Kupsopsona koyamba kumakhala kosangalatsa nthawi zonse. Kuwonjezera apo, atsikana amakula ndi okhwima mofulumira kuposa anyamata. Mwinamwake iye sakudziwa momwe angakhalire moyenera ndipo akuyembekezera kuti iwe uchitsidwe. Koma ngati simunakonzekere, musamamukakamize. Msungwanayo ayenera kuchita mwanzeru: amafunika kuganizira mozama za momwe angamuthandizire mwanayo potsopsopsona.
Woyamba ndi ndani?
Kwenikweni, kupsompsona ndi sitepe yofunika kwambiri pakukula kwa maubwenzi. Anthu okonda akupsompsonana pamene akufuna kuchita izi pamodzi. Musakonzekere! Njira yokongola kwambiri, ngati chirichonse chimachitika mwadzidzidzi, mwadzidzidzi. Ngati mukufuna kuti mnyamata atengepo kanthu, musamangidwe ndi kukakamizidwa - mnyamata angakhale ovuta kusankhapo.
Pali chithunzi chomwe mnyamata ayenera kuyamba kumpsompsona mtsikana. Kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi, izi zimakhala ndi udindo waukulu. Si chinsinsi kwa wina aliyense kuti mnyamata asatseke chidwi chake kwa mtsikana, nthawi zonse ayenera kuchigonjetsa. Chilengedwe chachititsa munthu kukhala msaki ndi wankhondo. Choncho, ngati msungwana akufuna kupsompsona mnyamata, ayenera kuganizira momwe angamuthandizire kumpsompsona. Mwinamwake mnyamatayo amaganiza kuti ndikumayambiriro kwambiri kuti ampsompsone. Koma, mwinamwake, amangochita manyazi kapena akudikira mphindi yabwino.
Momwe mungamvekere ndi kupsompsona?
- Pamisonkhano, muzimukumbatira. Mwinamwake iye akufuna kukukumbatirani ndi kukupsompsonani inu mobwezera.
- Paulendo, mumutengere dzanja kapena mupeze chifukwa chomukhudza. Kukhudza kumeneku kungakhale chizindikiro kwa iye.
- Ngati iye ali wamtali kuposa inu, ndiye imani pa zala zanu ndi kuyang'ana mmaso mwake. Mudzayandikira, ndipo zonse zidzachitika palokha.
- Mukamanena zabodza, bwerani pafupi naye. Pafupipafupi ndi inu, adzamva fungo lanu labwino. Kulankhulana, kuvomereza pa msonkhano watsopano, koma musachokepo. Pamene akuzoloŵera fungo lanu, yang'anani m'maso mwake. Ndithudi, iye, monga
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- Mukakhala pafupi, yang'anani pamilomo yake. Ngati mnyamatayo ali wanzeru, adzachitapo kanthu.
- Sewani kuvina kochepa. Sinthani zochitika mwanjira yoti pambuyo pa kuvina iwe utenthedwa kwa mphindi. Zingakhale zokwanira kumpsompsona wokondedwayo ngati chizindikiro choyamikira pa tsaya. Pambuyo pake musapite. Mulole kuti aganizire ndikuganiza za zochita zake.