Palibe mayi omwe sangayembekezere ndi mtima wozama kuchokera kwa mwana wake, pamene akunena mawu oyambirira. Chilichonse chimene mwanayo anena mawu oyambirira, amakhalabe mu mtima mwa mayi, komanso kumwetulira koyamba, kuseka koyamba, sitepe yoyamba.
Amayi amayamba kulankhulana ndi mwanayo nthawi yomwe anabadwa, pamene sangathe kuwayankha - afotokoze zochita zawo, akambirane za dziko lozungulira, akudzithandizira okha ndi kuthandizira manja. Mwana wakhanda ali ndi zaka zakubadwa amatha kugwiritsa ntchito chinenero chamanja ndikudziŵa kale, akuyang'ana nawo amayi, kuwonetsera pempho la chinachake choti apereke kapena kufotokoza. Poyang'anizana ndi kusamvetsetsana, mwanayo amayamba kuwombera ndi kubwereza manja nthawi ndi nthawi. Mwanayo akamaphunzira chilankhulochi, manja ambiri amakhalapo kale, chifukwa akhoza kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna.
Kodi izi zikuchitika liti?
Nthaŵi imene mwanayo amalankhula mawu oyambirira, amabwera kawirikawiri tsiku loyamba la kubadwa kwa mwanayo. Pazaka izi, mwanayo akuyamba kugwirizanitsa mau omwewo ma-ma, ma-pa, ba-ba, ku-ku) ndi kuwafotokozera zinthu zochititsa chidwi, zinthu, zochitika, anthu. Kaŵirikaŵiri osati, mawu oyambirira a mwanayo ndi amayi, makamaka, ndi amayi ake omwe amamuwona nthawi zambiri, chimwemwe chake ndi mtima wake zimagwirizana naye. Ndiye mukulankhula kwa mwanayo kumawoneka mawu oyambirira omwe amatanthauzira boma ndi maganizo a munthu (oh-oh, bo-bo). Mwana akamanena mawu oyambirira, zimatengera kugonana kwa mwanayo - zimadziwika kuti atsikana ayamba kukambirana pamaso pa anyamata - pa miyezi 9-10 motsutsana ndi 11-12, ndi chilengedwe chozungulira, ndi kuchuluka kwa chidwi cholipiridwa, ndi makhalidwe ake.
Pakatikati pa chaka chachiwiri cha moyo, mwanayo amayesetsa kufalitsa mawu ake. Pakati pa zaka chimodzi ndi theka kufika zaka ziwiri, chiwerengero cha mawu chikuwonjezeka kuchoka pa mawu 25 mpaka 90. Poyambira m'chaka chachitatu cha moyo mwanayo amadziwa kale momwe angamangire chiganizo choyamba cha mawu awiri, pang'onopang'ono akuwamasulira ku mawu asanu.
Kodi mungalankhule bwanji zinyenyeswazi?
Kodi mungamuphunzitse motani mawu oyambirira? Mukusowa nthawi yambiri yolankhulana naye, musakhale aulesi kuti muzitchula zochita zanu zonse, muwerenge nkhani zanu zosavuta kumva ndi zithunzi zowala. Musaiwale za kusangalatsa kwa malo oyankhulira mu ubongo mothandizidwa ndi chitukuko cha motility. Kusewera ndi mwanayo mu masewera azing'ono, kujambula kapena kugwira zinthu zosiyana ndi kukhudza, mumayambitsa chipinda cholankhulira ndikuthandiza mwanayo kulankhula. Kumbukirani kuti ana onse ali payekha, aliyense ali ndi nthawi yake yolankhula mawu oyambirira, ndipo kudzakhala kulakwitsa kwakukulu kuyerekeza mwana wake ndi ena, kuti akhalenso ndi chiyembekezo choposa mwana wa mnzako. Kuleza mtima pang'ono ndi chisamaliro - ndipo mawu oyambirira a mwanayo adzakhala mphoto yanu.