Chochititsa mantha ichi poyang'ana mbiri yoyamba kukupatsani inu kukhulupirira mu zozizwa ndi kukhululukira mtima wa munthu!
Ndipo zonsezi zinayamba zaka 40 zapitazo, mu August 1977, pamene anamwino wina wa chipatala ku Iowa anamva kulira kwa mwanayo kuchokera mu chidebe cha "waste" yachipatala ...
Melissa Auden
Anapezeka kuti anali mtsikana akulira - Melissa Oden, yemwe adapulumuka pambuyo poti amayi ake a zaka 19 anali ndi masiku asanu a mimba ya hydrochloric m'mwezi wachisanu ndi chitatu kuti amupulumutse ku mimba yosafuna!
Koma chowonadi chododometsa cha nkhaniyi ndi chakuti amayi a Melissa sankadziwa ponena za "njira yopambanayo". Ndipo munthu yemwe anapempha kuti amveke za mwana yemwe ali mwana wa antchito onse anali namwino wa chipatala ndi amayi ake mbali, ndiko, agogo a Melissa!
Simungakhulupirire, koma mwanayo molimba mtima amamatira kwachiwiri kwa moyo wake wonse, chifukwa anabadwa ali ndi makilogalamu ochepa, ndipo atatha mayeso oopsa a masiku asanu adayamba kupweteka, kupuma kunali kovuta ndipo kuzunzika kunkazunzidwa nthawi zonse!
Koma, mwachisangalalo, lingaliro la akatswiri azachipatala kuti mtsikanayo sangathe kuwona, kumva ndi kutha pambuyo pa chitukuko sikutsimikiziridwa. Patatha milungu itatu, Melissa anasamutsidwa kupita ku ward, ndipo patapita miyezi itatu adatengedwa ndi Linda ndi Ron Odena, omwe adakhala makolo ake enieni.
Zikudziwika kuti banja la Oden linali litakula kale ndi Tammy mwana wamkazi wobvomerezedwa, ndipo pamene Melissa anali ndi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, banja lake linakhala ndi mwana wamwamuna, Dustin, ngakhale kuti anazindikira kuti "alibe"!
Ndili ndi Tammy mlongo wolimbikira
Linda ndi Ron sanabisale kuchokera ku Melissa kuti adatengedwa, koma kuti adapulumuka atachotsa mimba, mtsikanayo adaphunzira pa 14.
Ndiye "choonadi" ichi chinakhudza kwambiri maganizo a mwanayo - Melissa anapanga bulimia, mavuto a mowa adayambanso, komanso kuwonjezera pa zonse, ululu wake wachisoni, adayesa kuyamwa, kuchita ... kugonana.
Ndipo ngati msungwana uyu anapulumuka kamodzi, ndiye kuti adziwononge yekha mu yachiwiri iye sanalole. Kumapeto kwa sukuluyi, Melissa anadzikweza pamodzi ndipo anakhala wophunzira ku yunivesite ya South Dakota. Simungakhulupirire kuti, mwazidzidzidzi, akuphunzitsa kumeneko agogo aakazi omwe ankafuna kumupha! Ponena za Melissa adaphunzira pang'ono, koma mukalasi misewu yawo sinayende.
Chithunzichi: Melissa ndi mwamuna wake, Ryan, yemwe ali ndi zaka 42, yemwe ndi katswiri wa IT
Pa 19, Melissa anasankha kupeza makolo ake. Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, mbiri ya moyo wake watsopano mumzinda umene mayi ake adachotsa mimba anayamba ...
Mtsikanayo amavomereza kuti kugwira ntchito m'makalata a m'deralo ndi kulengeza mu nyuzipepala kunali kutaya nthawi kwathunthu. Chotsatira choyamba chinawonekera patangopita zaka 11, pamene adatha kupeza adiresi ya agogo ake. Anawalemba kalata ndipo analandira yankho kuchokera kwa agogo ake aamuna. Zinaoneka kuti sankadziwa za mwanayo, koma ndi mkazi wake ndi mwana wake kwa nthawi yayitali sakulumikizana ndipo sakudziwa kumene ali tsopano ...
Chithunzichi: Olivia Melissa anabereka mwana wake wamwamuna wamkulu ku chipatala, kumene mayi ake adachotsa mimba!
Patangopita nthawi pang'ono, Melissa adapeza adiresi ya abambo ake, anayesera kulankhulana naye, koma osapindulitsa! Simungakhulupirire, koma kalata yopita kwa abambo ake inagwera m'manja mwa banja lake atamwalira. Ananenanso kuti abambo a Melissa nthawi zambiri ankakumbukira kuti anali ndi manyazi ndi chinachake pamoyo wake. Tsoka, adapezeka kuti amadziwa za kuchotsa mimba ndipo sadateteze chibwenzi chake - amayi a Melissa. Komabe, iye sanayesere kukonza cholakwika chifukwa cha manyazi, ndipo kenako kunali mochedwa ...
Chabwino, kusintha kwatsopano kwa zochitika kunayamba ndi momwe msuweni wa mayi a Melissa anabadwira nkhaniyi. Anamuthandiza mtsikanayo kupeza "kutayika" ndikuuza nkhani ya kubadwa kwake. Makolo a Melissa adakumana ku koleji ndipo anayamba chikondi. Amayi ake anali othamanga, chifukwa omwe anali osasamba kusamba anali ofala. Mwachidule, pasanathe zaka zitatu, iye sanakayikire chilichonse, ndipo pansi pa ulamuliro wake zonse zidatengedwa ndi amayi ake (agogo ake a Melissa). Inu mukudziwa kale mbiri ya kuchotsa mimba.
Simungakhulupirire, koma ngakhale Melissa atapeza amayi ake, sanayesere kukumana nawo nthawi yaitali ndipo amangolemba! Aliyense ankaopa kukanidwa ndipo anali ndi nkhawa kwambiri!
Melissa avomereza kuti samachitira choipa amayi ake ndipo amamukhululukira konse:
"Ulendowu unali ulendo wautali komanso wowawa kuchokera ku manyazi ndi ukali kupita ku chikhulupiriro ndi kukhululukidwa. Koma ndikukana kukhala ndi mkwiyo - iyi si njira yanga. Ndipo mu mtima mwanga muli malo oti chikhululukiro cha agogo anga ndi abambo anga ... "
Mwa njira, lero Melissa ndi wokondwa muukwati ndipo amabweretsa ana awiri. Ndipo iye anakumana ndi alongo ake awiri. Koma chofunika kwambiri - Melissa anapanga maziko omwe amathandizira "omwe amachotsa mimba", mofanana ndi iye mwini. Ndipo iye anakomana ndi anthu opulumutsidwa oposa 223!