Momwe mungakhalire mkazi wolemera?

Akazi ambiri amafuna fanizo la mkazi wolemera ndi wodziimira kuti akhale okhazikika kwa iwo, koma momwe mungakhalire ndikukhala moyo womwe mukuwalota, muyenera kulankhula mwatsatanetsatane.

Kodi mungakhale olemera bwanji?

Kukhala olemera ndi kofunika, choyamba, mu chidziwitso chaumwini. Ndipo kuti mupeze moyo wa maloto, kusamba mu chuma ndi zinthu zamtengo wapatali, muyenera kugwira ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku pa zomwe mukuganiza:

1. Sikokwanira kunena pagalasi kuti: "Ndikufuna kukhala wolemera ndi wopambana," ndikofunika kuti muphunzire kuona kulemera mu zinthu zambiri zomwe zikukuzungulirani, ngakhale panthawi yovuta. Kumbukirani mawu otchulidwa ndi olemba a ku America amene adakhala otetezeka bwino chifukwa cha zofuna zawo. "Pamene moyo umataya mandimu kwa inu, lizani lemonade mwachangu." Ndicho chomwe chiri chobisika chimodzi mwa zinsinsi zazikulu za moyo, zomwe nthawizonse zimalota. Choncho, yesani kuwona kokha kuchuluka kwa chirichonse. Muli ndi ndalama, koma zili ngati zochepa. Zinyenyeswa zokha patebulo? - Ayi, muli ndi chakudya - zinyenyeswazi zambiri.
2. Sankhani ndalama zomwe mumakonda kuziwona pa khadi lanu la pulasitiki. Kodi mumadziwa kuti mumakhala ndi moyo wochuluka bwanji? Fufuzani golide akutanthawuza: konzani ndalama zomwe zimaposa ndalama zonse nthawi zonse ndi ma 8-15.
3. Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale mtsikana wolemera yemwe ali ndi bajeti? Yankho ndi losavuta: phunzirani kuyamikira. Zindikirani zinthu zabwino za moyo. Kotero, kodi simuli okondwa kuti nyumba yanu yayendetsedwa ndi mphepo yamkuntho kapena sikuyenera kunena kuti "zikomo" kumoyo kuti omwe mumakonda pafupi? Pokhala ndi malingaliro abwino, mumalola kupambana mu moyo wanu.
4. Mu bukhu lake "Think and Grow Rich", lomwe limalongosola za kukopa kutuluka kwa ndalama, Hill ya Napoleon imalimbikitsa kwambiri. kupanga mawu omwe amakopera ndalama kwa inu, Nthawi zonse muziwabwereza iwo, mwachitsanzo, m'mawa kapena asanagone.
5. Yesani pa chithunzi cha mkazi wotetezedwa. Yandikirani maso anu, ganizirani momwe maloto anu anakwaniritsidwira. Dziwani chimwemwe chopeza. Kodi mukufuna galimoto yatsopano? Kenaka molimba mtima muwone momwe mungakhalire kuseri kwa gudumu, muzimva kununkhira kwa nyumba yatsopanoyi, kukhala omasuka kukhala. Dziperekeni nokha kwa zomwe mumafuna kuziwona patapita kanthawi, perekani izi powonekera tsiku lililonse pafupi maminiti 15.
6. Kubweretsa zolimbikitsa , kudziletsa maganizo anu komanso kusaima payekha, mumatha kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna.