Khalidwe losasinthasintha

Anthu ambiri amatsatira miyambo yambiri ya chikhalidwe cha anthu. Chifukwa cha iwo, kukhala ndi chikhalidwe kumayendetsedwa ndi kulosera komanso kuchita nthawi zonse. Koma zimakhalanso kuti anthu ena sagwirizana ndi zomwe akuyembekezera. Anthu ena amakana kutsatira nthawi zambiri amatsatira malangizo ndi malamulo. Chifukwa cha izi, zochita zawo ndizopanda khalidwe kapena m'mawu ena zosasintha.

Khalidwe losasinthasintha limatanthauzidwa ngati khalidwe labwino, limene zochita za munthuyo sizigwirizana ndi zikhalidwe zomwe zilipo m'dera.

Khalidwe lopotoka ndi loipa komanso labwino, tidzakambirana momveka bwino mitundu yake:

1. Vagrancy (imawoneka chifukwa cha kusowa pokhala kwa ana, kusowa chidwi ndi maphunziro kuchokera kwa makolo, akuluakulu).
2. Khalidwe lachiwawa (likuwonetsedwa mosiyana ndi ena, zinyama, ndi zina zotero, koma sichiphwanya lamulo).
3. Kusuta mowa, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
4. Khalidwe ndi maonekedwe a autoaggressive (kuwonongeka kwa thanzi lanu).

Zifukwa zonyansa

Zina mwa zinthu zomwe zimabweretsa kulakwitsa m'zochitika zaumunthu zingathe kudziwika:

1. Aliyense. Izi zingaphatikizepo matenda a neuromuscular a munthu, kuchedwa kwa thanzi lake ndi thanzi lake, kapena zifukwa zomwini zophwanya maphunziro abwino a banja, komanso umunthu wake.
2. Pakati pa anthu-m'maganizo. Zomwe zimayambitsa khalidwe losayera zingakhale zovuta za ubale wa ana ndi chilengedwe (gulu la ana, banja, msewu).
3. Zachikhalidwe. Zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso chikhalidwe cha anthu.

Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti anthu omwe amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa, kuledzera kapena kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo amatha kusiya makhalidwe oipa, omwe angaperekedwe kuchokera kwa makolo kupita kwa ana awo. Kawirikawiri khalidwe lotereli ndilopangidwa mwa anthu omwe sangathe kusintha chikhalidwe chawo ndi maganizo awo, omwe amadziwika ndi kulimbika kwaumwini, kusamvana. Psycholoji ya khalidwe losasamala, choyamba, ikuwonetsedwa mwa anthu omwe samawona kuthekera kwa kudzizindikira kwawo. Iwo sangasinthe chikhalidwe chawo, atha kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna, ndipo chifukwa chake amakana kulandira chikhalidwe.

Khalidwe lopanda khalidwe silikuvulaza ena. Zitsanzo za khalidwe ili ndi izi:

1. Munthu wodalirika amakhala ndi chikondi chothandizira ana amasiye, ndi zina zotero.
2. Munthu wodutsa-wothandizira apolisi amamanga mbala.
3. Msilikali amakana kupha anthu, ngakhale kuti akhoza kuchepetsedwa.
4. Wojambula yemwe ali ndi lingaliro loyambirira la kulenga. Anthu amamuona kuti ndi wodabwitsa komanso wapamwamba.
5. Genius, chiyero, zatsopano, zowonongeka.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti khalidweli silikuvulaza mtundu wa anthu, koma sikuti limalowetsa chikhalidwe chovomerezeka.

Mchitidwe wosayera wa munthu ukhoza kupezedwa. Njira imeneyi ikhoza kuwululidwa, komanso anthu omwe ali ndi khalidwe losagwirizana ndi anthu, ndi munthu wamba, mwana wa sukulu, wogwira ntchito. Cholinga cha matendawa ndicho kuzindikira momwe khalidweli limayendera anthu.

Kuzindikira khalidwe losasintha

Funso loyesa kuyezetsa matendawa liri ndi mndandanda wa miyeso yeniyeni ya maganizo yomwe imayesedwa pofuna kuyesa chikhumbo cha munthu ku zisonyezo zina za khalidwe losayera. Pano pali chitsanzo cha chiyeso chachikazi cha mayeso awa:

1. Ndimayesetsa kuvala mwatsatanetsatane kuti nditsatire mafashoni amasiku ano kapena kuwonetsa.
2. Zitha kuchitika kuti ndikubwezerani mawa zomwe ndikuyenera kuchita lero.
3. Ngati pangakhale mpata wotere, ndikanakonda kulowa usilikali.
4. Zimakhala kuti nthawi zina ndimakangana ndi makolo anga.
5. Kuti akwaniritse, mtsikanayo nthawi zina amamenya nkhondo.
6. Ndikanatenga ntchito yowopsya kuti ndikhale ndi thanzi ngati iko kulipira bwino.
7. Nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri moti ndimangokhala chete.
8. Nthawi zina ndimakonda kunong'oneza bondo.
9. Ndimakonda ntchitoyi yokhudzana ndi chiopsezo cha moyo.
10. Ndimakonda pamene zovala ndi maonekedwe anga amakwiyitsa anthu a m'badwo wokalamba.
11. Anthu opusa ndi amantha okha amakwaniritsa malamulo ndi malamulo onse.
12. Ndingakonde ntchito yokhudzana ndi kusintha ndi kuyenda, ngakhale kuti ndiopseza moyo.
13. Nthawi zonse ndimalankhula zoona zokhazokha.
14. Ngati munthu moyenera komanso popanda zotsatira zoipa amagwiritsa ntchito zinthu zosangalatsa komanso zamaganizo - izi ndi zachilendo.
15. Ngakhale nditakhala wokwiya, ndimayesa kuti ndisamukakamize.
16. Ndine wokondwa kuyang'ana mafilimu amachitidwe.
17. Ngati anditonza, ndiye kuti ndiyenera kubwezera.
18. Munthu ayenera kukhala ndi ufulu womwa momwe amafunira komanso kumene akufuna.
19. Ngati bwenzi langa litachedwa nthawi, ndiye kuti ndimakhala chete.
20. Nthawi zambiri zimandivuta kupanga robot kwa nthawi ndithu.
21. Nthawi zina ndimadutsa mumsewu komwe ndimamva bwino, osati kumene ndikuyenera kutero.
22. Ena amalamulira ndi zoletsedwa akhoza kutayidwa, ngati mukufuna.
23. Zinkachitika kuti sindinamvere makolo anga.
24. Mugalimoto, ndimayamikira chitetezo kuposa liwiro.
25. Ndikuganiza kuti ndikufuna kuchita karate kapena masewera ofanana.
26. Ndikanadakonda ntchito ya woperekera zakudya m'sitilanti.
27. Nthawi zambiri ndimaona kuti ndikufunikira zosangalatsa.
28. Nthawi zina ndimafuna kudzipweteka ndekha.
29. Maganizo anga pa moyo akufotokozedwa bwino ndi mwambi: "Kuyeza kasanu ndi kawiri, kudula kamodzi".
30. Nthaŵi zonse ndimalipira ndalama zogulitsira anthu.
31. Pakati pa anthu amene ndimadziwa nawo pali anthu amene ayesa kumwa mankhwala oopsa.
32. Nthawi zonse ndimasunga malonjezano anga, ngakhale kuti sizothandiza kwa ine.
33. Zikuchitika kuti ndikungofuna kulumbira.
34. Anthu omwe amatsatira mwambiwa akulondola: "Ngati simungathe, koma mukufunadi, ndiye mutha."
35. Zinkachitika kuti ndakhala ndikukumana ndi vuto losamwa mowa.
36. Nthawi zambiri sindingadzikakamize kuti ndipitirize ntchito iliyonse pambuyo polephera.
37. Zoletsedwa zambiri m'munda wa kugonana ndi akale ndipo zingathe kutayidwa.
38. Zimapezeka kuti nthawi zina ndimawanama.
39. Kuvutika ndi kupwetekedwa mtima kumakhala kosangalatsa kwa aliyense.
40. Ndibwino kuti ndivomerezane ndi munthu kusiyana ndi kukangana.
41. Ndikabadwira kalelo, ndikanakhala woba wolemekezeka.
42. Muyenera kupambana mkangano pa mtengo uliwonse.
43. Pali milandu pamene makolo anga, achikulire ena anandiuza kuti ndikumwa pang'ono.
44. Zovala zoyenera kuziwona poyamba zimasiyanitsa munthu pakati pa anthu.
45. Ngati filimuyi ilibe nkhondo yabwino, ndi filimu yoipa.
46. Nthawi zina ndimasowa sukulu.
47. Ngati wina wandigwira mwachangu m'khamulo, ndiye kuti ndikufunseni kupepesa kwa iye.
48. Ngati munthu andikwiyitsa, ndiye kuti ndine wokonzeka kumuuza zonse zomwe ndikuganiza za iye.
49. Pamene ndikuyenda komanso ndikuyenda, ndimakonda kusiya njira zowonongeka.
50. Ndikanakonda ntchito ya wophunzitsa nyama zinyama.
51. Ndimakonda kumva mofulumira pamene ndikuyendetsa galimoto pamtunda komanso njinga yamoto.
52. Nditawerenga woipayo, nthawi zambiri ndimafuna kuti wolakwayo achoke.
53. Zimapezeka kuti ndimamvetsera mwachidwi kwa munthu wosayenera, koma ndizoseketsa.
54. Ndimakonda kunyalanyaza ena nthawi zina.
55. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhumudwa chifukwa cha zinthu zina.
56. Akanditsutsa, ndimakonda kuphulika ndikuyankha mozama.
57. Ndimakonda kuwerenga zambiri zokhudza zolakwa zamagazi kapena za masoka.
58. Kuti musangalale, ndi bwino kupasula malamulo ena ndi zoletsedwa.
59. Ndimakonda kukachezera makampani komwe amamwa ndi kusangalala.
60. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi zachilendo ngati mtsikana amasuta.
61. Ndimakonda boma limene limabwera pamene mumamwa moyenera komanso mumagulu abwino.
62. Nthawi zina, ndinali ndi chikhumbo chomwa, ngakhale ndinazindikira kuti ino si nthawi kapena malo.
63. Suta mumdima wovuta imandiletsa.
64. Anthu ena amandiopa ..
65. Ndikufuna kuti ndikhalepo pakuphedwa kwa chigawenga mwachilungamo.
66. Chisangalalo ndicho chinthu chachikulu chimene munthu ayenera kuyesetsa pamoyo wake.
67. Ngati ndingathe, ndingakhale wokondwa kuchita nawo galimoto.
68. Ndikakhumudwa, ndibwino kuti ndisayandikire.
69. Nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi maganizo akuti ndine wokonzeka kuyamba nkhondoyo poyamba.
70. Ndikhoza kukumbukira milandu yomwe ndinakwiya kwambiri moti ndinagwira chinthu choyamba chomwe chinabwera pansi pa mkono ndikuchiphwanya.
71. Nthawi zonse ndimafuna kuti ena azilemekeza ufulu wanga.
72. Ndikufuna kudumpha ndi chidwi ndi parachute.
73. Zoopsa za mowa ndi fodya kwa munthu zimakhala zowonjezereka.
74. Odala ndi iwo omwe amafa ali aang'ono.
75. Ndimasangalala ndikakhala pangozi.
76. Munthu akamangokhalira kutemberera pamtendere, amavomerezedwa.
77. Nthawi zambiri sindingathe kuletsa maganizo anga.
78. Nthawi zina ndimachedwa chifukwa cha maphunziro anga.
79. Ndimakonda makampani omwe aliyense amasokonezana.
80. Kugonana kuyenera kukhala malo amodzi m'moyo waunyamata.
81. Kawirikawiri sindingathe kukangana ngati wina sagwirizana nane.
82. Nthawi zina zinkachitika kuti sindinapite kusukulu.
83. Nthaŵi zambiri ndimachita zinthu ndikudandaula ndi kamphindi.
84. Pali nthawi yomwe ndimatha kugunda munthu.
85. Anthu amakwiya kwambiri akamaphunzira kuti wolakwayo sanamulange.
86. Izi zimachitika kuti ndikuyenera kubisala zina mwazochita kwa akuluakulu.
87. Odzichepetsa okha amayenera kunyengedwa.
88. Nthawi zina ndimakwiya kwambiri moti ndimakuwa mokweza.
89. Zinthu zosayembekezereka komanso zowopsa zimandilola kudziwonetsa ndekha.
90. Ndikhoza kuyesa zowononga ngati ndikudziŵa kuti sizidzawononge thanzi langa ndipo sikudzatengera chilango.
91. Ndikaima pa mlatho, nthawi zina ndimakopeka kuti ndidumphire pansi.
92. Dothi lirilonse limandiwopsya kapena limandipangitsa kunyansidwa kwambiri.
93. Ndikakwiya, ndimafuna kudandaula kwambiri chifukwa cha mavuto anga.
94. Ndikuganiza kuti anthu ayenera kusiya zonse zakumwa.
95. Ndimakonda kukwera kutsika kuchokera kumtunda wotsetsereka.
96. Nthawi zina, ngati wina wandivulaza, zingakhale zabwino.
97. Ndikanakonda kuchita padziwe ndikudumpha kuchokera ku nsanja.
98. Nthawi zina sindikufuna kukhala ndi moyo.

Miyeso imagawidwa mu utumiki ndi zokhutira. Wopemphedwayo akuyenera kutsimikizira kapena kukana zomwe akunenazo. Mayesowa amakafufuzidwa pogwiritsa ntchito mndandanda wachinsinsi pansipa:

1. Zowonjezera mayankho abwino a anthu: 2 (palibe), 4 (ayi), 8 (ayi), 13 (inde), 21 (ayi), 30 (inde), 32 (inde), 33 (no), 38 ayi), 54 (ayi), 79 (ayi), 83 (ayi), 87 (palibe).
2. (Yes), 10 (ayi), 11 (inde), 22 (inde), 34 (inde), 41 (inde), 44 (inde), 50 (inde), 53 Inde, 55 (inde), 59 (inde), 61 (inde), 80 (inde), 86 (ayi), 91 (inde), 93 (ayi).
3. (Yes), 22 (inde), 26 (inde), 27 (inde), 31 (inde), 34 (inde), 35 (inde), 43 (inde) 60 (inde), 60 (inde), 62 (inde), 63 (inde), 64 (inde), 67 (inde), 74 (inde), 81 (inde), 91 (inde), 95 (ayi) .
4. 6 (inde), 6 (inde), 9 (inde), 12 (inde), 24 (ayi), 27 (inde), 28 (inde), 39 (inde), 51 (inde), 51 (inde), 51 inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde, inde), 98 (inde), 99 (inde).
5. (Yes), 15 (ayi), 16 (inde), 17 (inde), 25 (inde), 40 (ayi), 42 (inde), 45 (inde (Yes), 49 (inde), 51 (inde), 65 (inde), 66 (inde), 71 (inde), 77 (inde), 82 (inde), 85 (inde), 89 ), 94 (inde), 101 (inde), 102 (inde), 103 (inde), 104 (inde).
6. 20 (inde), 19 (inde), 20 (inde), 29 (ayi), 36 (inde), 49 (inde), 56 (inde), 57 (inde), 69 (inde) , 70 (inde), 71 (inde), 78 (inde), 84 (inde), 89 (inde), 94 (inde).
7. (Yes), 7 (inde), 11 (inde), 25 (inde), 28 (inde), 31 (inde), 35 (inde), 43 (inde) , 48 (inde), 53 (inde), 58 (inde), 61 (inde), 63 (inde), 64 (inde), 66 (inde), 79 (inde), 93 (no), 98 (inde), 99 (inde), 102 (inde).
8. 5 (ayi), 5 (ayi), 9 (no), 16 (no), 18 (no), 25 (no), 41 (no), 45 (no), 51 (ayi) (No), 68 (no), 73 (no), 85 (no), 93 (inde), 95 (inde), 96 (no), 105 (inde), 106 (ayi) , 107 (inde).

Pafunso lirilonse likufanana, mfundo imodzi ikupatsidwa. Zangowonjezereka mwachisawawa chilichonse, kukhalapo kwa chilakolako chokha.

Choncho, khalidwe losayera siloopsya kwa anthu nthawi zonse, ngati siloipa. Koma mawonetseredwe amtundu wa khalidwe la munthuyo akhoza kulamuliridwa mwa kuchita nawo kulera kwake, ndi zina zotero.