Momwe mungapangire munthu kukuphonyani?

Amayi ambiri amalota kukhala malo a chilengedwe kwa amuna awo. Ngati tikulankhula za momwe tingapangire mwamuna kumphonya mkazi, ndiye kuti sitingathe kuthandizira maitanidwe ndi SMS nthawi zonse.

Kodi mungapange bwanji munthu kuti aphonye patali?

Momwe mungapangire munthu kuti ayambe kusokonezeka mutatha kugawanitsa komanso ngati n'zotheka - ngati mukuyandikira nkhani kuchokera kumanja.

Ngati mukuyembekeza kupatukana kwa nthawi yaitali kuchokera kwa munthu, mukhoza kumupatsa chinthu chapadera. Mphatso imeneyi iyenera kukhala yosangalatsa kwa iye, choncho nyama yambiri si yabwino kwambiri kutero. Ndikoyenera kumvetsera mwambo wake wokondweretsa , mwinamwake amasonkhanitsa mitundu ya magalimoto, timampampu kapena ndalama zakale. Mwinamwake mwamuna wanu adzakhala wodzaza nsomba ndipo adzakondwera ndi nsomba zomwe munagula, kapena bukhu latsopano la wolemba wanu yemwe mumakonda kwambiri lidzakhala lachisangalalo chodabwitsa kwambiri. Mphatso, yofanana malinga ndi zofuna za munthu wanu, idzamukumbutsa za inu.

Ngati mumakhala pamodzi, komanso kupatukana kumachepetsedwa pokhapokha nthawi yomwe mwamuna amagwira ntchito, izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangakuphonye. Kukonzekera chakudya chamakono madzulo, mukhoza kumuponyera kalata ndi zochititsa chidwi. Mwamuna wanu amamva tsiku akuganizira za inu, komanso zomwe akuyembekezera pambuyo pa ntchito.

Ndikofunika kudziwa momwe mungapangire munthu kukuphonyani, koma musakhale osokoneza nthawi yomweyo. Kwa munthu wophonya, muyenera kupeza nthawi zonse zosangalatsa, chimwemwe ndi kuseka, osakhala pakhomo ndikudikirira msonkhano. Mayi ayenera kukhala tchuthi limene sichimudetsa ndi mwamuna wake.

Kodi mungatani kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wokwatirana azivutika?

Ngati mumanga ubale ndi mwamuna wokwatiwa, ndipo mwatsimikiza mtima kumugonjetsa kwa mkazi wovomerezeka, muyenera kumupatsa zomwe zikusowa m'banja lanu. Zitha kukhala chifundo, kumvetsera mwachidwi, kumvetsa chisoni. Mwamuna aliyense amakondwera pamene akutamandidwa, choncho ndi bwino kutsimikizira kuti ali wanzeru, wolimba mtima, wokongola komanso wamphamvu. Azimayi omwe amatha kusokoneza mavuto a pakhomo nthawi zambiri amaiwala kuti achite, ndipo mmalo mwakutamanda amatsitsa maganizo awo ndi mavuto awo pamapewa awo. Ndipo, ndithudi, musaiwale za moyo wa kugonana, momwe muyenera kupereka zosiyanasiyana.

Azimayi ena, atadutsa njira zonse zogwiritsira ntchito zida zankhondo, osapindula okha, amagwiritsa ntchito njira zosayenerera, kuyesa kukopa mwamuna wokwatiwa. Mosasamala kanthu kuti mumakhulupirira kuti privoroty, kapena ayi, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti kuchita chinachake kwa munthu woipa, chirichonse chikhoza kubweza boomerang.