Ngakhale kuti akazi amakono ali ndi ndalama zambiri mobwerezabwereza kuposa amuna ambiri, amayesetsabe kulenga banja kuti lizindikire monga mkazi, mayi, mbuye. Komabe, kalasi yoyamba ya amayi oteroyo sagwirizane ndipo nthawi zambiri amamva funso - momwe angakwatire ndi mwamuna wa maloto ake.
Kodi mungakwatire bwanji munthu wabwino?
Kuti akwatiwe ndi mwamuna wabwino, mkazi ayenera kumupeza poyamba. Zochitika zamakono ndizokuti nthawi yaikulu ndizovuta ndalama za amuna, koma makamaka pa izo, akazi nthawi zambiri amalakwitsa.
Dziwani kuti munthu woyenera kukhala ndi mwamuna angakhale pazifukwa zingapo:
- iye ndi mfulu ndipo alibe mgwirizano uliwonse (amuna ndi zaka zakubadwa 40 ayenera kukhala ndi chikwati kapena ubale wa nthawi yaitali - izi ndi zachilendo);
- amalemekeza akazi ndipo ali woyenera ulemu;
- iye akugwira ntchito mwakhama ndi zothandiza.
Kodi mungakwatire bwanji munthu wopambana ndi wolemera?
Ngati cholinga cha mkazi ndi wolemera komanso wolemera, ayenera kuyamba "kusaka" atangokonzekera mosamala. Mkaziyo ayenera kukumbukira kuti anthu oyenerera amunawa ndi ofunikira kwambiri, choncho adzafunikira kupirira mpikisano waukulu.
Chinthu choyamba chimene chiyenera kuchitidwa kwa mkwatibwi wokhala ndi munthu wopambana ndi wolemera ndi kubweretsa maonekedwe ake molingana ndi malo ake. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza - kugwirizana, kudzikongoletsa, kukongola. Mayi ayenera kukhala wopanda cholakwa, kuyambira pazitsulo ndi kutha kwa tsitsi. Choyenera kukhala njira ya dona.
Kuphatikiza pa maonekedwe, nkofunikanso kugwira ntchito pazinthu zomwe - amayi okha aluntha amakhala mabwenzi apamtima a anthu opambana. Sikofunika kuti muphunzire zilankhulo zakunja, kuti mukhale katswiri mumunda uliwonse, mwachitsanzo, wokonza bwino. Izi ndizofunikira kuti musakhale munthu wokongola basi - pafupi ndi iye komanso mokwanira.
Chinthu china chofunika ndi chikazi. Mwamuna aliyense akufuna kutsimikizira kuti iye ndi wamwamuna, ndipo izi n'zotheka kokha pafupi ndi mkazi wokongola komanso wachikazi.
Ndipo pambuyo pa nthawi yokonzekera, mkazi ayambe kuyang'ana munthu woyenera. Olemera ndi olemera apamwamba angapezeke pa zochitika zamalonda - misonkhano, misonkhano, ndi zina zotero. Kuwonjezera apo, pali mwayi wapadera wodziwana ndi munthu wolemera mumasewera apamwamba a masewera, mu mpikisano ku polo, golf, kukwera.
Poyambitsa msonkhano, akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangizidwa kuti apeze munthu wosankhidwa nthawi zonse. Ndizofunikira kuti muchite izi mwachibadwa: mukamachezera sitolo, malo odyera, masewera olimbitsa thupi , ndi zina zotero. Chabwino, pambuyo podziwa kuti chimachitika, chirichonse chimadalira kokha pa dona ndi kuthekera kwake kumusangalatsa munthuyo.
Momwe mungakwatire munthu wokondedwa?
Amuna mwamuna wokondedwa, akazi amayamba kulota madzulo a banja ndi ana. Komabe, mwamuna nthawi zambiri samaganiza kuti amangidwa ndi banja. Kuti akwatire wokondedwa, mkazi ayenera kusankha njira zoyenera za khalidwe.
Lamulo loyambirira lomwe mukufuna kuti mumvetsetse mkwatibwi yemwe angakhalepo ndiye kuti musayikane ndi mwamuna, kumukakamiza kuti akwatira kapena ayi. Makhalidwe oterewa amawopsyeza wokondedwa, popeza mawu akuti "Ndikufuna kukwatira" amamveka ngati "Ndikufuna kusungidwa." Ndi bwino kwambiri nthawi zonse kuti ndibwereze kuti: "Ndiwe wokondwa komanso wosamala, ndikusangalala kuti tili pamodzi!"
Maganizo omwe mkazi amasonkhana ndi mwamuna ndi ofunika kwambiri. Oimira abambo amphamvu samawakonda amayi nthawi zonse, choncho sikuli kofunika pamsonkhano uliwonse kuti amuthandize munthuyo ndi mavuto ake. Mkazi wokondedwa ayenera kukhala wokondwa ndi wokondwa.
Chabwino ndi lamulo limodzi lofunika kwambiri, lenileni kwa onse oimira zachiwerewere - mawonekedwe abwino. Ziribe kanthu - mkazi wosakwatira kapena wokwatira, nthawi zonse aziwoneka wokongola. Ndipo chifukwa cha deta yodabwitsa iyi siidayenela - ndizokwanira kuti azikonzekera bwino, ochepa, ndi ovekedwa atavala.