Madalitso amalingaliridwa kuti ndi mbali yofunikira yaukwati. Choncho, makolo amavomereza ukwatiwo ndipo amafuna kuti ana awo akhale osangalala komanso autali limodzi. Kuyambira kale, amakhulupirira kuti ngati mkwati kapena mkwatibwi sadzalandire madalitso kuchokera kwa makolo awo, ndiye kuti banja lidzakhala losasangalala ndipo banja likhoza kusokonezeka.
Mmene mungadalitsire okwatirana kumene ali ndi chizindikiro?
Malingana ndi miyambo yomwe ilipo, makolo amadalitsa mwana wawo wamkazi nthawi ziwiri: pa masewerawa komanso asanatuluke kwa olemba. Makolo a mkwati adalitse anthu okwatirana atakwatira.
Kwa mwambo, ndikofunikira kudziwa zomwe zizindikiro zimadalitsa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, popeza zithunzi za oyera ndizofunika kwambiri, popanda zomwe zimachitika kuti zikhale zokhumba komanso mawu okoma. Kwenikweni, mafano awiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito:
- Chithunzi cha Kazan Mayi wa Mulungu ndi chithunzi cholemekezeka kwambiri cha Namwali. Chizindikiro ichi chimagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri pa mwambo wa madalitso a mwanayo. Iwo amalingalira kuti iye ndi womulankhulana ndi wolemekezeka wa moyo wonse padziko lapansi. Pali umboni wambiri wokhudzana ndi momwe Mayi wa Mulungu wa Kazan adathandizira anthu kuthana ndi mavuto awo. Asanalowe m'banja, zithunzi zimapemphedwa kuteteza banja latsopano ku mavuto osiyanasiyana ndi diso loyipa, komanso kupereka ana abwino.
- Chithunzi cha Mpulumutsi wa Wamphamvuyonse ndi chithunzi chofala kwambiri cha Khristu. Madalitso a makolo a mkwati nthawi zambiri amadutsa ndi chithunzichi. Pa izo, Yesu akuyimiridwa ndi Uthenga mmanja mwake, zomwe zimasonyeza njira yolungama, ndipo ndi dzanja lina amadalitsa anthu omwe adatembenukira kwa iye ndi pemphero . Chithunzicho chisanapemphe banja kuti likhale losangalala ndi kupindula. Ndi chithunzi ichi chomwe chiyenera kuwonetsedwa koyamba kwa nyumba zatsopano.
Mu mwambo, mungagwiritse ntchito zida zonse, ndi chimodzi mwa izo. Monga mwayi, mukhoza kugula banja laukwati kapena khola, kumene zithunzi ziwirizo zimagwirizana.
Ndi chithunzi chotani cha madalitso a achinyamata omwe tsopano akudziwika, chimakhalabe kumvetsetsa momwe mwambo womwewo umadutsa. Pambuyo pake, makolo sayenera kukonzekera kokha chifaniziro cha woyera mtima, komanso thaulo, limene ayenera kulisunga. Mu chipinda chimene dalitso limadutsa, payenera kukhala anthu apafupi okha. Amayi a mkwatibwi amatenga thaulo lamtengo wapatali m'manja mwake, ndipo abambo ake amamupatsa chizindikiro, chomwe amayenera kutenga ndi chopukutira ndipo palibe chilichonse chopanda manja. Kuti adalitse chithunzichi, ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito fano lomwe lili m'nyumba, koma ngati palibe, ndiye kuti muyenera kugula mu ditolo la tchalitchi, kumene zithunzi zonse zimapatulidwa. Mayi ayenera kusunga nkhope yake ndi maso ndi anyamatawo.
Tsopano tikufunikira kuyang'ana mutuwu mwatsatanetsatane, momwe tingadalitsire okwatiranawo ndi chizindikiro ndi zomwe muyenera kunena panthawi yomweyo. Palibe malemba omwe makolo ayenera kuloweza pamtima ngati pemphero, chifukwa malangizo ayenera kuchokera ku mtima woyera. Chonde dziwani kuti kulankhula sikuyenera kukhala motalika kwambiri. Mutuwu ndi mtundu wa malo otsogolera, omwe makolo amawakonda achinyamata kukhala achimwemwe , chitukuko, mtendere, mgwirizano, ndi zina zotero. Mukulankhula, osati zokhumba zokha, komanso malangizo ayenera kumveka. Pa kutchulidwa kwa mawu, mayi ndi abambo ayenera katatu kudutsa chithunzi cha achinyamata, ndiyeno nkuwapsompsona. Pambuyo pa kumaliza msonkhanowo, chizindikiro ndi thaulo zimasamutsidwa kwa achinyamata, omwe ayenera kuziyika ngati chikhomo, ndipo, zomwezo, zidzasintha.