Ukwati, womwe umayesedwa kwa zaka zambiri, ungatchedwe wamphamvu ndi odalirika. Pakutha zaka zambiri ndikukhala pamodzi, mgwirizano pakati pa okwatirana umakhala wolimba komanso wosasinthika, kotero iwo amafanizidwa ndi chitsulo chotentha, ndipo ukwatiwo umatchedwa chitsulo.
Kuganizira za funsoli - ndi zaka zingati zomwe zikufunikira kuti mukhale ndi dzanja limodzi kuti mukondweretse ukwati wachitsulo, yankho liri limodzi ndi zaka 65. Ndi nthawi yomwe ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi sukhalanso wosweka, mitima yachikondi "yakula" kwa wina ndi mnzake. Kwa zaka zotere, okwatirana adakumana ndi mavuto ambiri komanso mavuto, komabe ubale wawo unalimbikitsidwa, adaphunzira kuthandizana ndi kusamalirana wina ndi mzake, choncho chikhalidwe cha banja lawo chili ndi chipiriro chachitsulo.
Chifukwa cha nthawi yayitali, mabanja angapo amakondwerera tsiku losaiwalika. Choncho, ngati chimwemwe choterocho chikagwera banja lanu, ndiye pangani chikondwerero chosaiŵalika, chopatulira ku chikondwerero cha ukwati wa agogo anu.
Talingalirani kuti ukalamba wa chisangalalo sungatilole kuti tikonze phwando lachisangalalo, koma phwando lokondwerera lidzakhala lolandiridwa bwino. Onetsetsani kuitana ana onse, adzukulu, zidzukulu, komanso ngati ali ndi zidzukulu zazikulu. Zoonadi, padzakhala mabanja ochokera m'badwo wotsiriza omwe adzakumane koyamba. Misonkhano yachikondi yotereyi ndi yofunika kwa anthu achikulire ndi achinyamata, chifukwa uwu ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwa anyamata ndi abambo a banja labwino. Poyang'ana okalamba, koma okondwa kwambiri ndi makolo awo, mnyamatayo adzaphunzira kuyamikira chikondi ndi ulemu, kumvetsetsa kuti moyo sayenera kuwonongedwa pa nthawi yodzidzimutsa, koma ndi bwino kulenga ndi kusunga mgwirizano umodzi.
Poganizira zaka zingati omwe "okwatirana" akukondwerera ukwati wachitsulo, ndipo zaka izi ziri pafupi zaka 85 mpaka 90, zochitika zodziwika bwino zimakhala bwino kunyumba kapena m'munda. Chinthu chachikulu pa chikondwererochi ndi kulemekeza ndi kupereka ulemu kwa makolo athu - ndikofunikira kupanga chikhalidwe chakutentha ndi chitonthozo kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi wolemekezeka.
Fufuzani pasadakhale zokhumba za jubile, funsani - mwina agogo aakazi angafune kuvala chophimba chake chachikwati , nthawi zambiri sichivuta kupeza m'chipinda chapamwamba, chifukwa anthu a m'badwo umenewo amadziwika ndi frugality, ndipo agogo awo, mwinamwake, maloto a kusuta ndudu kapena kuyesa mulu wa ramu kunja. Zokambirana izi za "okwatirana kumene" ziyenera kukwaniritsidwa poyamba.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani kuti mukhale ndi phwando lachitsulo?
Inde, mphatso yaikulu ya chisangalalo idzakhala yosamalidwa kuchokera ku mibadwo yonse. Nthawi zambiri anthu okalamba alibe chisamaliro chokwanira kuchokera kwa anthu oyandikana nawo, ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kuona otsatira ochepa kwambiri a m'banja. Ndi anthu ochepa omwe ali ndi mwayi wosavuta kumvetsetsa zidzukulu zazikulu, kuti azikhala nawo pa chithunzicho.
Monga mphatso ya chikumbutso cha ukwati wachitsulo, mankhwala aliwonse okhala ndi chitsulo adzachita. Chikumbukiro chosaiŵalika chidzakhala chikhoma chojambula kapena chitsulo chojambula chithunzi chosonyeza anthu okwatirana.
Ambiri amapereka mafelemu a chitsulo, mwaluso anajambula wizara. Mu chithunzi chomwecho ndizoyenera kuyika chithunzi chosavuta cha chisangalalo, mwachitsanzo, collage yomwe idapangidwa kuchokera ku zithunzi za nthawi zosiyanasiyana za moyo ndi zigawo
Odala achikulire ndi banja lopangidwa. Mphatso yotereyo iyenera kukonzedwa osati tsiku limodzi, zidzatenga nthawi yambiri ndikugwira ntchito mwakhama, koma zotsatira zidzasangalatsa achibale onse.
Mphatso yabwino kwambiri kwa okalamba pa tsiku lawo loyenerera lidzakhala chithunzi chomwe wojambula amatha kulemba ndi chithunzi kuti asatenge nthawi yaitali. Chithunzichi chikhoza kupangidwa ndi chimango chachitsulo chojambulidwa.