Mwatsoka, chisamaliro cha wokwatirana kuchokera m'banja sichiri chosowa. N'zosadabwitsa kuti amayi ambiri ali ndi chidwi ndi yankho la funso la momwe angabwerere kunyumba kwawo tsiku limodzi. N'zosatheka kuti vutoli likhoza kuthetsedwa mofulumira, ngakhale kuti, ndithudi, n'zotheka kuyesa.
Malangizo a maganizo a momwe angabwezerere mwamuna wake kunyumba
Akatswiri mu ubale amalangizidwa, choyamba, kuti athetse. Pofuna kuthetsa vuto momwe angabwerere kunyumba kwawo, n'zotheka njira ziwiri: kubisa chitsulo pamene kutentha kapena kugwira ntchito pang'onopang'ono. Chirichonse chimadalira pa nkhaniyi komanso pa chikhalidwe cha mnzanuyo. Ngati atakhala ndi nthawi yayitali kuti asayambe kukondana ndi inu ndipo adakhala naye nthawi yaitali, pomwe adachoka, ngati ubale wanu m'banja sunakhale wabwino, ngati mulibe ana komanso bizinesi, ndiye kuti mumayesa kubwezeretsa munthuyo zopanda phindu. Muyenera kuganizira ngati ukwatiwu uyenera kusungidwa konse. Mwinamwake ndi bwino kupeza chikondi chatsopano ndi munthu wamtima wapamtima, kulola kupita kumbuyo?
Ngati, komabe, mnzanuyo, monga adatchulira, mdierekezi ananyenga, chisankho chake chochoka ndichokha, ndipo iye mwini si munthu wotsimikizirika, ndiye muyenera kuchita mofulumira. Zingakhale zoyenera kukaniza mwamuna wanu: kukonzekeretsa chiopsezo, kugwidwa ndi mantha, kuopseza, kuyesa kudzidandaulira yekha, kupempha chikumbumtima chake, kudula foni kwa iye ndi chilakolako chake chatsopano, kubwera kuntchito yake, kugwirizana ndi achibale, ndi zina zotero. M'mawu ake, kuti achite chilichonse kuti amusokoneze mtendere, mwinamwake mnzanuyo amvetsetsa kuti akufulumira kapena akuwopa chabe zotsatira zosautsa za zochita zake ndipo adzabwerera.
Momwe mungabwezerere mwamuna wake kunyumba, ngati iye mwini adathamangitsidwa, mothandizidwa ndi chiwembu?
Bweretsani mwamuna mwamsanga mwamsanga mwa kugwiritsa ntchito matsenga. Makamaka ndizochita zamakhalidwe ndi miyambo, pokhapokha atachoka osati mwa chifuniro, koma adachotsedwe kale ndi iwe.
Muyenera kuchita izi:
- Yembekezerani usiku womveka, pamene kumwamba kudzakhala mwezi wochuluka;
- tambani mutu wanu kuchokera pazenera ndikuwerengera chiwembu (ndibwino kukumbukira ndi mtima): "Mtumiki wa Mulungu adayendayenda kupita kunyumba, adagwada kwa Mulungu ndikusambitsa fungulo ndi madzi, kudabwa ndi momwe kuwala ndi kuzizira mnyumba ya Mulungu. Kuti m'nyumba mwanga zinali zabwino kuti mtumiki wa Mulungu amakhala (dzina la mwamuna) ndi mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina lake) mwa iye mwa chikondi ndi kupambana kufikira imfa yake. Ameni! ";
- Komanso nkofunikira kuchoka panyumbamo, katatu kuti tiyende mozungulira, kuyendetsa patsogolo pa ife ndi madzi oyera;
- kubwerera kunyumba, kutenga chithunzi cha mwamuna wake ndikumuyang'anitsitsa pamaso ndi mawonekedwe aatali.
Tsiku lotsatira, mwamuna adzalonjezedwa kubwerera, malinga ndi zomwe amakhulupirira.