Pita mu moyo, gwirana ndi loto lako lokonda ambiri, koma izi sizingatheke kwa aliyense. Kawirikawiri, vutoli likhoza kuthetsedwa pachiyambi pomwe, koma chifukwa cha zochita zolakwika izo zawonjezereka, ndipo zonse zimathera pa phokoso. Nchifukwa chiyani mwamuna nthawi zambiri amachoka kwa mkazi, choti achite, ngati izi zikuchitika ndi momwe angakhalire sizili zoyenera - zonsezi zikhoza kuphunzitsidwa kuchokera m'nkhani yathu.
Nchifukwa chiyani mwamuna achoka kwa mkazi?
Choyamba, zingakhale bwino kumvetsa zomwe mukutanthauza patali. Ngati muzoloŵezi wanu woitana maola onse, ndiyeno pakhomo kuti musapereke miniti yachinsinsi, sizosadabwitsa kuti mwamuna amafuna kudzicheka yekha kanthawi pang'ono. Zidzakhalanso mpumulo walamulo kuposa mtunda.
- Mkazi . Ndi nkhani ina, ngati panalibe ziphunzitso zoterezi, koma mwamunayo adasungulumwa kwambiri, anasiya kukambirana zomwe poyamba zinali zokambirana. Chifukwa cha khalidweli chikhoza kukhala chiwonekedwe chatsopano kapena mavuto omwe sakufuna kukulemetsani.
- Kutopa . Kutheka kwa kutopa kwamba , komwe kumayanjanitsidwa ndi vuto lalikulu la mantha, siliyenera kutayidwa kunja.
- Slump pamaso pa kuwuka kwina . Komanso ndibwino kumvetsetsa kuti nthawi yowonongeka mu chiyanjano si chinthu chachilendo, mtunda waung'ono ndi wabwinobwino, ngakhale ngati ukuwoneka ngati ayi. Pambuyo pa kuuka kwakukulu nthawizonse kumakhala kuchepa, ndipo mu mphamvu yanu kuti musachite izo mofulumira.
Momwe mungakhalire, ngati munthu achokapo?
- Pumulani . Kaŵirikaŵiri osati, amayi, pokhala kuti akutsutsana pang'ono, akuyesera ndi mphamvu zawo zonse kuti amuthandize wokondedwa wake, yemwe sungatchulidwe bwino. Kumbukirani kuti nthawi yomwe simukufuna kukambirana ndi munthu aliyense, mutha kukhala ndi mkwiyo woterewu. Ndiye nzeru kwambiri pazochitika zoterozo ndi kumupatsira munthuyo pang'ono kuti amuchotse maganizo ake. Inde, izi zisanachitike, ndi bwino kulingalira zomwe zingayambitsidwe ndi kupezeka koteroko, mwinamwake mlandu wanu usiku.
- Lankhulani momasuka za vutoli . Funso la choti tichite ngati munthu achoka osati kwa kanthaŵi kochepa, ndi momwe angakhalire pa nkhaniyi, ndi zachibadwa. Zingakhalenso zabwino kuti mudziwe kuti khalidwe ili ndi lotani. Ndikofunikira kuti tichite izi osati mwa mafunso omwe nthawi zonse, zomwe zimamutsogolera. Thandizani wokondedwa wanu kuti azisangalala, mudziko lino, nthawi zambiri sizikuwoneka ngati zovuta kwambiri, kotero chikhumbo choyankhula za mavuto chikhoza kuwoneka. Ndipo ngati mutayamba kumvetsera, muwonetseni kutenga nawo mbali, yesetsani kupeza njira zochotsera zovuta, ndipo musanene kuti izi zonse ndizochabechabe, ndipo amadza kuzunzidwa chifukwa cha zinthu zochepa.