Amayi ambiri amakumana ndi zochitika pamoyo wawo pamene wokondedwa amakhala ndi chilakolako china. Pankhaniyi, pali zinthu ziwiri zomwe mungachite: kuchoka kapena kubwezeretsa mnzanuyo. Pali njira zingapo zomwe mungayendetsere mwamuna kuchokera kwa amayi awo omwe atsimikiza kuti akuchitapo kangapo. Choyamba, ndibwino kuganizira mosamala ngati mukufunadi izi, komanso ngati mungathe kukhululukira chiwembu.
Mmene mungatsutsane ndi wotsutsana ndi mwamuna wake mothandizidwa ndi matsenga?
Pali miyambo yambiri yomwe ingasokoneze ubwenzi pakati pa wokondedwa ndi mkazi wina, ndipo mubwere naye kunyumba. Mmodzi wa iwo ndi mwambo wogwira ntchito, umene muyenera kuugwiritsa ntchito pakutha mwezi. Kwa iye mudzafunikira: pepala, pensulo ndi zipatso za hawthorn. Pa pepala lembani dzina la wotsutsa, likhalitseni mu zidutswa zing'onozing'ono ndikuwazaza pansi. Ndiye kuwaza hawthorn, chisanadze ufa. Yendani pa pepala ndi mapazi anu ndikuganiza kuti mukukakamiza mbuye wanu. Pambuyo pake, yesani zonse ndikuponyera m'nyumbamo.
Mungathe kutenga chiwembu chodziwombera ambuye kwa mwamuna wake, popeza mawuwa ali ndi mphamvu zambiri. Nthawi yabwino ya mwambowu ndi Lachiwiri pa mwezi wotsalira. Tsekani makatani mu chipinda ndikutsegula zenera. Ikani tebulo ndi nsalu yoyera ndikuyika mtengowo. M'menemo, ikani magalasi, chidutswa cha ubweya, dziko lapansi, mchere ndi viniga. Papepala, lembani chiwembu cholimba, momwe mungasinthire mwamuna kwa mbuye wake:
"Monga khate ndi galu akulimbana, Ndili (dzina la mkazi) ndi (dzina la ambuye) Kulimbana, kumenyana ndiyeno nkugawana! Kwa wina ndi mnzake iwo anali okwiya, Ndipo malingaliro awo mu shards anatembenuka! "
Werengani ndondomekoyi katatu, ndiyeno, tentha pepala pamtengo. Tumizani mapulusa ku matope. Zosakanikirana bwino, zindikirani ndi nsalu yandiweyani ndikuyika pazenera sill. Kenaka, ikani makandulo atatu ndi kuwasiya iwo athere. M'mawa, ikani zinthu zonse m'thumba ndikuzitengera kunyumba ya mnzanuyo. Ngati simukudziwa aderesi yake, ndiye kuti gawo lina lakusakaniza likusungidwa mu zovala za mwamuna wake. Pamene vuto ili silingakwaniritsidwe, liponyere zonse pamsewu.
Momwe mungapulumutsire mwamuna kuchokera kwa amai-akazi a maganizo
Monga momwe mungathetsere vuto lililonse, muyenera kuyamba nokha. Sinthani tsitsi lanu, chovala, cholembera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi , mwachisawawa, khalani wotsutsa bwino. Tifunika kugwira ntchito pa chikhalidwe komanso momwe timadziwira kuchokera kwa akazi abwino omwe amuna samachoka. Yesetsani kupeĊµa kukhumudwa, khalani omasuka. Ndikofunika kuthandizira njira zonse zowonetsetsa kuti mlengalenga mumakhala bwino, ndipo mkaziyo sakufuna kuchoka. Pangani mwamuna nsanje, chirichonse chimene munganene, ndi abambo onse ndikugawana zawo, sangakhale ndi wina aliyense. Ngati zinasankhidwa kukhululukira wokondedwa, ndiye kuti mukhoza kulankhula momveka bwino za zomwe zinachitika. Aloleni afotokoze zomwe zimayambitsa chiwembu, kuti muthe kusintha. Onetsetsani kufotokoza maganizo anu pa nkhaniyi, koma muyenera kuchita mofatsa ndi molimba mtima, popanda osokoneza.