Mwinamwake izo zidzamveka zachilendo mokwanira, koma chiyanjano chirichonse chikukula molingana ndi zochitika zina. Mwachibadwa, anthu amasiyana ndipo amakhala ndi maganizo osiyana, koma ngati mumvetsetsa, ndiye kuti zizindikiro zina zimadziwika. Kawirikawiri, pali mitundu 5 yofunikira ya maubwenzi.
Bwana wa bamboyo
Mu mgwirizano woteroyo mzake amalandira ndalama, ndipo mkaziyo amapereka chodalirika kumbuyo kwa "msilikali" wake. Ngati aliyense ali wokhutira ndi ntchito yotere, ndiye kuti ubalewu udzakhala wautali komanso wolimba.
Zochitika pa nkhani iyi:
- mwamuna ali pamutu pake;
- Zosankha zonse zimapangidwa ndi wokondedwa, mkaziyo amamvera;
- Cholinga chachikulu cha wokwatirana ndi kukonza moyo ndi kulera ana;
- Mkazi akhoza kugwira ntchito, koma uwu si ntchito yake yaikulu;
- mwamuna amayamikira zonse zomwe mwamuna amamuchitira;
- muzochitika zotere, kusankha pakati pa ntchito ndi banja sikofunikira ngakhale mkazi.
Mgwirizano woterewu ndi woyenera kwa amayi omwe amakonda kukhala mayi wamkazi. Pachifukwa china, zimakhala zovuta ndi mikangano yaikulu, zomwe zingayambitse kusokoneza maubwenzi.
Kunyumba kwa mayiyo
Mu mgwirizano woterowo, zosankha zonse zimapangidwira mkazi, ndipo mwamuna amalola kuti adziwe. Nthawi zambiri zochitika m'masiku ano: pamene mkazi amapeza ndalama, ndipo mwamuna akugwira ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku, zonsezi ndizovomerezeka.
Zochitika pa nkhani iyi:
- mkazi wa ntchito yemwe amatsogoleredwa ndi moyo;
- mwamunayo ali wodekha ndi wofatsa;
- Wokondedwa akhoza kugwira ntchito, koma malipiro ake sali ofunika;
- mwamuna amabweretsa ana ambiri;
- Mafunso onse osiyana amapezeka pamapewa a mkazi.
Ngati okondedwa monga momwe zinthu zilili, ndiye mgwirizano uli wamphamvu kwambiri. Mkazi ayenera kukhala wanzeru osati kumunyoza mwamuna wake chifukwa cha kufatsa kwake.
Kulingana
Muzochitika zotero, mwamuna ndi mkazi ali ndi ufulu wofanana, ndiko kuti, chinthu chachikulu mu mgwirizanowu si. Mwa mfundo iyi, mabanja ambiri amakono amakhala.
Zochitika pa nkhani iyi:
- onse awiri akugwira ntchito;
- mwamuna ndi mkazi amayesera kudzizindikiritsa okha mu moyo;
- Nthawi zambiri mabwenzi onse amapita kuntchito kapena akuchita ntchito zapagulu;
- mkazi samasamala za moyo, kawirikawiri amakhala ndi agogo, azimayi kapena a nyumba;
- mu mgwirizano wotero, gawo lofunika kwambiri limasewera ndi luso lokambirana;
- pangakhale padera bajeti.
Nthawi zambiri chikondi ndi chikondi zimatayika mu maubwenzi otero, maanja amakhala ngati abwenzi, omwe akugwirizana ndi ana kapena chifukwa chofala.
Kunyumba
Mu mgwirizano wotere, chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chikondi ndi ubale wina ndi mnzake. Ogwirizana nawo amakondana wina ndi mnzake kuti palibe wina amene amawakonda.
Zochitika pa nkhani iyi:
- ntchito ndi kudzizindikira sizilibe kanthu;
- chikondi chimapatsa iwo mphamvu ndi mphamvu;
- Cholinga chachikulu ndicho kupereka chitonthozo kunyumba ndi chitonthozo;
- Onse awiri ndi amwano komanso achikondi;
- Musayang'ane kuyankhulana kunja kwa awiriwa.
Kawirikawiri, chifukwa chakuti abwenzi alibe chiyanjano ndi dziko lozungulira, okonda mwamsanga amakhala okhutana wina ndi mzake. Ngati simukuchita ndi china chirichonse koma chiyanjano, banjali lingathe kugawanitsa chifukwa iwo amangokhala okhumudwa komanso osakhudzidwa.
Chilengedwe
Mzimayi ndi malo osungirako munthu, amamulimbikitsa kuchita zinthu zosiyanasiyana.
Zochitika pa nkhani iyi:
- Mwamunayo ndi woyamikira wamkulu kwa mkazi wake;
- Wokondedwayo amayesetsa kukondwera ndi wokondedwayo;
- mkazi ali wopanda nzeru kwambiri ndi wovuta;
- banjali limakhala losangalatsa.
Ngati mkazi asiya kulimbikitsa mnzawo, akhoza kupita kukafufuza zinthu zina. Choncho, wokondedwayo ayenera kukhala pamwamba.