Kodi mwakonzeka kukhala kholo?
1. Pita ku malo osangalatsa.
Ndi kubweranso kwa ana, kuyendera kumapaki okondweretsa kudzakhala kochepa kuti muwone mafilimu owonongeka, kuimba nyimbo zazing'ono ndi ana kuti azisangalala. Choncho gwiritsani ntchito mphindiyo: yendani ulendo wokwera kwambiri ndikuyenda ulendo wanu wonse.
2. Sungani ndalama.
Pano ndemanga ndizosafunika: ana ndi okwera mtengo.
3. Pezani galu
Anzanu achikulire amatha kukukonzerani bwino kuti mukhale ndi ana.
4. Werengani zambiri mabuku okhudza kulera ana.
Mabuku okhudzana ndi kulera ana amamveka bwino, koma ambiri a iwo angakuphunzitseni kuti azisamalira mwana wanu chaka choyamba cha moyo kapena choncho. Fanizo ndi nkhani yokhudza mgwirizano pakati pa makolo ndi ana idzakupatsani zambiri: Mukhoza kupeza chithunzi chokwanira cha makolo anu ndi chimwemwe chanu, zokhumudwitsa, ndipo pamapeto pake, zosangalatsa zenizeni.
5. Pitani ku malo omwe mumalota nthawi zonse.
Nthawi zonse ndinkafuna kupeza zomwe zimakhala kukhala mumzinda, m'mudzi kapena m'dziko lina? Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti mukufunika kutenga gawo ili pakalipano! Sankhani pa kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa ana zambiri, goraaaazdo zovuta.
6. Yesetsani kuchita zinthu mopambanitsa.
Podziwa kuti tsopano muli yankho kwa munthu wamng'ono yemwe amadalira kwambiri iwe, mwinamwake, kudzakutetezani kuti mutuluke pamtunda kapena mutenge nawo mbali ya ng'ombe yamphongo. Kotero ngati inu mukufuna kuchita chinachake chokwanira, ndiye tsopano ndi nthawi.
7. Ulendo.
Kuti muwone dziko liri lophweka kwambiri pamene mukuyenera kulipira tikiti imodzi yokha, mmalo mwake, nenani, anayi.
8. Mangani ndi mowa ngati mumadzimva kuti ndinu wodalira.
"Siyani kumwa? O, ine sindiri nkomwe ^ Ine sindingakhoze konse ^ "
Musamadzikane nokha mowa chifukwa choti mukufuna kukhala kholo, koma ngati kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwake kuli kovuta kwa inu kapena kumayamba kukhala mmodzi (ndipo mukuzidziwa mu mtima mwanu), ndiye kuti muyenera kusiya kumwa. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndizosalungama kubweretsa mwana kudziko lino, kusiya chirichonse monga momwe ziliri.
9. Funsani amayi anu ndi abambo zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala makolo.
Makolo anu mwinamwake anabisa mavuto awo a tsiku ndi tsiku kuchokera kwaunyamata wawo, koma tsopano mungathe (ndikuyenera) kuwafunsa momwe zinalili kuti iwo akulereni nokha. Kodi chovuta kwambiri chinali chiyani? Kodi maonekedwe a ana adakhudza maubwenzi awo? Kukambirana momveka bwino pa nkhanizi kukuthandizani kumvetsa kuti maonekedwe a ana amatanthauza chiyani kwa inu.
10. Phunzirani bwino moyo wanu waumunthu ndikusangalatsana.
Kuganizira kusamalirana kwa zaka zingapo kudzakuthandizani kukhazikitsa maziko olimba owonetsetsa maonekedwe a ana, pamene maubwenzi amayamba kukhala ovuta kwambiri.
11. Pezani maphunziro.
Ngakhale kuti n'zotheka kuphatikiza maphunziro ndi kulera ana, izi sizili zophweka! Kuwonjezera pa kuti mukufunika kupeza maphunziro, muyenera kuthandizira banja lanu komanso kukhala mayi kapena bambo a munthu. Ngati muli ndi mwayi womaliza maphunziro anu pakalipano, osati patapita nthawi, chitani.
12. Pitani ku malo odyera.
Ndi kubweranso kwa ana, mungathe kudya kunja kwa nyumba pokhapokha kuzipinda zapakhomo, ndipo ndi zochepa zochepa zomwe mungathe kupita ku malo odyera a posh, koma ndi zovuta zowonjezereka ndi ndalama zowonjezerapo, kotero onetsetsani kuti mukuyendera malo awa lero!
13. Sangalalani kwambiri.
"Chifukwa timakonda maphwando."
Mwinamwake anamva kudandaula kuchokera kwa makolo ena kuti iwo analibe nthawi yoti akhale aang'ono ndi kusangalala. Mukakhala ndi mwana, mutha kukhala ndi udindo wa wamkulu wamkulu. Choncho musathamangire ngati mukukumanabe ndi ludzu.
14. Gwiritsani ntchito bwino msinkhu wa ntchito.
"Monga bwana."
Monga tanena kale, kulera ana sikokwanira mtengo. Choncho, zowonjezereka kuti tipite patsogolo momwe tingathere pa ntchito, kuti tipeze mikhalidwe yabwino kwa maphunziro awo omwe apitako.
15. Phunzirani zonse zomwe mwakhala mukufuna kuti muphunzire.
Izi sizidzangokukhutiritsani nokha, komanso kudzakuthandizani kuthetsa maganizo osokonezeka pazaka 20 zotsatira: "Pamene ana awa adzakula, ndidzakhala ndi nthawi yophunzira kusewera gitala!"
16. Kusangalala usiku wonse.
"Ndinkamwa matewa atatu ndi khofi."
Muli ndi nthawi yambiri yopanda tulo, makamaka pamene anawo ali aang'ono, koma sichidzakhala pa chifuniro chanu. Ndicho chifukwa chake yesetsani kukhala ndi moyo zaka zambiri asanakhalepo ana kuti zifukwa zokha zokhalira kudzuka kufikira 4 m'mawa zinali zosasangalatsa zosangalatsa.
17. Tengani zosankha zokhazikika.
"Mu Vegas, mwana, ku Vegas."
Moyo wa makolo umatsutsana ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa zosankha zokha. Chifukwa chake, pamene mulibe ana, ndipo pali mwayi wapadera, mwachitsanzo, kukwera phiri la Everest, muyenera kuchita.
18. Khalani odzikonda.
"Pulezidenti ili ndi ulemu wanga!"
Mukakhala ndi ana, nthawi zambiri mumakhala ndi zofunikira zawo kuposa zawo. Choncho gwiritsani ntchito mphindiyo ndipo musaiwale kuti muzidzipangira nokha nthawi zina ngati n'kotheka.
19. Kupeza mgwirizano.
Ngati muli ndi makina osasinthika kuyambira ubwana, kusatetezeka komwe kukukuvutitsani, kapena mavuto ena omwe akufunika kuthana nawo, tsopano ndi nthawi yoti muwasamalire. Simungathe kubweretsa umunthu wabwino mwa ana, osadziwika nokha.