Galimoto yokongola, zovala zodzikongoletsera, zochitika zamasewera, nyumba yayikulu, antchito, kupuma kumadera akutali a dziko lapansi, chiwonetsero chokongola, kuyang'ana mwachidaliro-apa iwo ali, zikhumbo za mzimayi wamoyo yemwe amadziwa zomwe akufuna. Mafilimu a dziko lonse lapansi ndi otchuka amathandiza kwambiri popanga chithunzichi, kotero n'zosadabwitsa kuti amayi ambiri akuyesetsa kuti zinthu ziziwayendera bwino. Kuti akhale osangalala, mkazi wamakono alibe kutentha kokwanira kwa nyumba ya banja.
Ndi makhalidwe otani omwe amafunika kuti apambane?
Komabe, musanatengepo mbali yoyamba ndikuganiza za momwe mungakhalire mkazi wopambana, tiyeni tiyankhule za makhalidwe amene mukufuna kuti mukhale nawo kuti mukhale ndi cholinga:
Cholinga. Akazi onse ogwira ntchito padziko lapansi adzatsimikizira kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kudzipereka. Ndikofunika kufotokoza cholinga chenicheni ndikuchita chinachake tsiku ndi tsiku chomwe chidzakupangitsani kuyandikira. Makhalidwewa ndi ofunikira, choncho khalani ndi inu nokha.- Kupirira. Popanda kukwaniritsa cholinga chanu, simungapambane. Makhalidwewa ndi othandiza kwa inu nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse.
- Chiyembekezo. Zimadziwika kuti opambana amapindula zambiri kuposa zowona. Maganizo abwino amachititsa ntchito yake, zopatsa mphamvu ndikukulimbikitsani ndi kudzidalira. Kusangalatsa pamaso, komwe kuli anthu opambana, kuli ndi anthu othandiza ndikupanga atsopano.
- Kukhoza kugawa nthawi. Ndi mphamvu yokhala ndi nthawi yolandira ntchito ndi zosangalatsa (nthawi yoyang'anira) ndipo ndi imodzi mwa zinsinsi za anthu omwe amadziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito bwino, ndiko kuti, kupeza zotsatira zofunikira za ntchito yawo panthawi yoyenera. Mkazi wamalonda wopambana ayenera kumvetsa kuti izi ndi zofunika bwanji.
Zinsinsi za mkazi wabwino
Zinsinsi za mkazi wopambana sizomwe zili pamwambazi. Chofunika kwambiri, mwinamwake - ndiko kupeza njira yanu ya moyo, chitani zomwe mumakonda, chifukwa ngati mutachita zokondweretsa, mungathe kukhala osangalala. Psychology ya mkazi wopambana ndi iyi: chinthu chachikulu mu moyo ndi kudzipeza wekha, wanu nokha.
Kuphunzitsa makhalidwe anu abwino ndikofunikira pakuika zolinga zosavuta. Musayambe ndi dziko lonse lapansi, chifukwa, monga momwe amasonyezera, kuti agonjetse msonkhanowu, muyenera kuphunzitsa, kukwera mapiri obwezeretsedwa.
Mwachitsanzo, muyenera kuchepetsa thupi, podkachat minofu, kuikamo kuti muyambe - ndi kuyamba nawo. Zakudya zina ndizophunzitsidwa bwino. Ngati mukuwoneka bwino - izi zidzakupatsani chilimbikitso chowonjezereka, chifukwa mkazi wokongola nthawi zonse amadzidalira yekha, chifukwa amamva mphamvu yake yazimayi. Akazi opambana kwambiri amadziwa bwino kuti maonekedwe akuthandiza kwambiri masiku athu ano. Sikofunika kuti muvekedwe bwino, komanso kuti muwoneke bwino, mupumule, ngakhale mutagona usiku. Chithunzi cha mkazi wopambana chimaphatikizapo kupanga zachilengedwe, khungu labwinobwino komanso chiwerengero cholimba. Kuwonjezera apo, nkofunika kuti musadandaule kapena kuwomba, chifukwa imayankha anthu.
Phunzirani kuthana ndi zopinga, osati kuwopa, koma kuzindikira kuti ndimasewera okondweretsa. Mukamaphunzira kuti musaope zovuta, khulupirirani - vuto lirilonse lidzakufikitsani pamapewa.
Mkazi aliyense wogwira ntchito bwino amakumbukira lamulo lalikulu - kupambana kulikonse ndi kupambana ndiko zotsatira za ntchito yopweteka payekha.