Ngati mumagwirizana ndi nyenyezi yowonongeka: "Ndikufuna kukwatirana mwachikondi chifukwa cha chikondi" (komanso kuwonjezeranso "ndi mwachangu"), ndipo usiku wopanda nyenyezi kubwereza mawu awa monga mantra - zikhoza kukhala zachibadwa kuti mtsikana aliyense akukhumba iwe Ndi nthawi ... mulole kupita. Koma pali uthenga wabwino - uwu ndilo gawo lomaliza likufotokozedwa m'nkhaniyi. Zimatsogoleredwa ndi zolinga zenizeni, ndizitsulo zodzipereka zomwe zimapereka chidaliro kuti ukwati sali loto lopalikira, koma zowona. Kotero, okondedwa akwatibwi amtsogolo, tiyeni tione momwe mungapititsire mwayi wanu wa banja.
Gawo 1. Timapanga zolinga zabwino
Choyamba, ganizirani: chifukwa chiyani atsikana akufuna kukwatira? Chifukwa "chifukwa" mwamuna amamva kuti iwo, monga amayi, amatetezedwa, amakondedwa (makamaka pamaso pa ena), ndizofunikira.
Koma, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mtsikana akufuna ndikufulumira kukwatira, chifukwa "ndikofunikira." Taganizirani: "mukufunadi kukwatira" ndi zomwe zogwirizana? Ngati chifukwa chake ndi chakuti maganizo a anthu akufulumizitsani, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera kusintha patsogolo.
Tsopano dzifunseni nokha: kodi mukufuna kuti mupeze munthu wanji? "Ngati" ndi yankho lolakwika. Anena kuti simukudziyamikira nokha, ndipo kudzisungira kudzikuza ndi sitepe yofunikira pa njira yopita kuukwati. Kumbukirani: simuli nokha, ndinu mkazi womasuka. Mkwati wa Ukwati, maluwa ndi chisangalalo - ili ndi tsogolo lanu.
Gawo 2. Khulupirirani nokha
Maganizo, izi zingakhale zovuta, makamaka ngati mwangomva kupweteka kochepa. Komabe, pali njira zothandiza kwambiri zomwe zimathandiza kwambiri kuti amayi azidzidalira:
- lembani kukambirana ndi wolembetsa. Khalani okonzeka kusintha kwa chikhadini chajambula: katswiri wabwino sayenera kutengera fanizo la zinthu zomwe zili kale mu zovala zanu. Musaiwale kudziwitsa wopanga mafano anu zolinga zanu, kotero kuti zovala zidzakwaniritsa cholinga chanu;
- pamper nokha. Mzimayi wokondana ali ndi mchere wambiri, kukopa amuna. Ngati palibe mwayi wopezera "zazikulu", imwani tiyi ku ntchito yamtengo wapatali "panthawi yapadera", valani zovala zapamwamba, dzigulireni mafuta onunkhira atsopano kapena maluwa.
Khwerero 3. Ufiti wamba
Pali miyambo yambiri komanso zowonjezera, ndikulonjeza kuti mutha kukhazikika m'nyumba mwanu. Koma ziwembu ndizoopsa. Timati tigwiritse ntchito njira zopanda pake:
- Tengani pepala ndikufotokozereni mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo mwachindunji;
- Malangizo odziwika kwa mtsikana yemwe akufuna kukwatira: kugula zovala za amuna. Mmodzi sangathe kudziletsa yekha ku nsapato: musiyeni wosankhidwayo azidikirira m'nyumba kuti apange mwinjiro, mwachitsanzo, botolo la mano;
- Zinsinsi za feng shui zimathandizanso kuti anthu awiriwo alowe m'nyumba. Chipinda chogona ndi kumwera kwakumadzulo kwa nyumbayo ndi chigawo cha chikondi. Zifupa, zojambula zokongoletsedwa, mafano a nsomba ziwiriziwiri - zinthu izi zimapereka kuphedwa kwa mkazi "Ndikufuna kukwatira."
Khwerero 4. Timapita ku kuwala
Kuti mukwatirane, muyenera kukhala komwe kuli amuna. Ndipo musangokhala mu ulusi wamphongo, nkofunika kuti ena mwa amunawo azikumana nanu nthawi zonse. Kotero gawo lawo mtsogolomu lasandulika kukhala suitors. Mayi amene akuzunguliridwa ndi chidwi amakhala maginito kwa amuna.
Chidziwitso: Nthawi yomweyo sulani amuna okwatirana ndi amuna omwe ali ndi amayi omwe sagwirizana nawo (popeza palibe chiyeso chowaphunzitsanso).
Gawo 5. Tulutsani chikhumbo chanu
Kuti chikhumbo chokwatirana sichimasandulika kukhala paranoia, ndikofunikira kumulola apite. Sizitanthawuza kusiya maganizo anu, kungosangalala komanso kusangalala. Mzere wothamanga "nditengeni" ukhoza kumukopa munthu, koma "nditengereni" sungatheke.
Mkazi wosungulumwa nthawi zambiri amapangitsa munthu kuthamanga, mfulu - amabereka chilakolako chogonjetsa. Choncho, ngati mulowa pachibwenzi, mudzasangalala kukhala ndi wokondedwa wanu, osati chilakolako chokwanira: "Ndikufuna kukwatirana, choti ndichite."