Munthu aliyense ali ndi chinenero chake cha chikondi, choncho musadabwe pamene mutatha kuyankhula mwachikondi mumakhala ozizira ndi chete . Izi, poyamba, zimasonyeza kuti simungathe kumvetsa zimene akufuna kunena. Koma, kuchokera pa izi, funso limayamba: "Momwe mungasinthire munthu, ndi chinsinsi cha chithumwa chachikazi?".
Momwe mungakhalire osasinthika kwa iye?
Ndi mtsikana uti amene sangafune kuyang'ana mwachigololo ndikugonjetsa amuna ndi diso limodzi? Sindinakhale chinsinsi kuti amuna amakonda okongola ndi achinyamata. Ndi ichi, ndiye khalidwe loyenerera lomwe limapindulitsa chitukuko chawo cha majini. Musanayese kumvetsetsa chikhalidwe cha amuna, kumvetsetsa kuti biology ya munthu ndiyo mphamvu yaikulu yomwe imatha kudziwa momwe angakwaniritsire, kugonana. Tikukufotokozerani mndandanda wa zofunikira zomwe kugonana kolimba kumafuna nthawi zonse:
- kukondedwa;
- kugonana;
- zochitika zapakhomo (kusamba, kuyeretsa, etc.);
- Wokondedwa ayenera kumupatsa nthawi yochuluka yake.
Izi ndizo, zigawo zikuluzikulu zinayi, monga mukuonera, zidzakuthandizani kukhala mwamuna wanu wosayenerera. Izi ndi zosowa zomwe zimafotokozedwa ndi zomwe mnzanuyo akunena komanso amachita.
Momwe mungakhalire wofunika kwambiri pabedi?
Kuti mukhale wokonda kugonana ndi wokondedwa, muyenera kusamalira chiyambi cha akazi anu. Zimakhala zovuta kuti munthu ayambe kuganizira za maginito a mphamvu yazimayi. Kotero, pamene pali zambiri mwa inu, mnzanuyo amalakalaka kuti azikhala ndi inu nthawi yochuluka. Iye amakopeka kwa inu. Mphamvu zonsezi zili pamutu, pakati pa mphamvu ya amuna. Koma kuti mutseke kumvetsetsa kwanu ndi kukonda, mutengereni pamimba, mu chiberekero. Izi zidzakuthandizira machitidwe kuti apititse minofu yapamtima (" zochitika za Kegel ").