Makhalidwe abwino kwa atsikana

Kupanga, fano lake lapadera ndi kalembedwe, msungwana aliyense amayesera kuganizira zonse zomwe zimapanga. Kotero tikhoza kukhala maola ambiri kumayeso ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti tiwone bwino, kutsatira zatsopano za mafashoni, kuti tizikhala ndi nthawi, nthawi zambiri timapita kukavala tsitsi ndi zokongoletsera, kuti khungu lathu ndi tsitsi likhale labwino ndi lokonzeka bwino. Zonsezi zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi kugonana kwabwino, ndipo zimaphatikizidwa mu chidziwitso chazimayi mwachilengedwe. Komabe, musaiwale kuti maonekedwe sakhala nawo nthawi zonse. Ngakhale mtsikana wokongola kwambiri komanso wokongola kwambiri sangathe kupanga khalidwe loipa kwambiri. Tiyeni tiyankhule za malamulo omwe amavomereza komanso osadziwika a makhalidwe abwino.

Chifukwa chikhalidwe chabwino?

Sizingatheke kuti tisanyalanyaze kuti tikukhala mdziko, ndipo zilizonse zomwe amanena ponena za ufulu wa kulankhula, malamulo ndi zoletsedwa zilipo, ndipo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa aliyense popanda. Zili choncho, kusunga miyambo ndi makhalidwe abwino omwe amavomereza kumakhala chikhalidwe cha munthu. Nazi zitsanzo zabwino za amayi tsiku lililonse:

1. Lamulo lalikulu kwa msungwana wabwino ndikutenga zokoma. Mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta pamene kulingalira kwako kudzaweruzidwa payeso. Mwachitsanzo, padzakhala malingaliro osaganizira monga msungwana wa chikhalidwe, ngati simulankhula mokweza komanso osalankhulana nthawi yayitali pa foni m'malo ammudzi, kuphatikizapo kayendedwe; Osasokoneza interlocutor, musadziyerekezere kukhala mtsogoleri pa ulendo, akuchenjezeni za kuchedwa.
2. Kuyerekeza kapena ulamuliro wa "golide" amatanthauza kuyankhulana, chakudya, mowa, umatengedwa kuti ndi chinthu chosiyana ndi munthu wophunzira.
3. Kulondola, osati maonekedwe okha, kumasonyeza makhalidwe abwino.
4. Kuperewera kwa miseche, nthawi zina kuli kovuta kwa akazi, koma kumayamikiridwa kwambiri ndi ulemu.
5. Ndipo n'zoonekeratu kuti ndi kofunika kwambiri kuti mtsikanayo azichita zinthu mwanzeru ndi mnzake.

Ndipo iyi si mndandanda wathunthu wa mau abwino. Msungwana yemwe amadziwa bwino mndandanda wonse wa machitidwe abwino ndi kuwagwiritsa ntchito poyankhulana sangafunsidwe chifukwa chake akufunikira.