Pali mtundu wa akazi, kuyang'ana pa, zikuwoneka kuti ndizokhudza. Chifukwa chake, amuna ambiri amaona kuti ndibwino kuti asachite ngozi ndipo musafune kudziŵa zimenezi. Ndipotu, pachibwenzi ndi anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, sali ndi chiyembekezo chilichonse cholimbikitsa. Inde, ndipo amalingalira umunthu, mofanana ndi kusungira buluu, koma osati ngati chinthu chachikazi.
Tiyeni tiyese kupeza zomwe amayi amatchedwa kuti khola lokhazikika, ndi mbiri yanji ya magwero a mawu akuti "buluu" komanso zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa kuti asapatsidwe udindo wotere.
Mawuwa ndi "buluu". Mbiri ya zochitika
Kawirikawiri amakhulupirira kuti mawu akuti "buluu" amatuluka mu 1760 ku UK mu salon ya wolemba Montague. Buku lina limanena kuti munthu wogwira ntchito kwambiri m'dera lino anali womasulira mmodzi, katswiri wamasayansi, wolemba sayansi, Stillingfleet. Mmalo mwa nsalu zakuda za silika, kuvala kwake komwe kunkatanthauzidwa ndi ulemu, iye ankavala masokosi a ubweya waubuluu. Ngati atasowa gawo la salon, mpingo udati sangathe kuyamba popanda "kusungira buluu". Ndiko kuti, "munthu" woyamba adalandiridwa ndi mutuwu. Pambuyo pake anayamba kutchedwa oimira anthu ogonana omwe anali ofooka, omwe anali ndi chidwi ndi sayansi ndi mabuku, omwe sankaona kuti ndi koyenera kusamalira kapena kukhazikitsa banja, ndi zina zotero Posachedwa, anthu anayamba ndi chisokonezo monga "Blue Stocking Society."
Ku Russia mawu awa anachokera ku France.
Kotero, ku Paris, m'zaka za zana lachisanu ndi chiwiri panali ma salons, udindo wawukulu womwe amayi adagwira nawo. Anapanga mawu akuti "ophunzira ophunzirira". Anna Moore, yemwe anali mu British Bungwe la Blue Stockings Society mu imodzi mwa ndakatulo zake zachilendo, adanena kuti dzina lachifalansa linachokera ku kumasulira kolakwika ndi kwenikweni kuchokera ku Chingerezi "bluestocking".
Mu imodzi mwa ntchito za Chekhov mungathe kukumana ndi khalidwe la anthu omwe amatchedwa "buluu": "
"Ndi ubwino wanji kukhala buluu." Kupaka nsalu yabuluu ... Pewani! Osati mkazi ndipo osati mwamuna, ndipo kotero pakati, palibe kapena ichi. "
Mkazi - "choikapo buluu"
Sizingakhale zopanda nzeru kuti adziwe mtundu wa akazi omwe amachitcha.
Kotero, anthu akunja amadziwonetsera okha mwachisokonezo ndi kudzichepetsa kwa maonekedwe: kusowa kwa zibangili, zodzoladzola, zojambulajambula zokongola, kavalidwe kavalidwe ka zovala, zomwe sizomwe zimakhala zosaoneka bwino. Mwa chikhalidwe chawo, akazi oterewa amakhumudwa kwambiri, nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi chisoni, chisoni, kusakwiya. Ngati "nsalu ya buluu" ndikumva chinachake ponena za kugonana, zizoloŵezi zazimayi, zokopa, ndiye m'moyo wanga wakana kugwiritsa ntchito izi pa chifukwa chilichonse.
Akazi oterewa ali okonzeka kudzipatsa okha zinthu zomwe amakonda, ntchito molimbika, zomwe "kusungira buluu" zikutanthauza, ali ndi makhalidwe abwino omwe angayamikiridwe.
Chodabwitsa kwambiri, koma mkazi wachilendo, wachilendo amatha kukonda mwamuna. Kawirikawiri "kuika buluu" kumakondweretsa munthu wokhala chete, wokhwima, wokhala ndi chigawo cholimba cha anthu. Iye, choyamba, akuyamikira kukula kwa dziko lamkati, luso la aluntha la amayi oterewa ndipo amapeza zofunikira kwa mtima wa mkazi ali ndi khalidwe lovuta.
Akazi - "kusungira buluu" amakonda kusankha zambiri
Bwanji kuti musakhale obiriwira buluu?
Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti mulibe chikazi, kudzidalira nokha, ndiye njira imodzi yosakhala "buluu" ikubwerezabwereza, zitsimikizo za kudzidalira. Kapena mukufuna kukhala ndi luso loyankhulana ndi anyamata, komanso ndi anthu onse. Yesani kuyang'ana akazi, penyani manja anu, khalidwe, gait.
Choncho, mkazi aliyense, mosasamala kanthu kuti akufunitsitsa kudziwa za sayansi kapena amakonda kupatula nthawi yodzigulira zovala, ayenera kuzindikira kuti ayenera kukhala ndi uzimayi nthawi zonse. Pambuyo pake, izi ndi maziko enieni a mkazi aliyense.