Pakali pano anthu ambiri akudziŵa maloto awo, kulandira zambiri zosangalatsa zokhudzana ndi zamakono komanso zam'tsogolo. Maloto ndi kutenga nawo mbali kwa anthu omwe anamwalira nthawi zonse akhala ndi malo apadera, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti izi ndi kugwirizanitsa ndi dziko lina, ndipo ziri ndi udindo wathunthu zomwe zimawoneka ndi kumva.
Kodi bambo wotsiriza amalota chiyani?
Bambo akulira m'maloto akuwonetsa kuphulika kwa mikangano ndi mikangano. Ngati kholo likusonyeza kusakhutira ndi inu, onetsetsani kukumbukira zomwe zinayambitsa izi, chifukwa ichi chidzakhala chitsimikizo cha zomwe ziyenera kukonzedwa mwa inu nokha. M'kutanthauzira, ndiyeneranso kulingalira pamene mwaona ndendende maloto omwe atate wawo adafa. Ngati izi zisanachitike chochitika chofunika, samalirani khalidwe ndi mawu ake, chifukwa mwa njira iyi mungapeze zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera m'tsogolomu.
Imfa ya atate wake imabweretsa mavuto, mwachitsanzo, zingakhale ngozi kapena imfa yaikulu. Ngakhale malotowo akhoza kuwonetsa kuti muli muvuto loopsya ndipo ndi chisangalalo chachikulu chikanalandira uphungu wabwino kuchokera kwa kholo. Ngati mtsikana wamng'ono akuwona maloto ndi kutenga bambo yemwe anamwalira, zikutanthauza kuti ayenera kusamala, popeza zingathetsedwe. Ngati kholo limamuitana kuti akhale naye patebulo - chizindikiro cha kupambana kwake ndi chimwemwe.
Bwanji akulota manda a abambo ake?
Potanthauzira malotowo, ndi bwino kuganizira za manda. Mwachitsanzo, ngati anali woyera, akukonzekera bwino, ndiye kuti mungakhale otsimikiza kuti abambo anu amanyadira ndipo amalimbikitsa zochita zanu ndi zosankha zanu. Ngati manda awonongedwa kapena pali namsongole wambiri, ndi chizindikiro chokayikira kuti mukukhala molakwika ndipo makolo sakanavomereza.
Ndichifukwa ninji ndikulota kuti ndiyankhule ndi bambo wakufayo?
Ngati mukulankhulana ndi kholo lofera m'chipinda chapansi kapena chipinda chamdima, ichi ndi chizindikiro chakuti mavuto omwe alipo m'moyo weniweni adachokera m'zaka zaposachedwa. Kutanthauzira kwa maloto kumalimbikitsa kuti muyang'anenso maganizo omwe ali nawo ndikumakhululukira anthu omwe ali ndi vuto m'mavuto ovuta.
Bwanji ngati bambo atamwalira akulota kuti ali moyo?
Kuwona momwe abambo anga akumenyera pamutu ndi chizindikiro chakuti mavuto aakulu ali patsogolo panu ndipo motero akuwathandiza. Ngati abambo abambo akulota moyo ndi wokondwa, tiyenera kuyembekezera nthawi yosangalatsa m'moyo. Pamene wachibale wakufa amakuitanani, ndi bwino kumvetsera mwatcheru, chifukwa ichi ndi chizindikiro choipa, kusonyeza ngozi.