonse, m'malo mwa lingaliro "lolakwika" ndi "lolondola". Pamene izi zikhala chizoloŵezi, mudzawona mphamvu zanu ndikukhulupirira kuti mukupambana. Ndi chikhulupiriro chosagwedezeka chomwe chimakuthandizani kuti mukwaniritse mapiri alionse!