Inde, ichi ndi chiyeso chomwe Penny ndi Sheldon adadutsamo!
Wowerenga kwambiri wolemba mabuku "Time New Yorks", Carrie Bradshaw masiku athu ano - Mandy Len Katron panthawi yolemba nkhani yotsatira chikondi "Kugonana ndi wina, chitani tsopano" anali ndi chidwi ndi kuyesera kwa Dr. Arthur Aron, dokotala wa maganizo, omwe anagwira zaka makumi awiri zapitazo. Ndiye asayansi, yemwe adapereka ntchito yake yophunzira ubwenzi wapamtima pakati pa anthu awiri osadziwika, adatsimikizira kuti kukondana ndi wina (ngakhale panopa osadziwika) kapena kuukitsa maganizo a chilled, mukhoza kuyankha mafunso 36 okha, pambuyo pake muyenera kuyang'ana maso a mnzanuyo kwa mphindi 4!
Zotsatirazo poyamba zoyesera za labotale zinali zopambana kale, ndipo zinapita kwa anthu. Eya, "nkhumba zoyamba" zoyambirira, sizinakumanepo tsiku lomwelo, pambuyo pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi adayitanitsa antchito a laboratori ku phwando laukwati! Ndipo zowonjezera - nkhani zokondweretsa zaukwati zomwe zakhala zikuyesedwa molimba mtima zotchedwa "Chiopsezo choterechi chimayambitsa chiyanjano" chinali chokwanira kulemba buku lonse! Monga mukuganiza, a Miss Katron osati chifukwa cha ntchito zokha anaganiza zobwereranso kuchotsa mafunso awa ofunikira - moyo wake waumwini unakhazikitsanso modabwitsa ...
Chabwino, kodi mwakonzeka kusintha kosangalatsa? Kenaka konzekerani kuyankha magulu atatu a mafunso, pakati pa zomwe mungathe kupuma, ndiyeno -konzani maganizo anu osati pa 3 kapena 5, koma ndendende kwa mphindi 4!
- Mukhoza kuyitana munthu aliyense padziko lapansi kuti adye nanu, kotero ndani amene mungamusankhe?
- Kodi mukufuna kutchuka? Ngati ndi choncho, ndi chiyani?
- Pamene mukufuna kupanga foni, kodi mumapukutura mutu wanu zomwe munganene?
- Kodi tsiku lanu labwino / labwino liyenera bwanji kupita?
- Kumbukirani nthawi yomaliza yomwe munaimba nokha? Ndipo mu kampani?
- Ngati pa tsiku la kubadwa kwa 30 mudaphunzira kuti mudzakhala ndi moyo zaka 90, koma mutha kusunga maganizo kapena thupi kwa zaka 60 zotsatira, ndiye mungasankhe chiyani?
- Ndipo mumtima mwanu, kodi mumaganizira momwe mudzasiyire moyo wanu?
- Ndipo ndi zinthu zitatu kapena zikhalidwe zitatu ziti zomwe zimagwirizanitsa iwe ndi mnzanu? (ngakhale zotheka).
- Kwa izo, nchiani chinachitika mu moyo, kodi inu munganene mawu zana oyamikira?
- Kodi mwasintha zotani kuti mukule bwino?
- Muli ndi masekondi 240 okha, zomwe muyenera kuwuza mnzanuyo za moyo wanu kuzinthu zochepa kwambiri. Nthawi yatha ...
- Nanga bwanji ngati m'mawa a tsiku lotsatira mungathe kuzindikira khalidwe kapena luso latsopano? Mukufuna chiyani?
- Musanayambe khungu la kristalo lodalirika kwambiri, lomwe silikulakwitsa polosera moyo wamtsogolo ndipo lidzanena choonadi chonse. Kodi mwakonzeka kuti mupeze?
- Kodi mwakhala mukulota chiyani kwa nthawi yaitali? Ndi zifukwa ziti zomwe simunakwaniritse maloto anu?
- Ndipo umakhala wotani mudziko lonse lapansi?
- Ndi makhalidwe otani a anzanu omwe ali ofunikira kwambiri kwa inu?
- Tiuzeni za zomwe zimakumbukira kuchokera pansi pamtima?
- Ndipo ndiye chikumbukiro choopsa kwambiri chinali chiyani?
- Nanga bwanji ngati moyo wanu watha chaka chino? Kodi mungasinthe chiyani tsopano ndi chifukwa chiyani?
- Kodi munganene chiyani za ubale?
- Chikondi ndi chikondi - chofunika kwambiri kwa inu ndi chiyani?
- Perekani mzanuyo njira yotsatizana ndipo mndandanda mndandanda wa makhalidwe asanu omwe ali abwino.
- Ndipo ubwana wanu umakuwoneka wosangalala kwambiri kuposa ena?
- Ndipo mungatiuze chiyani za ubale wanu ndi amayi anu?
- Pangani ndemanga zitatu zomwe zimakugwirizanitsani pa nthawi ino, monga "Tsopano tikukumva ..."
- Ndipo mumaphatikiza bwanji mawu akuti - "Ndikulolera kukhala ndi munthu amene ndingamugawire ..."?
- Ngati kugwirizana n'kofunika kwa inu, ndiye kuti mnzanuyo ayenera kudziwa za inu ...?
- Muuzeni mnzanuyo za zomwe mumakonda mwa iye, koma sankhani mawu omwe simunganene kwa mlendo.
- Ndipo ndi nthawi yovuta iti yomwe mungamuuze mnzanuyo?
- Misozi m'maso mwa ena ndi payekha - ndi liti pamene munamva zowawa izi?
- Ndipo mumakonda chiyani za mnzanuyo tsopano?
- Ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe simungakhale nacho chifukwa cha nthabwala?
- Ngati moyo wanu watha madzulo ano, ndi mau ofunika ati ndi omwe simunakhale nawo nthawi yanji?
- Kunyumba kwanu moto, koma inu munatha kusunga okondedwa anu ndi ziweto. Kuti mupulumutse chiyani mungathamangire kumalo otetezeka otsiriza?
- Kutayika kwa membala m'banja kumakupangitsani inu kudera nkhawa kwambiri?
- Uzani mnzanuyo za vuto lanu ndipo funsani malangizo. Kodi mungayesetse kuti mudziwe zomwe akuganiza za kufunika kwa vuto lanu?
Ndipo musaiwale za mphindi 4-maso!