Mmene mungakhalire ndi wokonda?

Lingaliro la "wokonda" liri ndi matanthauzo angapo. Ngati mutanthauzira tanthauzo la mau awa kuchokera pa chikondi, ndiye munthu wokondedwa, wokondedwa.

Tanthauzo lina limachokera ku maubwenzi apamtima. Kuti mudziwe bwino, wokondedwa ndi yemwe mumagonana naye ndipo mulibe udindo wapadera kwa wina ndi mzake.

Tanthauzo lachitatu ndi lofanana ndi lomwe lapitalo. Pokwatirana, kugonana kumbali kumayambika ndi wokonda kapena wokonda. Apanso, ubale umenewu ndi wachikondi. Pakati pa abwenzi, chikondi sichingakhale. Ubale umenewu ukhoza kukhazikitsidwa ndi chilakolako, kugonana, chifundo.

Kambiranani lero mmene mungakhalire ndi wokondedwa.

Mbalame za m'mphepete mwa nyanja

Anthu osakwatira omwe amakondana ankatchedwa okonda. Ngati wokondedwa wanu ndi wokwera mtengo komanso wapafupi, mumalota moyo wachimwemwe palimodzi, banja lalikulu ndikuganiza zaukwati, ndiye muyenera kusunga malamulo ena pochita ndi mwamuna:

• musayikani iye. Choyamba ndi chikwati chiyenera kubwera kuchokera kwa mwamuna. Mukhoza kumufikitsa ku izi mwanjira iliyonse, pogwiritsa ntchito zizoloŵezi zazing'ono ndi zidule;
• khalani owona mtima. Chikondi ndi kukondwera nthawi iliyonse. Musamangidwe pa sitampu mu pasipoti yanu. Pamene mumasonyeza kuti muli ndi mtendere, ndipo ngakhale osayanjanitsitsa kuukwati, mwamsanga theka lanu lifuna kukutsogolerani ku korona;
• kukhala wachikazi. Musaiwale za inu nokha kwa mphindi. Yesetsani kukhala wangwiro onse kunja ndi mwauzimu. Pita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, penyani chakudya, khalani okonzeka nthawi zonse. Monga akunena, mu thupi labwino - malingaliro abwino;
• khalani ndi nthawi zonse kukhala mnzanu wokondweretsa. Khalani ndi zokondweretsa, makalasi a moyo ndi nzeru. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi zomwe simukuzidziwa, yesani kukhala "adyera" musanakhale ndi moyo.

Enchanted, ringered

Ambiri ali ndi chidwi ndi funso la momwe angakhalire ndi wokonda, wokwatiwa. Kunena kuti kupandukira ndi kosavuta komanso kosafunikira. Aliyense amachita zomwe akufuna, izi ndi nkhani yapadera kwa aliyense. Ndipo payeso, aliyense adzapindulanso. Ngati mumapeza munthu "kumbali", yomwe ili ndi chilakolako, kukopa, ndikofunika kuisunga patali. Sitifuna kuwononga ukwati - ndizo kusankha kwanu. Choncho muyenera kuyesetsa kuti munthu wokondedwa asakhale ndi mwayi "wokomana" m'banja lanu.

Kodi wokondedwa ayenera kuchita chiyani pa nkhaniyi?

Choyamba, ayenera kukhutira ndi momwe zinthu ziliri pakati pa ubale wanu. Ngati akuyembekezera zambiri, kuti mumusiye mwamuna wanu, mumakhala ovuta naye. Inde, kupatula ngati simukukonzekera kuchita zimenezi posachedwapa.

Chachiwiri, mwamuna sayenera kukhumudwitsa mwamuna wako. Palibe ma sms madzulo ndi maitanidwe. Zonsezi ziyenera kuchitika pa nthawi yeniyeni.

Chachitatu, ayenera kukhala pabedi ndikupereka mphatso. Onse awiri amalandira kuchokera ku ubale wotero, zomwe akufuna: iye ndi kugonana, amamvetsera komanso amadziwa kuti akufuna. Ndicho chidziwitso chomwe chimayambitsa kusakhulupirika kwa amayi. Sikuti kugonana kwakukulu kumafuna atsikana okwatira, kusamala kwambiri ndi chikondi, zomwe sizikukhala m'banja. Pambuyo poyesera kuwonjezera chilakolako cha ubale ndi mwamuna wake, amayi ambiri akuyesera kupeza zomwe akusowa m'manja mwa wokonda. Mphepo yamkuntho ya kumverera ndi kumverera komwe kuli kofunikira kwa aliyense, nthawi zina ingapezeke kokha kumbali. N'zomvetsa chisoni, koma zoona.

Kusakhulupirika kwachigololo ndi chinthu chomwe nthawi zambiri chimapereka malire. Kusamalira banja ndi chikondi, kudzera mwa zomwe zinalengedwa.