Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji munthu chosangalatsa chosakumbukika?

Pali nkhani zambiri zokhudzana ndi momwe mungasangalatse munthu wokondedwa, choncho nkhaniyi si yokhudza izo.

Pano inu mudzafotokozedwa ndi njira zingapo zomwe mungafotokozere momwe mungaperekere zosangalatsa zambiri kwa munthu osati m'chipinda chogona, koma muzinthu zina za moyo wanu pamodzi.

Amayi ambiri, kulowa mu ubale ndi mwamuna, kusamukira kumakhala naye, kumbukirani zokhazo komanso momwe mungachitire mu ubale wapamtima kuti musunge wokonda "nawo". Pankhani ya moyo, mavuto ang'onoang'ono ogwirizanitsa anthu, amayi nthawi zambiri amatha kumwalira koma pokhapokha ngati zowopsya ndi zofuula sizilephera kutuluka.

Kodi mungamusangalatse bwanji munthuyo?

Mawu okondeka ndi katemera ndi abwino, tinganene chiyani za oimira dziko lamphamvu. Ku Egypt wakale ankakhulupilira kuti ngati mtsikana amakonda amphaka, mwamuna wake adzakondanso. Kufanana kwa chikhalidwe cha amuna ndi chikhalidwe ndi chowonekera. Amuna, monga amphaka, ndizosatheka kuti azitha kusamvetsetseka komanso kuti mkaziyo amangoganizira zokondedwa zawo. Mayi ayenera kumvetsetsa chikhalidwe choterechi ndikuchimvetsetsa. Chitsanzo cha khalidwe lolondola pa nkhaniyi sichimuvutitsa munthuyo kwa nthawi zana chifukwa chakuti tapampiti ikuyenda mukhitchini, ndikumuyamikira chifukwa cha zabwino zomwe wachita kale.

Malangizo otsatirawa onena za momwe mungaperekere chisangalalo chosamveka kwa mwamuna amatha kudziwika bwino kwambiri kuti njira ya pamtima ya munthu imakhala m'mimba. Yesetsani ku khitchini popanda mantha, chifukwa simukukonda wina aliyense amadziwa zokoma zokondweretsa getter yake. Panthawi yomweyi, ndibwino kuti kuphika chinachake malinga ndi chophimba chovomerezeka. Ndipotu, kukhitchini, monga mu "masewera ena owonetsera," fiasco ikhoza kuchitika, ndipo munthu, mosasamala za izi, adzabwera ndi njala kuchokera kuntchito ndipo akuyenera kudyetsedwa. Kumbukiraninso kuti zakudya zopsereza zakuthambo ndi Saladi sizingatheke kuyamikiridwa ndi okondedwa anu, chifukwa kugonana kolimba kumatchuka chifukwa cha chizoloŵezi cha zakudya, zakudya zakutali ndi zowonjezera.

Monga momwe taonera kale mutu wakuti "Mmene mungabweretsere malingaliro abwino a munthu" si zophweka, monga pakuwoneka koyamba. Kuchokera kwa mtsikanayo kuti mumvetse luso lovuta limeneli pamafunika khama ndi chipiriro. Zochitika pa bedi ndi zabwino ndithu, koma osakhoza kugwirizana limodzi mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ubale wanu sukhalitsa, choncho muyenera kumvera malangizo a akatswiri.