Ntchito ya mkazi ndi yovuta: samasowa kokha kuti akhale mayi wabwino wa nyumba, komanso kudziwa chinsinsi cha momwe angakhalire wofunikira kwa mwamuna wake. Ndipo okwatirana amachoka tsiku laukwati , nkhaniyi imakhala yovuta kwambiri. Komabe, chizoloŵezi cha moyo chimasonyeza kuti amatha kusankha bwino kuti ndi liti pamene mkaziyo akuzindikira kufunika kokhalabe kwa wokondedwa wake, yekhayo ndi wofunayo.
Momwe mungakhalire wofunikira kwa mwamuna wanga kachiwiri?
Choyamba, zodabwitsa, dzikondeni nokha. Inde, inde, ndi nokha. Kumbukirani kuti nthawi yotsiriza yomwe mudasokera kapena kugula chinthu chatsopano, adavala tsitsi labwino, adali ndi mwamuna wake mu lesitilanti kapena cafe? Kodi simukukumbukira? Kenaka timalemba ndikugwiritsa ntchito ndondomekoyi.
Tayang'anani nokha pagalasi ndikuyankha moona mtima: Kodi mumakonda nokha? Ngati mayankhowo ali "Ayi" kapena "Sindikudziwa," ganizirani, ngati simukukonda kwenikweni, n'chifukwa chiyani mumakonda mwamuna wanu momwe mulili tsopano? Chifukwa chake - chifukwa chake:
- timayendetsa kafukufuku wa zovala ndikusiya kuvala "zinthu zabwino" zomwe zinagulidwa zaka 3-10 zapitazo;
- kupita kwa wovala tsitsi ndi kupanga tsitsi lapamwamba, kuganizira momwe angakhalire wokongola kwambiri kwa mwamuna;
- Timagula zovala zapamwamba ;
- timachotsa mkanjo wouma ndi malo okalamba, chifukwa ngakhale panyumba mumayenera kukhala okonzeka bwino ndi okongola;
- Tikawatumizira ana paulendo, tidzakonza phwando lachikondi "kwa awiri": Mukukumbukirabe zomwe zachitika? Komabe, kuti madzulo azigwira bwino, konzekerani mwamunayu mosamala, kuti asakhumudwe ndi kukhumudwitsidwa chifukwa cha zomwe sangakwanitse kuchita.
Mulole madzulo ano akhale kwa inu, atsopano, atsitsimutso, ndi kwa mnzanuyo, kuyang'ana mwachikondi mkazi wokondedwa ndi wokondedwayo. Musachite mantha kubwerera kwa zaka zingapo (kapena zaka makumi asanu ndi ziwiri) mmbuyomo: Kubwerera kumeneku kungakhale kosangalatsa kwambiri ndipo kungathandize kuthetsa vuto la momwe mungagwirire ndi kugonana.