Mkazi wokongola nthawi zonse amakopa maso a ena, ndipo chidwi chake chimatha kunena za kudzidalira kwake ndi khalidwe lake kwa ena. Kawirikawiri ndi njira ya moyo yomwe imakhudza kuti sikuti msungwana wokongola nthawi zonse amakhala ndi ubwino wabwino. Ndiye kodi munthu angaphunzire bwanji kuyenda bwino, kotero kuti chiwongolero ndi kusinthasintha kwa mkazi pakuyenda sizowonekera ndipo sikumamuyimira iye pang'onopang'ono pamaso pa ena?
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wokongola?
- Chinthu choyambirira chimene muyenera kumvetsera ndizolondola - maziko a malo okongola. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kugawa msana wanu. Akhwangwa akuleredwa mochuluka, atengeni ndi kuwatsitsa. Chotsatiracho chiyenera kukhala choyenera komanso chokoma.
- Muyeneranso kuonetsetsa kuti chiwongolerochi chikuleredwa pang'ono, chifuwa chawongoledwa, ndipo mimba imachotsedwa.
- Poyenda ndikufunika kuphunzira kuika phazi molondola. Nthawi zonse amasunthira patsogolo, amagwera chidendene ndipo amanyamuka mwachidwi mpaka chala chake. Ngati izi zikuchitika kumbali ina, kuyenda sikungakhale kosavuta komanso kosavuta.
- Palibe chifukwa choti mutenge gawo lalikulu kwambiri. Kuyambira pano, thupi ndi mutu zidzasambira kwambiri. Gawoli liyenera kukhala laling'ono, masentimita angapo kuposa phazi lanu.
- Kuchita sikunali koletsedwa, kayendetsedwe ka manja ayenera kukhala muyeso wa kuyenda, osati kungotayika kapena kukhala mthumba.
- Musagwedezeke m'chiuno mwamphamvu, ingogwedezani mopepuka.
Mwinamwake, ena angafunse funso, koma momwe angakhalire malo abwino ndi zidendene? Choyamba, tumizani ku nsonga zonsezi. Komabe, tiyenera kuwonjezera zina mwa izi:
- Yambani mwa kuwongolera malo anu pogwiritsa ntchito zosavuta. Kawirikawiri akuyenda ndi buku pamutu pake.
- Choyamba, phunzirani kuyenda mu nsapato zapansi kapena nsanja. Ayenera kukhala omasuka osati kupondereza phazi lanu.
- Choyamba muyenera kuphunzira kuyenda pang'onopang'ono, kenako pang'onopang'ono msanga.
- Miyendo iyenera kuikidwa mofanana komanso yosayimilira pamadzulo, mwinamwake izo zimawoneka zopusa komanso zovuta.
- Chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu bizinesi ili ndikulitsa chipiriro ndi kulekanitsa, nthawi zonse kusuntha kwa chidendene mpaka chala. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuyenda mosavuta.
Kumbukirani kuti kuchita nthawi zonse kudzakuthandizani kuti mukwanitse kuchita izi.
Kwa mkazi, phokoso lokongola ndi lofunika kwambiri, chifukwa limatsindika ubwino wake wonse. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kukhalabe wodzidalira kwina kulikonse, kukhala wamba kumalo apakhomo kapena anthu omwe mumakhala nawo.